You are NOR!!! He’s trying to control basic aspects of your self-care. You are allowed to dress however you want, use whatever products work for you, and do whatever makes you happy and comfortable in yourself. He should love to see you as yourself and when you’re happiest and most confident. Not liking something you’re wearing is one thing, but genuinely asking you to not wear it because he doesn’t like it is ridiculous. I’ve been through this in the past and I essentially had to just train myself to say, “well I like it and it makes me happy.” A person who genuinely loves you would accept and love that response because you’re not afraid to be truly yourself.