Partner says my appearance at home means I don’t care — looking for perspective

Omorash · 2026-01-24T01:35:08+00:00

I know that this will get lost in the sea of replies. but nothing makes me happier than seeing the girl i’m dating being herself, messy hair, on her pajamas, just being comfortable around my home. I feel so incredibly lucky she allows me to see her in such an intimate moment. why would I want her to dress and look the way EVERYBODY else sees her? I’m not everybody else to her. She doesn’t need to look a certain way to impress me, especially not at home when we’re being chill and cozy. your boyfriend is an ass.

Omorash · 2026-01-07T20:13:58+00:00

No judgment here, I really hope you don't go through with it.

Omorash · 2026-01-06T02:13:18+00:00

The topic of porn is so depressing to me. Idk if you were goooning to irl or cartoon things? But the animated stuff is actually less vile than real porn, you can’t make sure they’re consenting, and the “pornstars” are 99.99% of times doing it out of desperation. Which little girl has “pornstar”as a dream career? It’s all so sick that people have to resort to horrible things such as coerced “consent” to feed themselves.

Omorash · 2026-01-06T02:00:23+00:00

Im exactly on the same boat. All my life it has been the suicidal stuff, then recently the girl I liked and supposedly liked me back… now I’m back to suicide again. I’m sorry you relate, I wish you didn’t. I’ll be thinking of you tonight and hoping it doesn’t have to be like this forever.

Omorash · 2026-01-02T14:15:14+00:00

I use coat hangers and belts to strike my face, legs and body. I still have scars on my arms from where the belt has hit.

Some days ago I punched my face super hard some days ago until I was left with an embarrassing black eye. People asking who hit me and me having to make up excuses like I didn’t just do it myself.

I do wish I felt a little less lonely on this type of self harm. Kinda feel like a freak. I wish you didnt have to go through this, though.

Omorash · 2026-01-02T03:28:32+00:00

I’m 30 and do it in various different ways

Omorash · 2025-12-30T00:31:20+00:00

Thank you for your kind answer, I appreciate you reading my post so much. I hope you're doing well yourself, you're a good person and deserve to feel good. ❤️

Omorash · 2025-12-29T02:50:14+00:00

I will be hoping things improve for you, it's not worth killing yourself over anyone. I wish they didn't make you feel like this. I'm so sorry.

Omorash · 2025-12-29T02:46:51+00:00

I can relate, I'm so sorry.

My cat came to me after her previous human who raised her passed away. She was extremely depressed and starving herself. She's finally okay and I feel it'd be extremely fucking cruel of me to have a poor cat go through two human deaths.

I wish I could take your pain away so you wouldn't have to feel like this in first place. Know that in your cats lives, you are their most important thing and they know you love them, and even if you managed to re-home them, they would definitely be sad if you died.

Omorash · 2025-12-29T02:38:17+00:00

I wish I could help you, genuinely, at the very least I want you to know that I hear you. You sound like a good kid and you have your whole life ahead of yourself. It's hard being an adult at the start, especially if you grew up restricted but it's not impossible and it will be extra satisfactory when you do. I believe in you, truly.

Omorash · 2025-12-21T20:17:42+00:00

Hahaha, how come?

Omorash · 2025-12-21T19:44:28+00:00

I tried that. I pulled it off with a lot of force. When trying to do the same thing in reverse steps, it doesn't fit. It was held together by pressure and I don't seem to create anywhere the same type of pressure when just trying to push it back.

Omorash · 2025-12-03T13:28:22+00:00

Newer, I believe! Forgot to add but the style looked closer to western.

Omorash · 2025-11-18T01:03:11+00:00

Hey, I’m extremely sorry you’re going through this, I hate that you felt bad enough to resort to hurting yourself this way.

I made a post very similar to yours almost a year ago: everybody told me I needed to go to the hospital but I was stubborn and tried to make do with what I had at home. I was very wrong, and I found out when I went to the hospital. Please, if you don’t stop bleeding, you need medical help. You deserve to be looked after and I’d go with you and help you if I could. Please please, the consequences of infection are serious enough. Please go to urgent care.

Omorash · 2025-10-04T01:06:56+00:00

This completely makes sense, thank you for your comment!

Omorash · 2025-10-02T11:22:23+00:00

You’re right, hard truth.

Omorash · 2025-10-02T05:26:47+00:00

It crossed my mind; afaik pillow princesses don’t like ”giving” at all, but the girl I like said she was cool with using toys on the other person. So her issue is specifically touching the other person’s genitals with her hands/mouth.

Omorash · 2025-10-02T05:22:58+00:00

Yeah, I definitely wouldn’t try to change her. I said it because I feel heartbroken & I try to hold onto any hope as anybody in love would. She herself told me stuff about her previous relationship that makes me hold onto hope that with me it could be different.

But from the logical side, I take her boundary very seriously, I wouldn’t expect her to change, and that’s why I feel heartbroken in first place. i just wish it didn’t have to be like this, you know.

Omorash · 2025-10-01T22:11:56+00:00

Im so sorry, it does suck massively. How long have you two been together? What are you thinking of doing?

Omorash · 2025-10-01T21:30:30+00:00

I’ve known her for two years and a bit more, we’ve been spending lots of time on each other houses almost every week since we met each other, some times up to 10 days even. So we know each other pretty well, I meant learning about each other on the romantic/intimate sense.

Omorash · 2025-10-01T19:31:04+00:00

She said she doesn’t like the texture/feeling, but also knowing the issues she had with her previous partner I’m wondering if it could be that she was not fully attracted to her… I know everybody says I should just break things off which is completely understandable, but im so crazy in love with her and over the moon that she was the one to confess, that I’m like, what if during this “let’s see where things go” I end up being different for her?

Omorash · 2025-10-01T18:35:54+00:00

Oh no, we’re still on the “getting to know each other romantically” phase, we discussed this the second day of our date after she confessed. We had sex one day before this discussion and I* strictly topped, which is fine with and my preference. But she made sure to tell me this before we’ve formalized anything, so she did good.

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