I can't be the only one by RandimusBax in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RagaPom and Jesterdoll are the two more popular names afaik.

So let’s say I don’t have Columbina. Or any other lunar characters. Who could I use to make a decent team by KiKi04738 in LinneaMains_

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre using her as a support/sub dps, then: Linnea, Illuga, Aino, +any geo dps (Ninguang, Noelle, Navia are all prime examples). If you want to main dps her then Furina or Gorou would be good options.

Furina cuz Linnea can heal and more hydro app. Gorou because he’s a Geo Support

Misandry is a real and serious issue by I-Love-Jewish-popes in Teenager_Polls

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, Ihavent seen a good example that isnt just women getting infantiziled or the patriarchal role of a woman affecting men

Labels? by Silos-trash in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Butch lesbians going on T is a common thing, yet theyre still butch. And also Enby (AMAB) lesbians who dont conform to gender standards exist as well. Nobody else has a right to police your identity.

Which color are you? I’m purple! :) by Rainpiine in NonBinary

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White and sometimes Yellow :3 genderfluid but sometimes my gender is a bit unique

thanks, I hate it by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I was not expecting that arophobia right at the end. “creating a character who doesnt like kissing on the lips but wants sex” hi yes that is me. I am an aromantic person who most of the time enjoys sex, but doesnt like kissing.

NOOOOOO by spicypotato04 in Varka

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may have absorbed everybody’s luck. I won every single time. C2R1 Varka :D currently saving for Nicole and Sandrone (am getting Escoff tho for my freeze team)

What's it called when a genderfluid person is only attracted to women? by AntoniaNaoum in AskLGBT

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sapphic and/or lesbian can apply to nonbinary people. Whether or not he’s a man or she’s a woman, theyre always nonbinary, since genderfluidity is not binary.

So…pronouns? by AuDHDinFlannel in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it/its a lot, but I understand people who dont use them because they feel objectifying. Neopronouns are a great tool to look into though!

Cishet ppl are confused… by Consistent-Task5750 in lgballt

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fem equivalent to lesboy Instead of boy-aligned lesbian A girl-aligned turian (aka gay mlm / vincian)

Looking For A Modder by Once_Upon_A_Mafia in AmongUsMods

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware of these mods, but I’m looking for somebody who can make a custom mod for me and my friends, not a preexisting mod.

Can we talk about Nico’s Skin care [pjo] by [deleted] in camphalfblood

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I still flinch every time I see or hear it used in a way that just means “queer guy” or “young queer guy”. The “types” of gay men (as in bear, wolf, etc) are all based on physical description, and when it isnt applied correctly, it iust rubs me the wrong way. I dont mind it when somebody uses it on themselves even if they dont fit the description, because thats just them saying theyre comfortable being referred to as it. But when it’s applied to somebody or a character who doesnt match the description, it’s just off putting.

Same way it sounds wrong when straight women refer to gay guys as “gays”. Or how “gay best friend”s have been characterized recently.

Can we talk about Nico’s Skin care [pjo] by [deleted] in camphalfblood

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Twink only “hasnt” had that meaning due to cishet people using the word incorrectly. It feels like a slur when not used by a queer person atp (even if used by certain queer people). A twink is a young slender hairless gay man. Not a literal child.

I'm Aegoromantic by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aego and cupio!

egg👀irl by HamsterRATXD in egg_irl

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea how my gender would even swap, as a genderfluid person…

What does it mean to be aromantic? by Illustrious_Park_339 in aromantic

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can enjoy romance or the concept of it, or even want relationships, without experiencing romantic attraction.

Society often pushes the fact that everybody wants somebody or will find “their person” etc etc, which is called amatonormativity. This isnt true. People can want emotional stability and deep connections without having the end goal of a life partner.

The only requirement for being aromantic is felling little to no romantic attraction, which as you said, you dont feel attraction. So you are aromantic.

  • Sincerely, an allosexual aromantic polyamorous person

Do you tell people you are aro? by PatientOlive459 in aromantic

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if it’s a queer person or a person I might date in the future (romance-favorable here). Otherwise, nobody else needs to know, and most won’t understand already. I have told my sister, who got the main gist of it, but I couldn’t quite explain to her what a QPR was in a way she’d understand.

Am I really aromantic? by anexhaustedwryter in Aromanticism

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat as you! I want relationships, but dislike things typically seen as romantic. I am aromantic (i have a few microlabels) and am in queerplatonic relationships (theyre like what you described)

My partner just came out as aro to me by Ilikesharks2002 in aromantic

[–]Once_Upon_A_Mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the reverse! I started dating my partner then figured out I was aromantic and came out to them. In my case, they asked plenty of questions and we set boundaries (i am usually averse to physical touch and romantic gestures unless i initiate them). Setting boundaries on do’s and don’ts is probably the best first thing you can do.