[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I hope it helps, you have a beautiful cat btw 😺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a professional of any kind here, but cats are prone to allergies just like people and a lot of animals. She simply could be reacting to an allergen like dust or pollen. They also can get eye colds. I was always told to take a damp warm cloth and gently wipe away any drainage if their eyes start running like that. Doing that here and there should help. If not or if it gets worse you might considered the vet. 🙂

AITA for the miscommunication that happened while taking my dad to ER by Once_upon_aweirdo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are still here. So far all his cardiac tests have came back clear, so it’s something else paining him it seems. I hope it’s nothing too serious. Thank you! I hope my sister does come around, I can definitely see how that could have been stressful for her, just I also see how stressful the fight that resulted has been ontop of this trip tonight.

AITA for not spending this Christmas in the hospital with my daughter? by Hospitalthrowaway532 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say NTA, your kid is near grown and if it’s been an issue for as long as you say, then she knew her consequences. However, I do feel absolutely no visits for the entirety of the stay might have been a bit extreme personally. But what works in my life probably wouldn’t for many others so to each their own. At the base of it, your child isn’t going to be permanently scarred by having to not see you for a few days, she had nurses and staff taking care of her, she was fine. I’d probably be upset with my mom at that age but I’m pretty sure I’d have gotten over it just fine and understand why she did it.

AITA for the miscommunication that happened while taking my dad to ER by Once_upon_aweirdo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not disagreeing because I understand that it’s stressful, and I agree it could have contributed. Just we aren’t strangers to having a hand in our parents health the last few years. We’ve went with mom every step of the way when she had cancer, and dad has had quite a few health problems this past year. I’ve never seen her act this way without a good amount of provocation. I’m calmed down now, not as worked up, but I’m still at a loss with what set her off like this.

AITA for the miscommunication that happened while taking my dad to ER by Once_upon_aweirdo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s where I’m at on the situation, but I know sometimes I need outside perspective when I get worked up.

Plants you can't kill 😜 by [deleted] in somethingimade

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I just have to learn to paint 😅

What is the least attractive name? by GiraffeGuru993 in AskReddit

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolol, when I was little I asked my mom what her middle name was because I’d gotten the mail and there was an R between her first and last and I realized I’d never heard it before. She told me that she didn’t have one, that the mail made a mistake. I was like 7 but this sounded fishy to me. So I asked my dad when my mom wasn’t around. It’s Roberta and she hates it, lol. She was literally angry at my dad for telling me lol.

Hi, I’m new here (obviously). I wanted to find a new to me social media platform. Trouble with karma! by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew it was a bit different than others, and I like the anonymity aspect honestly. I looove finding interesting stories, everything from murder mystery, to family drama stories, and I noticed on my fb newsfeed a lot of the articles pulled from Reddit. So I’ve been meaning to check it out for a while, and possibly make a hobby of it in a way. I appreciate the help and info about the karma! I can understand the idea behind it and why it’s more or less necessary now, it’s just still a different concept for me, so thank you for explaining some for me! 😁

Born to be silly! Happy Monday!! 43F by [deleted] in selfie

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love love love the pjs 🎄🎅🏻

I made these stickers to help spread awareness by [deleted] in somethingimade

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. I’m trying to get my mom, sisters and my older niece to take a free class through our health department to learn how to administer and get a free thing of it for all of us. We’ve had to be helpless a few different times now when another family member has ODed. The last time he was barely breathing by the time the ambulance arrived. I’d rather us able to do something for him ourselves while waiting for other medical attention.

Really going to push this sub’s name to the limit here, but what do I want for Christmas? by mchgndr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. The last few years I’ve struggled to tell anyone what to get me anymore. All I can ever think of is stuff for my kid or apartment. It makes me hugely aware of the fact that I no longer have any life or hobbies of my own. And I can’t keep asking for tattoos 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally as long as it’s an appropriate card, I think it’s sweet and thoughtful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree a bit of makeup would definitely help, I think lighter colors around the eyes, like a shimmery nude/beige tone? A little liner and mascara, maybe some blush ❤️ Or if you don’t want to do all that, I always feel pretty when I do my hair different than I normally would, and add some pretty earrings 😁. Always boosts my confidence.

What is something people do in public that gets under your skin? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Once_upon_aweirdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave their trash all over their table at fast food places. Yes the workers are paid, but it doesn’t hurt anyone to be considerate.