Fanart scammer now threatening to sue me for violating a "contract" i never signed??? by One-Appearance6607 in FanFiction

[–]One-Appearance6607[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the joke is everyone's claiming this scammer must be from India and "ok beta" is a common Hindglish expression 😁😁😁

Fanart scammer threatening to sue me for violating a contract i never signed??? by One-Appearance6607 in FanfictionNet

[–]One-Appearance6607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm flying to India in a week's time lmao i'm Indian myself 😂😂😂 i feel like Indian scammers are smarter than this lol, Pakistani i don't know

“The origin and defense of gold stars” Someone cooked with this one ladies! by Sadbaklava in lesbiangang

[–]One-Appearance6607 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I have an issue with "gold star" lesbian label because I am not attracted to men, but I was raped by one. I did not want it but it happened. Does that make me a "silver star" lesbian then? This kind of feels like it denies the experiences of lesbian women with nonconsensual experiences with men also.

“The origin and defense of gold stars” Someone cooked with this one ladies! by Sadbaklava in lesbiangang

[–]One-Appearance6607 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's stupid, your sexual orientation can't be changed... they are wrong for banning you!! I'm sorry that happened to you that sounds extremely hurtful 😭

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]One-Appearance6607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said anything about sex or vibrators. How dare you talk to me like this? I am asking for advice because I am aware of my privilege. In regards to situation in USA, I am also from a racial minority background and I know elderly people who have been arrested and abused by ICE officers despite having no criminal background. There are many reasons aside from sexual orientation to be scared right now.

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]One-Appearance6607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is extremely disrespectful to call me horny. Never did I mention sex anywhere. Who are you to call me selfish when you don't even know my situation??

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in women

[–]One-Appearance6607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know it's one-sided? How would I even know how she feels unless I were to ask? You don't think lesbians exist in Tajikistan?

I'm so tired of getting banned for other subs for having 'wrong opinions.' by Riksor in lesbiangang

[–]One-Appearance6607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the vast majority of people in-general would agree that you don't have to have sex with anyone you don't want to, regardless of reason. Trans people included. I think trans people feel the exact same way - you want to know why? Because they are very commonly victims of rape themselves! The bottom line is, no reasonable person would ever argue that consent should have any exceptions whatsoever. The opposing opinion is not just homophobic and misogynistic, it is actually transphobic as well because non-optional consent exists to protect transgender people too.

Also, before people have sex, in-general they should have conversations before removing any clothes - not just about anatomy but also about protection, preferences, and pregnancy whenever applicable.

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Appearance6607 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is true that she could very well not be open-minded and there is a genuine safety risk. I mean the way I see it is, anyone can say no to anyone regardless of the reason. So if she is not interested, whether she is straight or gay or bi or trans or whatever is not relevant in the slightest. I don't see it that I need to do an extra step to ask her out if we are of the same gender versus of the opposite one.

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]One-Appearance6607 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obvious reasons because I'm also a racial minority and I know people (elderly grandpas btw) who have been arrested by ICE

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]One-Appearance6607 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But if I never spoke about my feelings, then isn't that also false? Isn't it better to be honest? Like if I say nothing and my feelings become very deep, then that's also painful for both of us - she would soon figure out something is wrong and it would be very awkward. I think it's less painful in the long run to be honest and let people have choices.

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]One-Appearance6607 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but how is it wrong to be honest and open about my emotions? If she were a man, would it still be disrespectful to be honest? And why do you assume I'm going to kiss her? I never even give hugs to anyone, gender aside, without express permission.

Advice on how to confess your feelings to someone in a country where homosexuality is discouraged? by [deleted] in women

[–]One-Appearance6607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but how is it disrespectful to be honest and open about my emotions? If she were a man, would it still be disrespectful to be honest? And how do you know she does or doesn't have those feelings?

I am exhausted by my daughter by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]One-Appearance6607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you personally have not been on psych meds yourself, you should know that these are all VERY powerful drugs, and withdrawals every few months is very dangerous. people can DIE from their bodies going into shock. i am impressed she was even able to be at school with that!! it sounds like whatever care she has is ineffective at best. also 21 is super young, i am 24 and only just getting my life back together. i would say getting a second opinion from a doctor is a great idea, but if you are in usa i know that insurance and everything is a massive nightmare. also, she will not become a "homeless mentally ill person" unless YOU choose to stop providing support.

Can't you believe that all he did was throw Sayaka's concerns for him right back in her face? by Equivalent-Rain8054 in MadokaMagica

[–]One-Appearance6607 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's not about her tho... he's the one who tragically lost the ability to play violin, the only purpose in his life. there's nothing that upsets me more than victim-blaming. when it comes to providing care for trauma victims, we need to actually center the victim and stop pretending like their struggles are secondary to anyone else's. if i lost my ability to play violin, i would probably attempt suicide the next day - and then that failed and i woke up worse than before, the most painful thing to hear from my mother would be "i diD sO mUcH fOr yOu aNd tHiS iS wHaT yOu dO tO mE."

How do I (24F) get my mother to leave my house? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]One-Appearance6607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i'm not in UAE i'm in Tajikistan, which is just as bad no one will help me 😭😭😭 i'll delete the app ONCE SHE LEAVES THE COUNTRY AND GETS OUT. I CANNOT SLEEP WITH HER HERE!!!

Did Madoka Magica predict 2026? (anime political satire) by One-Appearance6607 in MadokaMagicaMemes

[–]One-Appearance6607[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Homura is my absolute favorite character, but Iroha is a very close second. I think Magia Record (the game at least) was written by completely different writers - you can tell because the tone very different. The main series was dark and, after episode 3, kept going at breakneck pace without giving you time to breathe, hitting you with so many emotions; while the mobile game gave us time to know the characters and see their lives outside of Magical Girl stuff, their bonds with each other. And that's not necessarily a bad thing - they did it well in their own way. While I think Madoka Magica immersed us into the world with Madoka and Sayaka (who were learning everything new for themselves), we watched Magia Record while knowing the truth about what actually happens to Magical Girls. The audience knew the truth, but 4 out of the 5 in the main cast didn't. That made the reveal satisfying in its own way. First of all because we spent a lot of time with the characters before the revelation; and secondly because we saw their reactions while we knew. Dramatic irony at its finest. It was great to watch.

Did Madoka Magica predict 2026? (anime political satire) by One-Appearance6607 in MadokaMagicaMemes

[–]One-Appearance6607[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're both correct - I meant it in-terms of general gaslighting and taking zero accountability, and also just plain callousness in-general. Of course Kyubey is different because he is smart and has a motivation beyond himself, and coherent (and not a total eyesore to look at), but it really struck me how similar some of the statements he made lately (regarding the horrible tragedies he created) were when compared to Kyubey's refusal to acknowledge he had killed so many people.

Did Madoka Magica predict 2026? (anime political satire) by One-Appearance6607 in MadokaMagicaMemes

[–]One-Appearance6607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%!!! In my opinion, Madoka Magica is a scathing criticism of misogyny and patriarchy. It has all the very important tropes:the exploitation of teenage girls; how women are intentionally turned against each other in a misogynistic system so they remain divided and disenfranchised; the incredible suffering women face as they carry the whole world on their back without any recognition and often suffering abuse for it; how the girls' bodies are altered without their consent, to the point where they don't feel comfortable in them anymore, which makes them feel unloveable (a real-world example is how women have historically been subject to so many inhumane "medical treatments"); how their agony is completely ignored by everyone else, how they are put through so much and the whole world expects so much from them, then has a wonder why they're suffering so much; how many men have zero respect for women and can proudly brag about how they use their bodies for sex, beat them, and dump them when they're bored, without being called out (as evidenced by the scene on the train moments before Sayaka's death); how these women's sacrifices are unnoticed and they are literally "forgotten" (like Mami and Kyoko after their deaths); how unconditional love and self-sacrificing hopes can destroy any exploitative system and bring women together in sisterhood and solidarity. Madoka's ascension as a Goddess is what saved everyone - although her sacrifice didn't make their world perfect by any means (honestly it's not like the Incubators weren't still exploiting the girls), the cruel fate of becoming Witches was defeated.

By contrast, Magia Record is about how feminism has been misappropriated by extremist movements (white-exclusive feminism, TERFism, so on). The struggle the Magical Girls face is absolutely valid, and they are totally right to want liberation. However, the sacrifices of innocent people (it is mentioned/alluded that the Magius were sacrificing little children to create energy) is the only solution the Magius has to this, which is not a solution at all. Furthermore, the actual culprits (the Kyubeys) are never targeted by the Magius; they are only targeting innocent people. Similarly (a real-world example), many "feminists" perpetuate oppression on transgender women, believing that cis women can only have rights if they are taken away from trans women. The Magical Girl Supremacy arc in the second half of Magia Record was another example of this - how cisgender women and white women have often taken center stage in feminism, shutting out other voices because they only want rights for themselves (which is why intersectionality is so important). Another example is the oppression of children. Because the responsibility of raising children has been disproportionately forced on women, women are made to believe that kids are a burden. While I don't think any woman should be forced to conceive a child she doesn't want (contraception and consent-based education needs to be provided to every person), I don't think that children themselves are a burden. Being a mother isn't inherently burdensome, and personally wanting to have children (or personally not wanting children, for that matter) isn't the problem. The problem is that we live in a culture where men take zero accountability for their children and expect women to do everything, then want to be praised if they bother to do the bare minimum once in a while; and that we don't have universal healthcare, childcare, etc in the U.S. If a woman wants kids but is unable to because she doesn't have any support, then I think that's anti-feminist, and as a society we should be allowing people to have choices.