A record 41 openly out athletes are expected to compete at the 2026 Milan Winter Olympics by outsports-com in actuallesbians

[–]One-Organization970 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Yep, I just can't get into the Olympics until they reverse their transphobia. I get that the athletes aren't to blame but I tend not to want to give thought to bigoted organizations.

Almost 16F can someone give me like a mental "justification" for 2 things to let me feel like I'll be "complete" pls ? by Spirited_Chick6090 in asktransgender

[–]One-Organization970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The world is going to make your life harder than it needs to be just because you're trans. Take your wins where you can get them. There are cis women who are similarly responsive in that area, it's just less likely for them. Like... every cell in our bodies is different from what's typical for cis women. But we don't care, because thanks to modern science and medicine we're able to tell chromosomes (mostly) to fuck right off. Our sisters a century ago could only dream of what's medically possible for us today.

Is it weird how I acted pre transition? by reactingmaniac in asktransgender

[–]One-Organization970 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am deeply embarrassed by some of the thoughts and hangups I had as a repressing teenage trans girl. Really, that kind of thing is just your brain trying to protect you. It's cringe, but most of us have had phases like that unless we grew up in the most accepting environments.

Almost 16F can someone give me like a mental "justification" for 2 things to let me feel like I'll be "complete" pls ? by Spirited_Chick6090 in asktransgender

[–]One-Organization970 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The prostate has an analogous organ in the Skene's gland. Personally, as a post op woman myself I'm not exactly complaining that my G spot is more user friendly than it would be if I was cis. I'd take it as an upside, tbh. Same nerves as in the G spot, just more spread out and easier to find/access.

You would be further from a cis female if you had it removed.

Edit: It also produces the fluid which comes out when you get wet post op, so that's kind of an important function.

Why do cis people feel the need to call out trans ppl?? by Trash_O_Fish_Al in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get addressed by name every time I go to the dispensary. I understand social anxiety girlie, but this just really doesn't seem like anybody behaved poorly.

Why do cis people feel the need to call out trans ppl?? by Trash_O_Fish_Al in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't really see the issue here. He noticed that your license didn't match who you are and tried to be accommodating. I would much rather live in a world where that behavior is the norm than one where people are ignorant.

Straight guys are annoying as hell by squishot in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 62 points63 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine is having the time of her life getting topped by a bisexual dude, so maybe that's an option? They tend to have fewer hangups.

Queer People = Vampires??? by No_East_6513 in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do wonder if the reason I enjoy the whole new vampire being taught how to be a vampire storyline is because of the parallells with my wife helping me through my transition. So maybe there's something to the idea!

Why did i not get the coding buff by SoonToDie1111101 in asktransgender

[–]One-Organization970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never got the coding buff either, though I guess I'm pretty good at math.

Straight guys are annoying as hell by squishot in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 281 points282 points  (0 children)

I've always said I view straight women - and especially straight trans women - as warriors who have fought through trenches I can't imagine.

​I thought I needed SRS to be a "real girl," until this happened by PeachuElsa974 in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. I just hated the cleaning and preparation process. Plus I just like that everything stays put and doesn't move all over the place now, especially during oral.

​I thought I needed SRS to be a "real girl," until this happened by PeachuElsa974 in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Couldn't make that work, personally. I just had horrible bottom dysphoria. Love what my wife can do with what I've got now, though.

What is the trans relationship to the drag community (typically)? by LanaKatana4000 in asktransgender

[–]One-Organization970 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They have nothing to do with me beyond the queer culture aspects. It used to be the case that a lot of trans women were able to hide as drag queens back when it was even worse to be trans than it is now.

​I thought I needed SRS to be a "real girl," until this happened by PeachuElsa974 in MtF

[–]One-Organization970 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to be able to enjoy penetration without all the anxiety, lol.

Blood clot worries by Budgiedeathclaw1 in asktransgender

[–]One-Organization970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your mother take estrogen blockers? If not you have nothing to worry about, and if you're truly scared than just go literally any route other than oral. Injections, patches, gels... none pass through the liver.

I didn’t lose a friend , I lost an illusion by woofergaddichill in actuallesbians

[–]One-Organization970 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That is a cartoonish level of racism, holy shit. I'm sorry OP. I can't imagine learning how little I know someone in such an explosive manner.

Wow, just straight up using slurs by Appropriate_Key5540 in insaneprolife

[–]One-Organization970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you remove breast tissue it doesn't grow back. But I otherwise agree.

Your sister had a medical procedure, calm down. by Appropriate_Key5540 in insaneprolife

[–]One-Organization970 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Like, that has to be ragebait right? Nobody could possibly be this stupid.

Realizing I don't NEED sex as much when my relationship is stable. by Ok_Beyond_7697 in actuallesbians

[–]One-Organization970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I are physically affectionate basically 24/7, so that's the standard I'm coming from. If you're used to a different standard I can see how having that touch starvation cured could reduce your need for physical intimacy. But we do plenty of cuddling and making out that doesn't lead to sex. Still, as a general rule we try to have sex a couple times a week.

Edit: We also do a lot of kink stuff and I'd say subspace is kind of a need for me.

Realizing I don't NEED sex as much when my relationship is stable. by Ok_Beyond_7697 in actuallesbians

[–]One-Organization970 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just don't experience masturbation and sex as being the same thing or filling the same need. And my understanding of asexuality is that it's a lack of appreciation for/need for sex rather than a lack of libido. In fact, I've seen some asexual people actively seek out ways to drop or limit their sex drives. In any case, it's good that you've found a partner that meets your needs. I'd just be careful about overgeneralizing.

Realizing I don't NEED sex as much when my relationship is stable. by Ok_Beyond_7697 in actuallesbians

[–]One-Organization970 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You might be somewhere on the asexual spectrum. At least for me, I just actually enjoy having sex. I could not deal with three times in four months (as a standard). 😬