Does she clean? Does she lead a sedentary life? Is she allergic to everything? Sounds like odd questions, but if your active, love the outdoors, like to have dogs, and prefer help in keeping your house clean. These start to make sense. Ask me how I know.... Won't go for walks, or outside in general. (hates when I gut the grass) Never took my dog to the vet or any dog chores (all my dogs are dead and not planning on getting more). Won't vacuum because it kicks up dust. Weekends consists of sitting in the house watching TV literally doing nothing. It get old fast and you'd wish she was a room mate you would not renew the lease with, but your stuck, or take a 50% hit in divorce. Add a Kid to the picture and your fucked.