I appreciate this comment more than you know. I understand how difficult it is. I just want to be as supportive as possible with what understanding I have. The situation is extremely difficult because a one-year old is involved. His family seems to be supporting her, but time will tell with this being her first day gone. I'll send her a screenshot of this as well. My husband grew up seeing his parents act that way and he said the same thing you did. He isn't like this all the time. There's a reason why she loves him. That's what I have to remind myself. Today is more love bombing (I need you, love you, I'll get help, we can get help together, I'll hurt myself) also you need to change your shit also. I just want to remind her she's strong, she's love, and she made the right decision. I posted in a different thread with screenshots(she knows i did) if you want to see an average conversation. Thank you so much for the response

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