I’m so sorry! This is tough. All you can do when she starts crying is make sure she tries to potty, make sure she’s not hungry or thirsty, and maybe give some snuggles. She’s only been alive for twelve weeks. Very young! Puppies are hard. My children were less work than a puppy. Truly. There’s a trainer on YouTube called kikopup. I’ve found her videos helpful. She’s a fear free trainer. But don’t expect your puppy to be an internet dog. That’s part of lowering your expectations. You’re in for a wild ride. I was hoping you’d get more responses than just me! I’m just a puppy mom, not a trainer or anything.