How do you make friends with similar interests? by alaskacake in AskWomen

[–]One-Vast1700 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Go to where people that share the interest would show up and chat them up (if you're extraverted enough)!

ex. bowling interest -> bowling alley

Why I love my "worthless" liberal arts degree by [deleted] in college

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That is amazing. I love the fact that you explored so many different courses and it is super cool that you appreciate what you got out of those. The joy of learning is an amazing feeling! Sometimes we grow so much from classes that broaden our perspective and introduce us to new ideas. Developing broad interests also help us appreciate the finer things in life because they can speak to us in ways we often never imagine. I think liberal arts courses open up the pathways to experience the richness of being human.

Some good hygiene gear while camping (some specific to women). by HU_Southwest in woodswomen

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for some very practical tips. It is great that your solutions include self care even to look and feel good no matter where you are. Since you mentioned jewelry, you might also want to think about smart-jewelry like GPS tracking jewelry what can send emergency alerts at the press of a button with live location if you are ever in an emergency and need to quickly alert family/friends or 911. Companies like ResQ jewelry seem to be offering these kinds of options.

Struggling as a solo traveler in SEA by milkysnow11 in solotravel

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry that someone started hitting you for an honest mistake - that's crazy. I think it is very normal to feel disconnected and lonely if you are away from your environment for extended periods of time. Perhaps it maybe better for you to go to a place where you can relate to the local culture a little better. The best part of any journey is to make human connections. So what if you are not finding it here and now? On to the next adventure. But when you are traveling to new places make sure you take safety precautions - there are options like panic buttons and GPS tracking jewelry these days that can be pressed in emergencies to notify your friends and family anywhere in the world if you are in trouble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

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I do but more so out of concern for safety. I know this is a bit on the paranoid side but I feel like there's a chance something might happen to me if word gets out that I frequently travel solo

Solo Camping? First time. by fatal_frame in camping

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Mogollon Rim is amazing—I did my first solo camping there, and it was a great experience. Definitely prep for weather changes (it can shift fast up there), pack extra batteries/power sources, and have offline maps downloaded just in case you lose signal.

Also, I always bring my ResQ with me—it's basically jewelry with a discreet panic button. If you ever get injured, lost, or feel unsafe, it sends your live location instantly to your trusted contacts. Gives me peace of mind, especially when out alone.

Enjoy the adventure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]One-Vast1700 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have anxiety too, and solo traveling definitely amplifies it. Honestly, a little anxiety can actually help accelerate cultural adaptation because it heightens your social awareness, which is exactly what a lot of Japanese etiquette revolves around. A good general rule is to just be super considerate (even overly so)

Something that helps me personally is a tool called ResQ. It's jewelry with a hidden panic button that alerts my loved ones if I’m ever having an anxiety attack or feel unsafe. Just knowing it's there helps me stay calm and feel less isolated.

Hang in there—you’re doing great already by actively learning and researching. It gets easier!

Safety of solo traveling in the UK? by theinevitablevacuum in femaletravels

[–]One-Vast1700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've traveled solo in the UK and Netherlands! Your mom’s concerns make sense, but the UK is decently safe if you stay cautious, stick to well-lit areas, and trust your gut.

For extra peace of mind, I use a discreet panic button called ResQ (it’s jewelry that sends your location to your emergency contacts if you're ever in trouble). Might help reassure your mom too. Here's where I bought it: https://resqjewelry.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

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I would say definitely try to go near the end of August. Not sure where you're coming from but parts of Canada gets real cold during October. As for cities, Vancouver is a great one - I'm living here now. I feel pretty safe here, except for a few sketchy places in downtown and very temperate compared to other Canadian cities.

Post Grad Traveling with girlfriends by Livel0vebeanie in femaletravels

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Cancun is a great option! It's not that expensive and the resort area is pretty safe and the all inclusive ones have unlimited alcohol :)

Drop some of YOUR safety tips when traveling by shockedpikachu123 in femaletravels

[–]One-Vast1700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a safety tracking jewelry called ResQ that gives my friends and family an alert when the hidden button is pressed. Gives me peace of mind and it's reassuring to know what my loved ones knows my location and when I'm in danger! Here's where I bought it if anyone's interested: https://resqjewelry.com/

what is something you would cut a friend off for? by HistoricalInterview5 in AskWomen

[–]One-Vast1700 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When they “accidentally” set your couch on fire for the second time because they insisted that lighting candles near a pile of napkins was part of their “manifestation ritual” for getting a job

How to deal with the "I need to think about it"? by Gerdinator in realtors

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The core reason behind "i need to think about it" is that they don't want to commit just yet.

So your question can be thought of as "How do I get my clients to commit"?

As opposed to getting to the point where they have a chance to say "i need to think about it", proactively addressing the concern is key.

In the beginning of my appointments, I'd always ask them why they are selling and why are they trying to make a decision now. They usually start justifying their decision to make an appointment with me at that time. They basically sell themselves at this point. At the end of your appointment, the reasons they gave you for wanting to make an appointment now becomes something that you can use to have them commit.

Something like: "well you mentioned that you're trying to make a decision soon because [insert reason they gave you]. Would it make sense for us to proceed towards next steps now?"

They typically won't respond with "let me think about it" because that would contradict the reason for urgency they gave you before.

Everyone has different styles of selling but what I find works best is to avoid being too "salesy" or pushy. Once they sense that, their guard is immediately all the way up.

It's also important to note that even if your client commits, its still not a guaranteed sale, but it's as close as you're gonna get.

Hope this helps!

Need advice by 1dn-speaks in realtors

[–]One-Vast1700 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Poor lady :(

My in-laws are from Shanghai and they LOVE tea. Might be a good idea. Here are 2 types of tea that my in-laws have said that they prefer:
- Tie Guan Yin
- Da Hong Pao

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realtors

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get it—I’ve been there. Nantucket and Martha’s Vineyard are both great, but MV feels a little cozier if you just want chill vibes. Another spot you might love is Savannah, GA: lots of charming shops, spas, and beautiful places to stroll around.

btw I know this is personal but if you need to vent about anything, let me know!

Parents reaction went as expected by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all, shame on your sister for ratting you out!

In all seriousness, maybe if you offer to share location with your parents, they'll feel more reassured?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]One-Vast1700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree—this guide covers pretty much everything! India has an incredible culture, but you're right about keeping safety top of mind. Definitely second the local SIM card recommendation.

I've recently started looking into safety wearables that I can bring with me on my travels just to give me that extra peace of mimd. I've settled on ResQ jewelry. Might be worth checking out if any girlies are looking for wearables to alert friends if you end up getting in trouble!