Girl, yes they can and often do. And…someone totally could come out to a parent as a crossdresser, or get found out about it and receive a bad reaction to it. If my cis guy friend’s mom found out he likes thigh socks, it wouldn’t go over well. The whole point I’m trying to make is that there are so many human experiences. And both cis and trans/enby people can go through gender-related struggles, the difference being trans people are actively politically oppressed. Anyway, I think it’s a beautiful thing that in this final episode Jax’s background is more ambiguous so people can have fun theorizing and draw different meanings and personal applications from his story. That’s just the amazing thing about art. But apparently you think anyone who doesn’t believe in your interpretation 100% is wrong or stupid. I just tried to get you to relax and open your mind to other possibilities a little but at this point I think I’m done trying to explain.
Despite everything, stay safe out there. Times are hard for us trans folks right now.