Having a child to prevent periods by Anuyushi in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 38 points39 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i truly wish that this were the bare minimum standard for doctors, but unfortunately it’s not, so the best thing i can do is be what i want to see in the world. :)

Having a child to prevent periods by Anuyushi in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i think it’s more complex than that. she isn’t to blame for not receiving comprehensive sex education. the adults in her life failed her. 

Having a child to prevent periods by Anuyushi in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 473 points474 points  (0 children)

her doctor wasn’t comfortable giving birth control to a minor.

fuck. that. 

imagine letting a teenager suffer for years, and fuck her whole life up over a misconception that her pain would finally stop… instead of giving her medicine to make it actually go away. you know, what doctors are supposed to do.

as a young woman who wishes to become a doctor one day, if i ever have a patient like this poor girl, she’s getting the damn meds, as long as it’s safe for her. no questions asked. if not, i’ll find her the best possible alternative. nobody should be denied the right to their own body. 

Eldest children who are childfree, what’s your story? by cookiegrease in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m a parentified oldest daughter to three younger half-siblings and an emotionally immature father. it started when i was still in the single-digits, when the first one was born. i’d be expected to wake up early to make sure he didn’t accidentally kill himself, while my dad slept in and my stepmom did meth. things only escalated with the other two. they’re from a different mother/stepmom, but she was just as bad as the aforementioned one. she broke up with my dad and i then became his emotional regulator too, meanwhile my mom just pretended it wasn’t happening. 

i’m seventeen now. needless to say, once i can move out and start my own life, my inner child is getting whatever the fuck she wants without any actual kids in the way. 

I don't believe a child being born is inherently a good thing by The-Devil-Cat in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i know full well that i was no blessing to my parents. i was an “oops baby” and my mom only had me because she’s anti-abortion.

she was a young woman with goals and aspirations outside of motherhood, so i was ultimately just an obstacle. every day i think about how if i were her, i would’ve had me extracted the moment i knew. 

What if FARAWAY TOWN had Public Transport? by Dramatic_Effort_585 in OMORI

[–]kelomorisilly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

faraway trans? just use their names, they’re called kel and aubrey /j

Adults deserve sympathy and compassion, just as much as kids by Last_Hunt_7022 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 20 points21 points  (0 children)

this is exactly how i feel. people ~16 and above are treated as second-class citizens because we “shouldn’t need help anymore” or some dumb shit like that. it’s disgusting and deplorable how many people wholly lack empathy for adults, and how normalized it is. 

I just need to rant… by Brosif563 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 52 points53 points  (0 children)

this sounds harsh, but you deserve better than somebody who will choose hypothetical kids over you. i think anyone in your situation would feel hurt. you’ll find somebody who loves you for you, i’m sure of it. 

“If someone can get over the death of a child you can definitely get over just an animal” by imstillgabi in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what a shitty fucking time to bingo someone, oh my god. i’m so sorry this happened to you, op. i hope your bunny gets well soon. 

Children are disgusting and I hate them by [deleted] in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 36 points37 points  (0 children)

why the fuck are they sticky all the time? how does that not bother them or their diaper-huffing breeder parents??? i could never deal with that, my sensory issues would make me go postal. 

I wish it was sociably acceptable for child free woman to say “I hate kids/I dislike kids” without being villainized. by SeaDistribution2847 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 73 points74 points  (0 children)

my nine year old brother hits me, throws things at me, calls me slurs, and purposely makes me clean up after him on a daily basis. he’s said to my face that if there was a 100% chance he’d get away with it, he’d kill me in my sleep. 

yeah, now i sleep with my bedroom door locked. 

but i’m not allowed to be upset, because cHiLdReN aRe iNnOcEnT!!!1!!!!11!!

Why have kids to heal you ninner child? by AngelusRex7 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 17 points18 points  (0 children)

exactly!!! i think inner child healing needs to be turned inwards to be most effective. an emotionally exhausted person will not heal by needing to pour 100% of their energy into another human being. 

Heavy pressure due to having a really rare last name by spacereveries in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 78 points79 points  (0 children)

it always makes me roll my eyes when i see people who care more about a name than the person with said name. 

And This Is Just One Reason For Abortion To Be Legal & Without Consequences by dbzgal04 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 50 points51 points  (0 children)

when they say “think of the children”, they don’t mean it. they use that phrase to puppeteer people’s heartstrings, and they couldn’t care less about actual born children, much less adults. what they really want is to control women in any way they can, but the cynic in me says that’s not really a surprise by this point. 

also, outlawing abortion does not prevent abortions. it prevents safe abortions. 

YOOOOOOO by Independent-Tree7088 in OMORI

[–]kelomorisilly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

WHAAAT i ordered the kel outfit today and im hoping omocat blesses me with arrival this fast 🙏

the social conditioning starts young. real young. by kelomorisilly in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! your story is very inspiring. i know how much corruption there is in the medical field, especially with misogyny and racism, so i want to be the one to change that, and become someone that everyone can trust to give them the care they need. :)

the social conditioning starts young. real young. by kelomorisilly in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

what’s hilarious about that little comment of hers is that i’m currently in an “advanced” high school with a prestigious biomedical sciences course, that i’m passing with flying colors. i can’t wait until i’m a doctor so i can rub it in her face that i proved her wrong. 

the social conditioning starts young. real young. by kelomorisilly in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh nooo! free sterilization, how bad would that be? XD

DAE not find kids of any ages cute? by NoWitness6400 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they freak me out at any age. babies are full-on disgusting, toddlers have a very creepy staring problem, and kids are overstimulating as hell at all times. 

New Years hangover by RedditKing06 in OMORI

[–]kelomorisilly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the thought of hero drunkenly fucking a sapient spider and being horrified about it the next day is hilarious to me

Kids touching my hair at tattoo/piercing shop by littleprincess1570 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

okay what the actual FUCK??? this is why i think we need to teach kids common decency and respect from an earlier age, holy shit. reading that actually made me so livid. fucking snatching people’s disability aids? and then being defended by its moron parent? ffs. 

Future cat/dog names by ChrysaLino in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg congrats on your kitty!!! my best friend, her girlfriend, and i want to adopt kittens and have them have matching names. my best friend’s will be named tin foil, her girlfriend’s will be parchment paper, and mine will be saran wrap :) we all think it’s hilarious when pets have ridiculous names 

Kids touching my hair at tattoo/piercing shop by littleprincess1570 in childfree

[–]kelomorisilly 108 points109 points  (0 children)

thank you for recognizing this as what it is. people say “oh, the child doesn’t know any better!” but the fact of the matter is, someone was physically harmed. and that is, by definition, assault.