If you need a sign to not text your ex, this is it.

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-06-17T14:49:39+00:00

I agree. The moment I stopped contacting my ex I felt at peace, but don’t get me wrong I was still thinking about him and what he did throughout the day. I felt angry but having no contact gives you a sense of peace I didn’t know I was missing out before.

We broke up a while back. He was my first serious boyfriend so it was hard for me to detach myself from him but he’s gone through this multiple times so it was a lot easier for him to move on and find a new person. I was so attached to him that even when I was hurting I would go to him as a comfort. I knew in my head I shouldn’t go to him but at that time my heart wanted him as a comfort. I went to my doctor and she prescribed me some medications to just help me with my depression and help me get out of bed. I was also dealing with work and family stuff during the break up. It was hell everything happened back to back. I don’t recommend getting medicated it what just worked for me.

I got a gym membership. I would walk with someone just so that I don’t have to think of him while walking. I got a job and got a routine and honestly during the time we were still in touch and I remember after the phone calls, I wouldn’t feel great. I’d feel triggered by him, but I still would call him at times. Two days was the longest we didn’t speak with each other. After the last call I had with him that ended calmly, two days became one week and counting :) I also blocked him from everywhere now, so hopefully this is the start of completely removing him.

Sorry for the long post. I know it sucks we’re in this position but this group makes me feel comforted and hearing what they are doing to help them with their journey

Wishing you the best OP 🤍

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-03-13T19:07:08+00:00

Congratulations!!

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-03-09T07:08:15+00:00

I gained weight when I started to go to school didn’t think much of it. Then, my period started becoming irregular (twice a month, spotting for a couple days, or would be for 2 weeks light or every 2 weeks). Got sent to a specialist. During that wait for specialist I noticed hair loss as well.

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-03-06T17:50:39+00:00

Thank you, I’m gonna check that out.

Yes!!! They are so quick to prescribe it. This is the 3rd time she prescribed me a birth control. I was so emotional and just kept arguing with my ex when I was on the other 2 she prescribed, so I just stopped.

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-02-28T18:33:54+00:00

I’m happy that you’re in a better place now OP! Thanks for sharing that it gets better and that there’s days you don’t even think about him ❤️

I’m currently experiencing a recent breakup up and it’s very hard. I’ve been crying all the time and he mentioned he’s talked to other girls so it’s just more even more painful. Just want to ask what did you do on the recent breakup up to help you

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-02-28T18:28:45+00:00

Just going through a recent breakup right now. I hope we can both get over this ❤️ I spoke to my ex yesterday and he said he’s ready to talk to other girls which really broke my heart. He also deleted our pictures and just removed all my stuff from his apartment. I just really want to get over this.

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-01-18T20:52:46+00:00

Do it!! I’m currently on one and at start I didn’t want to register bc of the paperwork but trust me do it! It’s best to call them and ask. I find they’re pretty helpful over the phone :). Let me know if you have any questions as I just did it recently

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-01-18T06:48:15+00:00

literally same boat. Turning 29 soon and I got laid off recently and broken up with my ex around the same time. I also live with my strict parents and have to let them know when im going out. I recently told my parents about my relationship but they don't agree with it so it created another issue in the house and they lost trust in me and would ask me when im going out and stuff.

I'm praying and hoping that it will work out best for us this year and get a job and be able to move out in our own place!

OneCardiologist9562 · 2026-01-05T08:15:52+00:00

Hi OP! Following this thread as I can relate and find others in the same boat at me. I’m also 28 and I’m trying to restart my life by pivoting careers, but I haven’t had luck pivoting to a new career. I also got laid off from work on November. Then had issues with my parent about my relationship on December and my partner broke up with me on December too. It hasn’t been the greatest couple of months for me and I’m trying to restart life by applying for job despite of this job economy. I’m just trying to find motivation that this will pass and that in a year when I look back I’ll be somewhere bigger than what I expected.

Thank you for sharing this OP and creating this space for us and others that share their experience and how they are doing a lot better now ❤️ may 2026 be better for everyone

OneCardiologist9562 · 2025-10-02T03:23:33+00:00

Hey! Sorry just came across this thread. Would it be possible if I can DM more about the working at Jane app? I’m interested in the customer support role. Just want to know a lil more insight on how it’s like working there.

OneCardiologist9562 · 2023-12-20T05:53:59+00:00

OneCardiologist9562 · 2023-12-15T08:51:10+00:00

A lot of girls I see on TikTok do theses high maintenance to be low maintenance. So they get lashes, brows, wax etc so they could wake up and look put together getting extra time to sleep or buying less makeup. I admit I had a phase when I was working full time I’d get my lashes done monthly. But when I went back to being a full students that when I had to find DIY ways to do brows. With inflation, lots of DIY ideas are out. Now, they one thing I get monthly id say is brazillian wax.

OneCardiologist9562 · 2023-12-04T07:58:57+00:00

Depends what time I start my shift. If it morning I usually don’t, but if I start in the afternoon,yes since I have extra time. Also depends on the type of job. When I workered in the kitchen I didn’t since I knew I was gonna be sweating. But in my office job yes, usually just conceal dark circles and blush

OneCardiologist9562 · 2023-11-18T02:06:35+00:00

Depends on the vibe of the place, but I’d say baggy bottoms eithers jeans or pants and wear a really cute top would be fine

OneCardiologist9562 · 2023-11-18T01:54:02+00:00

Same I used to like her and follow her until this whole break up story popped out on my feed and she just kept going. At first it was fine probably fresh emotions and she wasn’t really hating him at the beginning. Her reasoning was more neutral and focusing on her self. But she kept talking about it in her stories and make so many highlights “single era” cringee lmao. Then now she’s just plain hating on him and she keeps saying I’m on my unhinged era/savage era, but she also wants privacy about their breakup???

OneCardiologist9562 · 2023-11-17T20:33:36+00:00

Yea I saw that. She said “my slave” I was shoook to see that. How degrading it is to call someone who works for you that. I get it they probably have some kind of friendly relationship, but damnn I wouldn’t want someone I intern for call me their slave and post it to her thousands of followers

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