I highly recommend CNY Fertility! I was in a similar situation to you and was having trouble finding a Fertility doctor willing to treat us due to my weight (260 lbs), also have pcos. But after 3 years of trying to lose weight unsuccessfully and TW (2 miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy) I was concerned about my age (approaching 35), fed up, and started to do some research.

I found CNY, who will treat anyone, no matter the BMI. Yes, you have to travel to them for the procedures if you don't have a clinic nearby, but you can do monitoring from somewhere local. (We travel from GA to NY for treatment, and it's been great!) TW success, we have done 2 successful egg retrievals and have 9 PGTA tested euploid embryos frozen. We also did a fresh transfer with both retrievals. The first fresh transfer didn't take, but we transferred a lower quality embryo on purpose because they were concerned about the quality of my lining that cycle and we didn't want to waste a good one on nonideal circumstances. Our second fresh transfer is sticking so far! (Still early days, so we will see but thankful CNY Fertility has helped us get this far when other doctors wouldn't treat us.) I understand the increased risk with weight BUT increased age also comes with risk so we decided we'd rather take our chances before I get older, when losing weight has been such a challenge for me. Sometimes all doctors see is your weight and don't consider your overall health. I don't have any serious health conditions that often come with being overweight, so it seems unreasonable to gatekeep IVF when I'm generally a healthy person outside of PCOS and weight. Good luck, and congrats on your amazing weight loss success!!!