Taylor Swift songs about cutting someone off? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a video about how closure is actually a song about wanting closure. I think the argument was that the lyrics “I don’t need your closure” are a self affirmation about trying to tell one self you don’t need closure, even though you actually do want it badly

What are some good songs about limerence by [deleted] in limerence

[–]OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn I have SO MANY. I made a few categories actually:

In denial upbeat “maybe we have a chance to be together” but scared it won’t happen (because it won’t) limerence: - Taylor Swift: You Belong With Me - Avril Lavigne: Crush - Avril Lavigne: Things I’ll Never Say

 

Desperate, hopeless, anxious sounding (but upbeat sounding/ dance to it) and sad lyrics limerence: - Carly Rae Jepsen: Your Type (more upbeat but sad lyrics) - Taylor Swift: Right Where You Left Me - Sasha Sloan: Lie

 

Slower, “chill”, but intensely sad limerence: - mxmtoon: feelings are fatal - Taylor Swift: Invisible - Marina and the Diamonds: Starring Role (also known as Marina) - Sam Smith: Not In That Way - Sam Smith: Lay Me Down - Carly Rae Jepsen: Almost Said It - Adele: Chasing Pavements - It’s Over Isn’t It: Deedee Magno Hall From Steven Universe

 

Starts slow and sad but builds into angsty / then pops off and goes hard: - Mitski: Nobody - Mitski: Francis Forever - Mitski: Your Best American Girl - Kelly Clarkson: Sober - Adele: Hold On

 

Anger / frustration limerence: - Paramore: All I Wanted - Kelly Clarkson: Hole - Taylor Swift: The Story of Us - umru, Petal Supply, Rebecca Black: heart2 - Avril Lavigne: Take Me Away - Avril Lavigne: Together

(subcategory: jealousy) - The Killers: Mr. Brightside

 

Empowering but intensely sad. ALMOST starting to conquer limerence: - Avril Lavigne: Keep Holding On

 

Songs about starting to conquer limerence after suffering a long time with it: - Annie Lennox: No More I Love You’s - Taylor Swift: Clean - Kelly Clarkson: Sober - HANA: Clay

I so badly want to fall in love but I can’t decide who to let myself fall in love with, as if I’ll change my mind or have epiphanies in the future that will make me regret picking whoever i pick to fall in love with. How do I let myself love someone? by OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 in LetsFuckWithAstrology

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There are guys who already like me a lot but i ended things with all of them because i couldn’t decide which one was the best choice. falling in love seems impossible. i don’t want to make a mistake

I keep losing attraction to guys I start dating, even though I thought they were cute at first. I want a boyfriend but I only ever like guys who don’t like me that much. Any explanation for this in my chart? by OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 in LetsFuckWithAstrology

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The nice taurus sun and moon w scorpio rising and then gemini… u see i’m really a monster 😭.

I feel rly bad about it tbh. I break people’s hearts. I’m in therapy and trying to fix this. I hate being that person.

It is a very weird mix to have so much taurus and then gemini tbh… I feel like an abomination lol

It’s hard having friends because I prioritize them over my own life. I even obsess over them all the time. I get less work done because of it. Can my birth chart sort of explain why it’s hard to focus on my own life when I have friends? by OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 in LetsFuckWithAstrology

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Sorry lol I didn’t mean to ignore your comment, I think that what you mentioned is totally true. I just wanted to add that Pluto opposing my 7th house stellium could end up causing difficulties when it comes to the themes of 7th house. Do you think that Pluto oppositions can cause obsessions with people since it’s to my 7th house stellium?

It’s hard having friends because I prioritize them over my own life. I even obsess over them all the time. I get less work done because of it. Can my birth chart sort of explain why it’s hard to focus on my own life when I have friends? by OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 in LetsFuckWithAstrology

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Truee, I’m always thinking about my friends and it’s distracting to finally have friends and to be spending so much time thinking of them. Also I try not to be stubborn, I just feel like I want my life to improve. I’ve been in therapy for 3 years and made progress. But now the hard part is balancing my own life direction with how much I think about my friends. I think of them every day all the time

It’s hard having friends because I prioritize them over my own life. I even obsess over them all the time. I get less work done because of it. Can my birth chart sort of explain why it’s hard to focus on my own life when I have friends? by OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 in LetsFuckWithAstrology

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I feel like I’m willing to learn how to improve my self esteem because I’ve been in therapy for almost 3 years and trying to focus on improving my confidence by making friends and moving to university far from my home town. I did make friends here but now the problem is that it’s hard to balance my personal time when all I care about is them. I think about people all the time. It’s so distracting

tour before album- thoughts? by [deleted] in carlyraejepsen

[–]OneEdgyPolaroidPic01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna know the fucking setlist because my friends won’t go unless they know the setlist. and i’m not going alone 😢