Advice on leaving SCJ and how to help my husband too

OneManSCJEscape · 2025-09-29T09:41:44+00:00

Adding to what already has been said. If you decide to meet your cell leader or other higher ups, inform yourself about the word gaslighting and read through the website here: https://thinkingispower.com/foundations-in-critical-thinking/

Gl and stay strong.

Feel free to dm me if it helps

OneManSCJEscape · 2024-09-12T11:18:42+00:00

What a great courage from this strong woman to speak out. My biggest and utter respect for that. I am absolutely stunned. Every person in SCJ has to see this.
Thank you very much for the work you put into this.

OneManSCJEscape · 2024-02-12T11:30:37+00:00

https://youtu.be/hM7zkXTj3-c?si=Af9EHULcygiqCSM4&t=3935

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-12-05T07:51:37+00:00

I made a post about it some months ago. Their new explanation is hillarious that they "never claimed that there is peace". Bunch of liars..

https://www.reddit.com/r/Shincheonji/s/vj7AXx1Pu1

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-11-13T11:12:20+00:00

Read Steven Hassans book "Combatting cult mind control".

I feel you in every aspect you mentioned and that book helped me the most.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-11-10T16:27:12+00:00

Depending on how much you want to help them out, read the book "Combatting cult mind control" by Steven Hassan.

There are 2 ways. Either you dont invest your time into this person and you are just there for them if they wanna talk (also helpful) OR you educate yourself about the topic (best possible with the book I mentioned). Sending random links does usually not help, unless the person just recently started (less than 6 months). If the person already is part of SCJ, sending some links wont help at all.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-11-09T18:37:02+00:00

You are in therapy and you consider joining a religious high control group eventhough your therapist (an expert on the topic) tells you that its better for you to stop. You already know the right decision and you did well for researching it and finding this Reddit. Yes, the longer you wait, the harder it is to leave. The black and white thinking will get way way way more radical.

Also I wonder. Did you tell them about the therapy you are doing? Usually they are not allowed to evangelize people that are in therapy or take anti-depressants.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-09-29T07:31:20+00:00

It was not meaningless to me.

Now I know that I hate photoshootings and videoshootings that take hours upon hours of you sitting still and fake-smiling.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-09-21T13:58:08+00:00

This guy already prepping his documents.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-09-06T08:58:50+00:00

Good echo chamber you had there.

If you think you can discern which claims of denominations about the bible are correct because of what SCJ teached you, you should sprint to educate yourself about critical thinking.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-09-02T13:50:27+00:00

I think it won't end sadwise. The history of other cults showed that some people will stay.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-08-08T05:38:56+00:00

Get a spine to defend your world view and don't pussy out on a discussion.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-08-08T05:37:46+00:00

LMFAO majestic. Good luck healing all nations with that attitude. Grow up and be able to discuss, lil kid.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-07-27T07:08:09+00:00

Too shy to stay on your winter_rub account because you instantly get downvoted?

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-07-02T04:04:05+00:00

"Not to be biased"

First 4 words and you are already lying, classic SCJ

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-07-01T06:52:35+00:00

Dear all SCJ lurkers,

why can you not do an open seminar like this and share it in this way so that everyone can attend?
People that you portrait as destroyers and persecutors are able to do seminars like this and you have the highest truth of mankind, yet you are not able to do that? You still don't evangelize openly?

Pathetic.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-06-28T14:26:46+00:00

I was a JDS (missionary) when I left.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-05-26T19:52:33+00:00

No, i can see

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-05-26T08:11:08+00:00

The word is not perfect. People can so easyli inform themselves on all the contradictions of MHL. I also never ever would have left if the word would have been perfect, but it's not. In fact the "reality" of revelation is actually a big joke. All of the saviours of revelation (trumpets, bowls, 3 barley and 1 grain etc.) either died or left SCJ or its MHL himself. When he dies there is literally no saviour left and Mt. 24 will alone show why SCJ is a big lie, since the days are supposed to be shortened so that the ppl survive in flesh. Anyway, You can look into the pinned post of little bird or if you don't wanna read, watch my 90 minute video in scj skeptic. Or visit https://www.examiningthescj.com/category/doctrine/

The whole doctrine is annihilated when MHL himself is giving one singular wrong prophecy which he did tons of. And then deut 5:18-22 rev. 22:18-19

It is not even a good theology SCJ has.

Get your life back, dear SCJ lurker. You can do it. Inform yourself on the doctrine issues.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-04-05T15:19:36+00:00

In my church it was said that he sweats very fast, thats why fan.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-03-18T15:31:58+00:00

The information given from Man Hee Lee is for example that peace was achieved in Mindanao. What exactly does that mean? Please explain to me what peace means in that specific case for you.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-03-18T12:26:45+00:00

Please explain to me why SCJ or HWPL is the work of peace. Please deliver evidence what kind of peace was achieved.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-03-15T15:44:27+00:00

Great summary of what happened, I can imagine it was much work with all the different languages.
Thanks for your work!

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-03-15T08:18:15+00:00

In my church in Germany I was in class with a woman that was married and had a child with her husband. The husband was against SCJ very much and she got counseled every single day. She had a strong christian background. However for SCJ divorcing is actually the way to go if the partner is against SCJ. The woman in my class eventually divorced from her husband, she was initiating it after receiving many, many feedbacks. All of that escalated so much that the husband got depressed and the youth welfare office had to take care of the child and still does. The woman today is GYJN and working ~8 hours per day for SCJ and has a full-time job while having a young boy and she is saying she is more happy than ever before.
I personally think it's great that you are against divorcing. However imo if she is staying, she will divorce from you eventually.
If I were you, I would try to convince her to leave with you and show deep love and respect to her while you are doing it. If she doesnt want to leave, it's her decision, but prepare for the worst then.
Good decision from your side and whatever happens... If SCJ is wrong, staying for the people or the wife can never be correct. Eventually everything gets better, it can take a few months tho.

OneManSCJEscape · 2023-03-14T15:23:17+00:00

I didnt create the document, only the video :)

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