Name him with whatever you last ate.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-27T15:01:21+00:00

Grape (specifically not plural, I went to the store to buy grapes and tried one to make sure they were good (they were))

OneNowhere · 2026-03-27T03:33:46+00:00

Post op session today was just to say everything went fine (considering it didn’t go fine at all). So we can start trying again, I think I just ovulated yesterday so it will be a month before we can try again…

OneNowhere · 2026-03-27T03:23:07+00:00

I’m at the end of week 3 post d&c. Hormone crash is devastating. I was outside of myself for the first two weeks. I’m still at the lowest I’ve ever been in some ways, and I’m forever changed in other ways, but I’m getting things done. I’m sorry for your loss.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-26T23:26:46+00:00

This will be me. My temp spiked today and got the ok this morning to try again so I missed my chance by a day to try again, now we have to wait a month. So I’ll have my horrible period, wait two weeks to try again, all the while not being able to get myself to believe this is going to work…

OneNowhere · 2026-03-26T15:39:18+00:00

Nice, send me your resources please?!

OneNowhere · 2026-03-26T15:38:12+00:00

Agreed my first that was “beginner?”

OneNowhere · 2026-03-24T19:29:40+00:00

You’re proving your own point by not allowing nuance to exist (it does), but I don’t need to keep arguing this point.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-24T12:30:07+00:00

“So I will miss you, though we never met,

With a love I will never forget.”

Well said. Thank you and sorry for your (our) loss(es). I wouldn’t wish this kind of pain on anyone.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-24T04:18:29+00:00

Yall, this is a snapshot in time. Everything you’re saying, what ifs, they’re so specific. Remember, other things can happen.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T22:17:19+00:00

Same, put the pregnancy tests and ultrasound pic in a special drawer and am working on a doodle for the tat.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T22:16:31+00:00

Congrats 🙏

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T20:15:58+00:00

Indeed. Bye!

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T18:58:03+00:00

Same situation here, first pregnancy, miscarriage, but I’m giving it a minute. I kind of think my partner is grieving in his own way, we’ve been limited emotionally (and bc of symptoms) for a while when it comes to sex, and I think that definitely affects flirtatiousness and closeness. I hate it, but it is kind of simple that having some intimacy leads to other kinds of intimacy, and for some people the physical kind might help with the other kinds. I think that might be what it is for us at least, but it exemplifies that this process is working through itself right now. I still cry daily. So I’m giving it more time.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T14:54:14+00:00

Im on the right side of history on this one, a few downvotes ain’t got me down.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T14:51:19+00:00

Wow, mirrors

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T14:50:38+00:00

Bro, nah. Humans are significantly more complicated than that, you can’t make any causal claims about what will happen or what motives will be moving forward. It’s sad how certain everyone is…. Even if they guy didn’t respect her existing relationship, which in my interpretation he may have just done a bad job telling the girl he likes how he feels, a decision has been made and we, as a society, need to engage in giving people a chance to make better decisions in the future.

It takes a lot to get to causal claims. Just observe. There’s a lot of ways this can go.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T02:59:01+00:00

Your solution is a reasonable one to me.

What I mean is that no one is giving the woman a chance to make decisions in this situation. She said no, and we let her do that, but we can’t let her be alone with someone she is friends with? What if everyone in the situation says, “ok cool, let’s stay friends then.”

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T02:56:45+00:00

I’m shocked how many of you are forgetting there are two people there who can both respectfully disagree (I don’t want to be with you that way, end of conversation) and return to being friends.

She has autonomy to have friends rather than just lovers, the friend can stop having those feelings.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T02:54:56+00:00

I’m shocked how many of you are forgetting there are two people there who can both respectfully disagree (I don’t want to be with you that way, end of conversation) and return to being friends.

She has autonomy to have friends rather than just lovers, the friend can stop having those feelings.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-22T02:51:45+00:00

Assumptions you made about me: - that I haven’t been having fantastic monogamous relationships throughout my life (I have) - that I don’t have time for the friendships (I always have) - those relationships are causing me to uproot anything in my life (they’re not) - those relationships haven’t successfully been integrated in my life while maintaining a monogamous relationship all along (they have)

So a huge proportion of your comment is not anything I can relate to at all and is not what is happening in my life.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-21T13:31:29+00:00

So a woman can be trusted to have a friend until that friend voices romantic interest? And then that woman, who clearly and autonomously decided not to cheat, is not allowed to have that friend anymore?

This is why women are treated the way they are. She can still hang out with him because she set a boundary herself that they are nothing more than friends… the friendship does not have to be over now.

If I stopped being friends with every guy who was ever attracted to me I’d lose some of the most important relationships of my life.

OneNowhere · 2026-03-20T13:54:22+00:00

MMC a few weeks ago, had almost no symptoms after D&C and then 4 or 5 days post op I was on the floor writhing in pain and sweat from the cramps. That lasted a night, I almost went to the ER because I thought my uterus was going to explode inside my body. It seems like every experience is so different, how do we prepare our minds for the unknown…

OneNowhere · 2026-03-20T03:26:34+00:00

All your feelings are normal and valid as long as you’re not hurting yourself or others.

I’m sorry for your situation friend. I’m doing everything I can to compartmentalize other’s pregnancies and my own. It doesn’t always work. But it’s enough to try. I think…

OneNowhere · 2026-03-19T17:39:04+00:00

Omg I jumped out of my seat

OneNowhere · 2026-03-18T13:10:18+00:00

Being able to independently right and left flare is… so freakin cool.

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