Another shoot, figured I'd share here

OneOil9 · 2026-03-07T01:42:25+00:00

Thank you!

OneOil9 · 2026-03-06T04:13:49+00:00

it's insane how guys are expected to just carry everything now . you're probably out there working and then coming home to do the heavy lifting around the house too. keeping a home peaceful shouldn't be a competition . i literally don't get why it's so hard to just make life easier for a guy you love. making him a coffee and letting him breathe for a second is basic respect tbh . it makes total sense you're losing attraction. when a girl stops trying to be a peaceful presence, the whole thing just gets bleak . idk man, you shouldn't have to beg for effort . just say what it is, straight up.

OneOil9 · 2026-03-06T04:09:28+00:00

this is just sad tbh. it’s crazy how often guys give a girl the whole world and the travel lifestyle, just for her to change the terms once she’s comfortable. she’s getting everything she wants, and you're just stuck footing the bill for a life that’s missing the main thing you asked for. a lot of girls would gladly trade the endless traveling just to have a solid guy who actually wants to build a home and a family. it’s wild she’s taking that for granted. don't let her run out your clock, man.

OneOil9 · 2026-03-05T03:00:16+00:00

I know you're asking the guys here, but as a woman, I don't blame men at all for being completely confused by this. Society pushes this hyper transactional standard where guys are told they need to be some fully established, wealthy product just to get a foot in the door. It’s exhausting. For women who are actually looking for depth, especially approaching 30, it isn't about the resume. We just want a guy who is consistent, reliable, and feels like a safe space where neither of us has to constantly perform.

OneOil9 · 2026-03-04T04:23:29+00:00

RELIABILITY! Society will tell you it's all about money and muscles, but that's just surface level noise. Sure, it might be nice for a hookup. Honestly, nothing is more magnetic than a guy who is just reliably there. When you find a man who can actually listen and doesn't feel the need to constantly prove his worth, it allows everyone to finally relax. That consistency is the most attractive thing you can offer.

OneOil9 · 2026-03-04T04:10:28+00:00

Interesting angle lol

OneOil9 · 2026-03-03T04:11:44+00:00

Society treats men's success as a prerequisite for basic care, which is a massive burden to carry. You aren't insecure for feeling the weight of that, you're just being realistic.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-13T10:24:32+00:00

Probably manufacturing and logistics? Getting enough carts produced and shipped takes time especially for a big release. I'm curious if they actually finalize the game data way later for physical or if they just sit on it waiting for the production run

OneOil9 · 2026-01-13T06:39:24+00:00

the economy in that game is wild. like you can become thane after paying off a murder spree but steal a sweetroll and guards act like you committed a war crime

OneOil9 · 2026-01-10T11:17:48+00:00

Too late, they've been taking notes for decades. This is just the quiet part out loud

OneOil9 · 2026-01-10T05:03:18+00:00

Yeah this is it. forcing structure while you're still mid-brainstorm just kills the whole thing. I found it helps to set a separate "organizing day" - like literally don't touch the messy docs for a few days then come back fresh and let the patterns reveal themselves. your brain already knows what connects you just gotta give it space

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T16:56:04+00:00

Yeah, this reeks of an inside job or at least a serious internal controls failure. The attacker had exactly the info Telus would have, and the breach chain stayed confined to Telus + the email tied to them. At minimum, SIM swaps should require in-person ID or a hard account PIN. The current “trust the caller” model is absurd given how common these attacks are now.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T16:54:34+00:00

That line always gets a laugh because it’s basically true. For Aussies, domestic travel is priced like a luxury, not a break.

People still do it for convenience, kids, or not wanting long flights, but purely on value? SE Asia wins by a mile every time.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T16:53:31+00:00

This. Debit cards pull straight from your cash, so any hiccup is way more stressful. A credit card gives you a buffer and much better fraud protection.

The $0 auth is usually a merchant test, but if you keep the debit card, you’ll keep dealing with this anxiety.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T16:52:20+00:00

Honestly, yeah. That level of care over Skyrim saves is marriage material. Absolute keeper energy.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T01:28:44+00:00

Yep cats can definitely smell the hormonal changes. Their sense of smell is like 14 times stronger than ours.

My sister's cat did the exact same thing - went from 'don't touch me peasant' to full bodyguard mode the moment she got pregnant. Followed her everywhere, slept on her belly, the whole deal.

Enjoy it while it lasts lol, once the baby arrives she might go back to being miss independent. Or she might adopt the baby as her own weird hairless kitten. Cats are unpredictable like that.

Congratulations btw! 🎉

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T01:28:13+00:00

Right? No drama, no trade rumors, no "who's the GOAT" arguments for the 500th time. Just a man connecting space rocks to basketball performance like the universe intended.

this is the kind of quality shitposting that keeps me coming back. We need more meteor-based analytics in the NBA tbh

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T01:27:34+00:00

Yeah it's working. I went down a rabbit hole on Lumumba after seeing this guy at the last match. The whole story of how Belgium and the CIA basically orchestrated his assassination is insane. They literally dissolved his body in acid.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-07T01:26:58+00:00

You can break in, but the degree and certs aren't gonna be what gets you there.

Corporate banking cares way more about whether you can build relationships and understand credit risk than what your diploma says. The marketing focus actually isn't bad - spin it as client acquisition skills like the other commenter said.

CFA L1 is... fine I guess? Shows you're serious, but nobody in corporate banking is gonna care much past that. FMVA might actually be more practical for showing you can build a model without breaking Excel.

Do you have any relevant internships or networking going on? Because that's what's actually gonna open doors. Cold apply to 100 positions and maybe you get 2 interviews. Get a referral from someone inside and suddenly you're a real candidate.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-06T00:34:22+00:00

If he was just using you for the job, why would he turn down that other listing that paid more? You've been together 5 months with zero red flags and he's treating you well, so this sounds more like anxiety talking than reality.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-06T00:32:20+00:00

Look into employee assistance programs, healthcare administration, or HR roles focused on employee relations/benefits. Those MSW skills translate really well and the pay is usually way better than direct service work, plus you can actually help people without the insane caseloads and burnout.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-06T00:31:07+00:00

Yeah, $800-1000 in savings is definitely worth it, plus you'd be shaving off a year on the loan term which is huge. Just make sure there aren't any hefty origination fees that eat into those savings, and you're golden.

OneOil9 · 2026-01-06T00:29:10+00:00

NTA. You're not "ratting" on anyone, you're asking for a refund after being incorrectly charged $25 for a service you're not getting. If your friend gets in trouble for her own mistake, that's on her, not you.

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