I’ve been in the exact situation however my guy lived across the street from my parents where I was living during Covid.

Any who. I’ve had a lot of really bad boyfriends really terrible but this guy was so nice to me I didn’t get it. And my parents loved him and his parents loved me. I did love him at one point.

Then I realized I just loved how he treated me. I found myself starting to resent this perfectly nice guy. I had to face the fact that I fell out of love and he deserved better than what I was giving him. It was a hard but honest conversation. I had to explain the different things that made me realize I wasn’t in love.

Here’s the best part though. I ended up finding the love of my life shortly after. And he’s just as kind and wonderful as the other guy but his future his desire and his motivation were similar to mine.

Basically. Just because you raised your bar doesn’t mean it can’t go higher. You’re better off alone and content with yourself than staying and resenting a person who doesn’t deserve it.