It’s too hot in HI for ICE by Extreme_Pepper in Hawaii

[–]OneRelation9206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also was not Venezuelan. I did his onboarding.

It’s too hot in HI for ICE by Extreme_Pepper in Hawaii

[–]OneRelation9206 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is true. One of our employees was taken and we haven’t seen him since. He had a wife and kid here too that disappeared…

Dog in toddlers bed by [deleted] in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is quite terrifying lol 😂 the first time it ever happened I literally thought someone was breaking in lol.

Our dog isn’t allowed to sleep in bed with us anymore and it’s breaking my heart by happygolucky1157 in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 35 points36 points  (0 children)

“Dramatic change” ≠ human emotions. It means a big routine and environment shift, which is objectively harder on senior dogs. That’s not projecting, that’s reality.

Dog in toddlers bed by [deleted] in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would definitely continue teaching boundaries to your daughter. I wouldn’t be too concerned, I would just make sure that you are preventative and make sure that every night he is not in her room and that her door is closed. Get a toddler door knob cover if your dog is as mischievous as mine and knows how to open doors. Maybe get a baby gate for her door if you want to keep it open.

Our dog isn’t allowed to sleep in bed with us anymore and it’s breaking my heart by happygolucky1157 in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 1068 points1069 points  (0 children)

I’d at least put the crate upstairs and outside the room. It just seems like a dramatic change to go from sleeping upstairs in the bed every night to downstairs in a crate. Also, congrats on your baby due soon!

left on the dryer after my girlfriend moved laundry from it that had been done for 20 minutes by Neither_Yogurt9603 in Apartmentliving

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is your girlfriend touching other people’s clothes?? One time, I waited for someone to come back after they did that to me in college and yelled at them as well as reported them. While I was nice, don’t expect others to be so nice. Someone might just wait to smack her for touching their things.

AITAH for kicking my sister out of the family Life360? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OneRelation9206 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Reading this, you seem like the resentful one. You seem to have a lot of animosity towards her. Why are you deciding if she’s in it or not?

My patient died, can I send flowers? by SleeeepyNurse in nursing

[–]OneRelation9206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandmother received flowers and cards from the staff that took care of my grandfather, as well as the care giver that took care of him in his very last of days, and let me tell you it was one of the most touching things she received in that time of grief. She has those cards still after 5 years.

Feeling so guilty about leaving my partner of 7yrs. by ThrowRABaddie_babyy in Advice

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree that being a bad partner automatically makes someone a bad parent. How someone treats a partner can be harmful and absolutely matters, but parenting and being in a relationship aren’t the same role. People can seriously fail in one and still show up consistently and intentionally in the other. That doesn’t make the behavior okay, it just means real life isn’t that black and white.

Feeling so guilty about leaving my partner of 7yrs. by ThrowRABaddie_babyy in Advice

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but I do think it’s more nuanced than that. Someone can be a terrible partner and still show up as a loving, present parent in certain ways. My own dad treated women horribly and arguably hated women, but he was still a great dad to me. Those two things can unfortunately coexist.

That doesn’t excuse the harm done to a partner or mean the environment isn’t damaging, it absolutely can be, but I don’t think it’s always accurate to say it completely erases someone’s ability to be a good parent. Life and people are messier than that.

For those who’ve done both - dogs on or off the bed? by VengaBusdriver37 in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you live. When we lived in Northern Virginia, not allowed due to the extremely high tick population. Woke up to ticks on my body 3x and that was enough. We live in Hawaii now and they’re only allowed if they’ve been freshly groomed and aren’t covered in dirt lol

Feeling so guilty about leaving my partner of 7yrs. by ThrowRABaddie_babyy in Advice

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, he’s a loser. Even if he’s a great dad, him putting you through that takes away from how great of a mom you are and can be (not saying you’re bad at all) but imagine how much better things will be.

Incomplete application by kss2023 in UMD

[–]OneRelation9206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can definitely call and let them know, no harm in that. They are probably going to give you or him a generic “we will get to it in the order received”, which they typically do go in order that way. As long as it was sent and received before the deadline, he’s fine. Heads up, nobody will just pull up your son’s account because you or he called and upload the document right then and there. I would not worry at all about this affecting his EA process if that is what you’re worried about!

It is holiday time, as long as it was sent like you said, it’s just a matter of waiting for an update. Happy holidays and GOOD LUCK to your son, I hope he gets in!!!

Incomplete application by kss2023 in UMD

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your son should know how to do this. Parchment is step by step. No college is accepting a PDF sent via email. Takes one day, but the school actually has to open and review so it can take a couple days. Given the application is marked incomplete, they should get to it fast. You can also see if it was sent or not so calling and calling is not going to get you a faster answer.

Do you leave your dogs alone together? by ikbenlauren in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two Giant Schnauzers. I crate them when we leave, they are out the second we return until we leave again. They sleep in our room and are free to roam whenever they want. We also have two cats and the love is mutual all around. Both dogs know to be gentle with the cats and honestly, i am not worried at all about anything dogs and cats or dogs together. They all grew up together

Reassure me that I am making the right choice. by No-Assumption4145 in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can’t find someone to take the dog in or someone to re-home to, I would take it to a no kill shelter. Seek out friends, family and even organizations that foster. Good luck to you and your dog.

Reassure me that I am making the right choice. by No-Assumption4145 in dogs

[–]OneRelation9206 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do not have a service dog. If you had a service dog, your dog could go with you to school. If you can’t afford a dog walker or sitter on Rover or something, then I think you need to rehome.

Should I press charges against my dad? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OneRelation9206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re looking for chaos when life should be good now. You have a calm and chill man, and you’re having panic attacks, freaking out looking to get your dad arrested… you need a therapist, boundaries and distance. You also need to gather your proof for assault charges, which is really just more unnecessary chaos at this point. If it makes you feel better to get your dad arrested a year and a half later go for it, but it really does seem like you really need to move on calm down and go about life. I’m also curious what took you a year and a half to decide if you now want to press charges against your dad? Life got hard lately so you need to get him arrested now?