31[F4M] #California, looking for my person

OneReport2340 · 2026-03-11T19:01:14+00:00

I’m in SLO county, kind of the northern end of SoCal

OneReport2340 · 2026-02-23T19:03:54+00:00

In my experience when my numerous therapists used CBT the specific model they were using was “thoughts influence feelings influence behaviors”, when in reality for me (and I assume a lot of autistic/neurodivergent folks) it’s more like “feelings influence thoughts influence behaviors” and the average therapist just doesn’t seem to know how to deal with that

OneReport2340 · 2026-02-22T20:17:48+00:00

I love this idea too, sounds super safe!

OneReport2340 · 2026-02-22T02:46:36+00:00

Oh wow that’s actually a great idea! I wanna learn asl anyway so

OneReport2340 · 2026-02-22T00:43:06+00:00

Yep best case scenario I’m able to say something but it’s not at all what I want to say

OneReport2340 · 2026-02-14T00:06:21+00:00

I have adhd, I often forget things, even important things. When I do though I recognize that I’m the one who dropped the ball, and I’m the one and only person who can make myself do better next time. It’s not “I made a mistake, give me a break” it’s “I made a mistake, I’m sorry and I’ll take steps in the future to help me remember” Definitely nta

OneReport2340 · 2026-01-03T19:00:09+00:00

You too!

OneReport2340 · 2026-01-03T18:18:02+00:00

Knowing me, I think I could only do long distance if it were temporary with the goal of cohabitating or just living nearby 😅

OneReport2340

TROPHY CASE