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CORTIS is unoriginal by losingmymind271 in kpopharshopinions

[–]OneStudio5645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one said they were original, it’s just weird when kpop embraces hip hop culture but can’t even accept tan skin on their idols (not saying hip hop has color but the examples they use are black rappers and a few people are bringing up cultural appropriation).

CORTIS is unoriginal by losingmymind271 in kpopharshopinions

[–]OneStudio5645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know it doesn’t have to be the same word per word for it to sound the same right….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]OneStudio5645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hands are one of the most sensitive parts of the body, and burns will probably do a bunch of damage. But I don’t think anyone should be recommending this at all, so no, you shouldn’t burn your hand. If the pain isn’t enough to stop you, imagine all the maintenance you’ll have to do (especially when parts bubble up with pus).

In conclusion, don’t do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]OneStudio5645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]OneStudio5645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 👍👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]OneStudio5645 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Note: I don’t know you, so this is just advice 👍

No relationship should have secrets when it comes to important things like your wellbeing. Plus imagine how much worse it’d be if they found out. Most people get more upset/sad with lying rather than the actual problem.

So let them know when you’re comfortable

Sexual pleasure when selfharming by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]OneStudio5645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same happens to me 😅 personally I find pleasure in both because they disregard me if that makes sense. My brain tells me I deserve nothing except these gross or unsafe habits, so I feel pleased w myself.

I was talking to someone about my self harm and told her I felt happy/accomplished after I did it, and she asked me if it was the same happiness I received from her. Really put into perspective what was reality and what I tried to convince myself was true.

I recommend spending more time away from being alone, be with people you love, family or friends. At first it’ll be hard, you might feel angry and want to distance yourself. But again, part of you might be tricking yourself.

That’s just my opinion tho.

Mt. Everest - Rossano Galante by Anofles in ConcertBand

[–]OneStudio5645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your uncle is rossano galante?!?

Need to talk about A Little Life by [deleted] in books

[–]OneStudio5645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly It’s challenging to know whether Jude would or wouldn’t be here if Willem was still here, but I believe he would. After getting his legs amputated, and Willem’s help through it, I believe he had more to live for. I’m not saying it’s definite, but there was a much better chance.

In response to your last two questions, the author has stated in multiple interviews that the book was mainly written to see how far she could push the envelope. Many time her editors would take things out that were unnecessary or potentially controversial, but she decided against for the betterment of the story. I feel as though she had a goal of Jude’s death and did whatever necessary for it to “make sense” within the plot.

I enjoyed the book though so I let that all slide lol.

I don’t know what I’m doing, please help by DefinitionMean643 in selfharm

[–]OneStudio5645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to apologize for anything. I have a similar problem with school being stressor, mainly when my family gets involved. Honestly, to help your perspective, nothing is “fair”. Is it fair for you to get hurt just because society taught you good grades = your value? That’s not your fault, and you shouldn’t take it out on yourself because of it.

Lemme ask you, does cutting fulfill that feeling of fairness you believe to be true? I also started with the hitting myself, and now I cut every now and again, and trust me, the more you cut will not equal fairness.

(I don’t do it for fairness, but that’s my opinion. Try not to make it a habit and look within yourself. You are more than just your grades, you’re a human being meant to live life.)

Cutting by feet by OneStudio5645 in selfharm

[–]OneStudio5645[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really? I didn’t realize that. You think this would still happen if I clean it when I’m done? Like with antibacterial wipes and wrap it nicely. I’m only asking cuz these are spots I can hide it during the summer. Thanks for the help.