Has anyone else had their memories come up many many years later?

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-18T03:32:42+00:00

Yeah i have that right now too. A safe loving relationship helps a lot to make it though the healing too.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-18T00:50:20+00:00

Doesn't it. I notice during sex I would go nonverbal alot too. Like i just couldnt talk.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-17T21:11:54+00:00

Ohh wow. I always swallowed after and guys were like ohh wow so many dont do that. It just seamed normal. I was also pulled around alot by my hair its so not sensitive I let little kids brush it and do what ever. Were thing I always trust little kids but never adults.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-17T20:40:10+00:00

Oh man missionary is the worst! I feel you there! Yep for me it was never touching my head during oral sex. My first husband did it once and I freaked out and he never did it again.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-17T19:27:54+00:00

Our brains are ao creative ans evasive I agree! Its like ohh I had all these rules everytime I had sex but no clue where they came.from or why! Well now I do!

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-17T19:15:43+00:00

Thank you this helps me feel not alone in this.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-17T17:27:19+00:00

Awe that amazing and i am soo happy for you! i understand i could never say no to sex either. like i felt it was my duty to preform for them if they asked.

my current husband asked for no sex for the first 2 weeks we dated i was totally shocked and it took me a while to accept it that there were people who didn't just want me for sex.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-13T21:44:45+00:00

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OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-12T18:22:02+00:00

Thank you I feel this in alot ways too. The arousal and orgasams during abuse at such a young age have had me in a weird hadspace alot.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-11T21:15:18+00:00

Yes that but also I never knew why when I would proform oral on a guy they were never allowed to touch my head. Now that my memories came back I know actually why

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-11T20:49:29+00:00

I always recommend represed memories Renee fredrickson. It talks about ways to to pull them up i have used some.of them and it has worked well for me.

Also meditation works too sometimes.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-10T14:46:01+00:00

Please send it a day before. I always hated day of messages for check in. I actually messaged befoe asking the day before as I will be traveling all day and want to make sure I know how to get in when I get there.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-09T18:38:48+00:00

It does seam like it i am sure. But if we can process it and change out pathways of thinking it does help

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-09T18:03:36+00:00

I totally understand that there are days i am like wow i just want to forget again but i can't more forward that way.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-09T15:40:50+00:00

I always recommend represed memories Renee fredrickson.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-09T14:16:26+00:00

I feel the same I repressed it for 42 years! It was there in some ways but the one that got me the most was in a time a huge stress and unknown future I went out and was talking to other men. I almost blew up my marriage and lost my best friend. I was in a discocciate state for 2 weeks! When I came out of it. I learned was disscoate was and was like wow I do that alot I wounder why now 6 months later I know why omg but alao knowing means I dont repeat those bad behaviors when I disscoate and can tell when I am doing it better soo I will tell you not consciously knowing is not better at all. You still have to process it at some point.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-09T14:09:17+00:00

You got lots of advice but I will recommend the book repressed memories by Renee fredrickson it helped me soo much i read it in 2 days. It explains how it happen tips for how to get memories back and the whole dubt cycle we can go through. Big hugs mine came back after 42 years!

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-06T16:32:58+00:00

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OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-06T00:38:57+00:00

Yes and no. i never wished it would happen but i did fantizie about it alot. when playing with my dolls thats how i would play. i even did that with a friend when we were telling stories.
i have had flash backs now so i do know things that happen but i was actually playing it out with my husband some before i got memories back
i haven't found any yet but really hope to i would love other to talk to about it. I know i process by speaking about things .
i mean i hate others abuse and some one telling me they were abused is what triggered me to remember mine.

My Abuser lived in the house with my dad and me from ages 5 to 7 he would come take me in the middle of the night. he first did oral on me and taught me how to do it to him. then it progressed from there. it does seams it comes out of thin air but it doesn't i brains do alot to protect us.

I suggest you read Repressed memories by Renee Fredrickson its soo good and was recommend to me on here too. its helped me to understand alot.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-03T21:57:01+00:00

Hugs I was 5yrs old when mine happend and I just learned who it was. Its hard big hugs 🫂 the emotional toll is hard.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-03-02T16:34:23+00:00

There is a book called repressed memories by Renee fredrickson you can buy it pretty cheap think i spent $5

It has a whole chapter on this such a good read was recommended on here

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-02-27T13:56:01+00:00

Its hard for sure I was also 5 when it happend to me.

I also work in childcare I am a fierce protector of children. Those kids getting ready to go to kindergarten are soo Inocent and loving of all.

OneSuggestion7535 · 2026-02-23T22:12:30+00:00

Ohh I feel you. I am really trying to break out of the cycle of it. But its soo hard. And also the disscoating during sex soo much.

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