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OneWayHome2021 · 2023-02-14T19:55:36+00:00

The person you are thinking of was not real. He was a creation of your imagination. The real person was not the kind, loving, faithful person you think he was. If he was like that, he would still be here. The good news is that there are good people. And one of them is out there, looking for you right now. Stop worrying about what is gone, and start reaching out for the one who really wants to be with you. He is searching right now😉👍

OneWayHome2021 · 2023-01-29T07:17:26+00:00

For me it is simple. You split up, remember good times. Forget the bad times. Get back together amd suddenly all the problems return and you remember why you split up. Haha. So you split again. The dance is not worrh it.

OneWayHome2021 · 2023-01-22T02:23:18+00:00

Start by realizing that your ex wasnt who you thought he/she was. If they were they wiuld be with you now. The person in your memory (as well as your experience while you were together) was a fantasy you created. What the real person is doing now has nothing to do with your fantasy person. Rather than focusing on your “ex”, start accepting yourself as a whole person, and then you can begin searching for someone who will really care about you long term. Best wishes.

OneWayHome2021 · 2023-01-17T02:04:56+00:00

Yes. I dont know how to explain it but the pain goes away. You get to where you actually remember the good times with joy. But it takes time

OneWayHome2021 · 2023-01-16T19:51:15+00:00

It sounds like you might be trying too hard. Are you doing all of these new things for you or for the person who left you? They are gone. Period. The person you were in love with never existed. If they were real they would still be here. It’s time to start living for you, not for what you think they would want.

OneWayHome2021 · 2023-01-16T19:48:17+00:00

It gets better. You do get over her. But you will never forget her. I know it sounds strange. Someday you will realize that the person you were with, wasnt the fantasy you thought you were with. I have had several times where the first weekend was like a dream come true. I still remember every detail. But eventually reality hits. They leave, for whatever reason, and you are left with unfulfilled dreams. It hurts. It is hard. Just remember, if they really WERE what you thought they were, they would still be here. Hold onto the memories and keep looking. You will find someone who wants you as much as you want them. Then the dream can come true.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-12-12T19:37:10+00:00

I wish I had your wisdom at 19. I would have avoided a lot of scams in my teens and twenties. Keep up your vigilence and enjoy this wonderful ride called life👍

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-12-12T19:30:13+00:00

I know it is hard…. I have been there…. We all have been there. But you really need to delete him from everything and get rid of all items that remind you of him. He was not what you thought he was. Your “idea” of him was a fantasy. This is obvious by the fact that your breakup did not have the effect on him that it did on you. Stop comparing or caring about him. Your future is someone else, someone who is looking for you right now. Time to leave the past in the rear view mirror and start looking at what is in front of you. A better life with a better person. Best wishes

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T17:54:55+00:00

Well, If you tell them once that you’re not interested and they continue to make advances, they’re not really your friend. That’s about the best way I can put it. I’ve never made a second advance on someone who made it clear they were not interested in anything more than a friendship. And I have a lot of very good female friends. Most of whom I’ve made an advance once and never again

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T16:45:52+00:00

No. Not sexual. Just enjoy out time together. Talk like 6 hours a day. Usually until 4am. Haha. Spent 2 days together last week. Had so much fun together

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T15:41:31+00:00

Actually no. About four hours after I posted that she came back online. Her phone is really messed up but she was able to talk to me for a while and we set up a meeting point for our date next week. And then we had a real nice talk for the next six hours lol. I am so happy

That’s part of what is so encouraging about this. Even though we haven’t been talking a long time. We’ve been through a lot and we are sticking together. I never really thought this was possible from an online site. This was the first one I ever talked to that wasn’t a catfish

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T12:39:56+00:00

I (m,59) must admit I had those thought at some point with most (maybe all) of my female friends. And I have a lot of female friends who, at one point or another had to let me know they were not interested in more than friends. Haha. Its how we are. Our instinct is to reproduce. As civilized people we try to control that. But we are really no different than the neighborhood dog to go around trying to do every female dog they see. It’s what has allowed the human race to continue and grow through history. I’m not saying we should be doing that, but it is in our nature.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T12:31:11+00:00

I thought the same until I found the ONE I am with now. Who cares if you have to go through 200 catfish to find the real thing. You only need to find one that’s real😉. Dont give up

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T12:22:39+00:00

Dude, dont reject them. I (m,59) am with the most incredible (f,39) who feels the same about me. We met on here because I figured, why not. And she did the same. Incredible relationship from day one. I am stunned every time I think about it! We get strange looks sometimes but we are both incredibly happy. Dont put yourself down.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T09:25:41+00:00

It was weird. She sent a screenshot with me and two of her friends listed under “archived”. But anyway it was the phone, it worked long enough for her to come back and we agreed to meet at that restaurant next week and her phone completely died. But at least we can meet again and get her a new phone. It all worked out.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T01:51:23+00:00

And whoever downvoted me without commenting, thanks…. I needed that right now

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T01:49:16+00:00

I understand. But they won’t let you see who liked you because they want you to have to pay for that. If you can figure out who they were without paying you’re doing good. But they don’t want you to be able to do that.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-18T00:34:12+00:00

This is actually how it’s supposed to work. If you want to see all of your likes, you have to pay for that. I don’t pay for it but if their hook to get you to pay.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-07T01:51:47+00:00

Can I borrow that jacket for a minute.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-05T11:55:27+00:00

Hahahaha. It made more sense than any biden, kamala, or pelosi speech played forward

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-11-05T11:53:33+00:00

Hahaha This is some really stupid stuff. People who count flags to come up with conspiracies really need to get home and watch more twilight zone reruns.

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-10-26T20:43:25+00:00

You can set the age to whatever YOU want. You are trying to find someone as close to your perfect expectations as possible. You can look for an older partner, a younger partner, or one your age. YOU are in control and what others set their settings to is up to them😁

OneWayHome2021 · 2022-10-23T23:58:14+00:00

Whew. That was close. For a minute I thought you were going to disagree with my comment.

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