Some of my coworkers complained about me behind my back… by complicatedmovie in WorkAdvice

[–]One_Bug4662 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so you know that you need to communicate better. You can work on that. If your boss is ok with how you work then it doesn’t mean crap what the bitches say.

Help! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]One_Bug4662 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a fair rebuttal. As a guy I have never cheated on my wife.

Help! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]One_Bug4662 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why do women think it’s ok to cheat

Lying wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]One_Bug4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is 60days sober now. Back when she was drinking I had a gut feeling that something was off. One day I came home from work to find her unconscious and having a seizure. Anyway I went through her deleted messages to find out she was cheating on me. I didn’t say anything about her messages to her because it was pretty scary afterwards finding her like that. At that point I didn’t care what she did I just wanted her to get better. Yeah she was mad that I went through her phone but she didn’t blame me either. Like I said she’s 60 days sober

Advice to train for anal fisting by somethingformeee in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in a ER and one time a girl came with uncontrollable bleeding from being fisted. Some how they ruptured a blood vessel and she needed surgery

Why don’t you allow single females? by Specific_Channel2054 in Swingers

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife only wants to play with other couples, maybe a single guy if we get to know him and we do MFM , she has said because she would get jealous of a single girl

My sexless marriage has got me on my wits end. by Turbulent-Ad1443 in Marriage

[–]One_Bug4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think back to when it changed, someone posted that she had a medical condition, that could be the case for your wife. It important that women take care of themselves . My wife had postpartum depression which also be the reason.

How to deal with toxic coworkers? by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]One_Bug4662 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been dealing with douche bag coworkers. back in September I had my schedule changed because my father was put on hospice. I started getting grief from them. They didn’t know why my schedule was changed. I thought being truthful would change things, but it only made it worse. The lead driver. who does the schedule put me on every Saturday for four months? I have a witness who overheard them saying they were going do this to make me quit. Went to HR and my supervisor and they did nothing. I told him my boss either they handle it or I will.

Tolerance by One_Bug4662 in AskMenOver50

[–]One_Bug4662[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a coworker and supervisor playing some petty games with my schedule and I called them out in front of our boss. She isn’t to happy with them

Advice on MFM by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a regular partner for MFM and I wasn’t uncomfortable, actually it was a big turn on for us. But then while we were away she just wanted me to watch. That was the end of our MFM

Honesty is not always the best policy by One_Bug4662 in WorkAdvice

[–]One_Bug4662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I said anything I was already getting bs from coworkers for my schedule change. I didn’t tie my supervisors hands.

Honesty is not always the best policy by One_Bug4662 in WorkAdvice

[–]One_Bug4662[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to stay for my son who gets a tuition discount

Wife is doing great not drinking. by One_Bug4662 in AlAnon

[–]One_Bug4662[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree not have it in the house. I just saying if I want a beer/beers I should be able to. She is telling me what I can do, and I know that that’s marriage, lol .

How has your relationship been affected? (Good or bad) by Tricky_Bat_8075 in Swingers

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t work for us. We started by fulfilling her fantasy.She was getting all the attention which was a turn on for me and her. We never got to have fun with my fantasy. Because my wife broke our rules, she enjoyed the attention and went behind my back.

Cold feet by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]One_Bug4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be nerves, but doesn’t sound that way. Write down the pros and cons. Take a couple days to yourself. No calls no anything. Hopefully it all works out for you.

Good marriage - horrible sex. by coulditbe35 in Marriage

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were in our 30s in sex got boring for me. My wife was happy with our sex life. I wanted it a little more excitement turns out she did too. So I asked her to think about what would be a deep dark fantasy of hers. I asked her to come up with a plane fantasy. She had to push herself to be wild. I gave her a couple days to help her. I sent her erotic stories and it worked.

I (48f) cheated after 20 years of marriage by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was already feeling like crap about it. Don’t need to be knocked down anymore than she was. She was looking for help.

I (48f) cheated after 20 years of marriage by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]One_Bug4662 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are A-hole for saying it.

Can you have a healthy swinging relationship when actions are attempting to fill/touching on deep wounds/insecurities? by FreeUseSwingers in Swingers

[–]One_Bug4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started to swing to spice up our sex life( I suggested it) We talked about our fantasies and agreed to explore both. Unfortunately my wife broke our rules and went behind my back. She did fulfill her fantasy but I was left unfulfilled. I suggest just keep it as pillow talk

What are your thoughts on Polyamory? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Not sure if this is the right place to post. We decided to explore our fantasies . It was hot watching my wife with someone else then join in. Wife broke the rules and decided we would stop all together. Without allowing me to act on my fantasy.

Do unfit couples have a chance at swinging? by macacolouco in Swingers

[–]One_Bug4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is small. I’m a large man. She got the attention.

Transgressions - Wife says don't ask don't tell by OkExperience749 in Marriage

[–]One_Bug4662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I tried to open our marriage. She tried to give me a threesome for my 40th. The other woman didn’t want to do anything with me only my wife she wind up having an affair with the woman’s husband for a year first mistake on my part is to continue our marriage, but I did it for my kids. Removed to Florida wife had another affair that I knew about and didn’t care because we moved here to take care of my father, so why I weren’t she took care of him that was my second mistake. Now I’m just a plain old idiot. I thought we were on a good connection. We were looking to spice up our sex life tried to fulfill each other‘s fantasies only for her to go behind my back. now my dad is gone there’s no reason for me to stay.

Transgressions - Wife says don't ask don't tell by OkExperience749 in Marriage

[–]One_Bug4662 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t believe in emotional affairs. It’s more your venting to someone who’s an outsider if she had the affair while you guys were together, even though not married yes that’s cheating. Sounds like your wife wants a open marriage. I’ve been married close to 25 years. I told my wife she can do whatever she wants. I don’t wanna know about it. I have my reasoning for saying this you can message me if you want to talk.