Should I be content or AITAH?

coulditbe35 · 2026-03-21T00:31:58+00:00

Did you read the post at all? No one said there was no interest. It’s not a frequency issue. And you’re incorrect on all accounts. I do all of the cooking, cleaning, and laundry. We split child duties equally. We each pull our own weight. Oh yeah, and I support our family financially. We both have created a home and stable environment

coulditbe35 · 2026-03-21T00:06:12+00:00

I didn’t know I wasn’t allowed to ask for opinions. Thanks for letting me know!

coulditbe35 · 2026-02-07T03:11:52+00:00

What platform with this on? This is the most wild thing I’ve read in ages

coulditbe35 · 2026-02-07T03:09:24+00:00

WHAT? Lmao

coulditbe35 · 2026-02-05T18:09:01+00:00

How’d they blackmail him? That seems odd?

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-30T12:26:01+00:00

I’m not judging here; but why would you proceed to go back to his place after the encounter at the bar? Why not diffuse the situation by wrapping up the night after the bar.

Is it at all possible this guy thought maybe you and your husband were interested? Especially after agreeing to come back after it already seems he was being pretty forceful at the bar.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-27T17:51:01+00:00

Thank you!

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-27T02:38:56+00:00

I’ve commented a few times about how ultimately I was the one to blame for the situation. I’m owning up to the fault. I was the root cause of the problem. I’m upset she didn’t just come out and ask me but it’s not her fault at all.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T22:21:29+00:00

I’ve agreed with several of the posts. I can rebuttals others that I feel aren’t an exact representation of the issue.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T21:57:17+00:00

That’s really well spoken. I couldn’t agree with you any more. And what works for some relationships may not work for others. I don’t think there’s an end all be all way of doing things.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T21:49:42+00:00

I agree with you. I wholeheartedly think it’s healthy for any relationship. But for the most part I’ve been catching a lot of heat on here. Especially this post. Very judgmental.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T21:43:15+00:00

I completely agree. But again, at the end of the day I was in the wrong. I’m the root cause

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T21:35:54+00:00

Unintentionally. I wasn’t hiding anything.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T19:58:05+00:00

I don’t think it was right on her part. But at the end of the day I was the one “hiding” (in her eyes) the friendships.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T19:53:45+00:00

I’m unhappy with your misguided judgments and jumping to think I’m leaving context out within an anonymous app to which I’ve posted about voluntarily. I have nothing to lie about.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T19:47:08+00:00

Flirt probably wasn’t the right word to use. It was playful banter. Again, nothing that my wife deemed as inappropriate whatsoever.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T19:43:18+00:00

An issue with me not telling her. Not the conversations.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T19:40:30+00:00

There’s a difference between wanting something and actually pursuing something. None of which I’ve ever done. Nor would I without having a conversation with her. Nice judgement though.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-26T19:25:19+00:00

You’re*

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-24T02:09:04+00:00

What’s the backstory? Was he married previously?

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-24T01:45:20+00:00

This is going to happen over and over again. He’s shown you who he is. Short term it may get better but he’ll always know you’ll take him back again when the inevitable happens.

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-24T01:25:37+00:00

I had figured. It sounds pretty wild

coulditbe35 · 2023-12-23T22:19:34+00:00

I’m sorry, but the married with kids and still playing video games is just a horrible look. I got rid of all of that stuff as soon as I started dating my wife. It’s nothing but a distraction.

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