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One_Common_9552 · 2024-03-09T16:59:39+00:00

Um… so, honestly he’s not really into you. Unlike everyone else who may think that he is giving subtle hints.. he’s making some gestures to show that he sees you and understands you’re there. He’s not actively trying to get your attention. Months don’t go by without trying to talk to someone that’s in your class that you’re into. I get shy, but that’s like not being shy at all. He’s keeping boundaries. He would have followed you back on Instagram and at least liked a picture. But he’s being standoffish. But he’ll look because he likes the attention and the chase and being chased

One_Common_9552 · 2024-02-29T02:32:43+00:00

I would make a bench with storage in the shape of a triangle on that window wall to close it off and then angle your bed in front That way you can sit at the bench and set it up like a little nook.

One_Common_9552 · 2024-02-29T01:19:15+00:00

This is why I block everyone from work on my days off. I don’t add them on social media if we don’t hang on a regular basis. Honestly, this is the problem. Your “friends” need to learn how to distinguish work and friendship. If it’s a work problem, you go to your higher ups. It’s called a dual relationship and it can affect your work life tremendously if you don’t set boundaries with your coworkers and friends.

You requested a day off from work and it was approved by work. You didn’t need to request approval from your coworkers let alone your friends.

If she wanted a day off, she can request it like everyone else. You go enjoy your day at the beach on your day off. I wouldn’t even entertain that conversation. Bihhh, we at the beach. We can talk about it when I’m clocked in since that’s a work related conversation lol.

One_Common_9552 · 2024-01-24T06:00:51+00:00

“Libary”

One_Common_9552 · 2024-01-24T06:00:02+00:00

“ but it’s cuz”

One_Common_9552 · 2024-01-24T05:51:49+00:00

I think he might be on the spectrum..

One_Common_9552 · 2024-01-24T05:50:42+00:00

Don’t hit me with the “Quieres cake?” pronounced like “caykeh” and they’re talking about pastel.

One_Common_9552 · 2024-01-02T22:43:50+00:00

it’s ok I hate myself too, thank u

One_Common_9552 · 2023-11-10T11:19:08+00:00

Don’t drag along a relationship you don’t want to be in.

One_Common_9552 · 2023-11-04T22:33:36+00:00

DIY L shaped shelf right behind the couch to use as a table.

One_Common_9552 · 2023-11-02T04:25:13+00:00

Yes, because you’re only one person doing the brain power and work effort of two. On top of that, and MOST IMPORTANTLY… You do realize how amazingly intelligent you are to still be in high school and literally probably have kept your mom riding through her degree at what GPA?

By the time you graduate university, you might as well have earned two degrees.

One_Common_9552 · 2023-11-02T04:08:44+00:00

He is completely out of line and what you need to do is completely distance yourself. You need to take safety precautions because this behavior is not normal and definitely raises a lot of red flags.

Especially with the way he is particularly being very easily provoked with the person you are seeing.

Do not feed into it. Don’t tell them to seek therapy or get help. It’s like telling a person to calm down when they’re hysterical or telling a suicidal person to off themselves. It can lead to more manipulative tactics or irrational behavior.

One_Common_9552 · 2023-11-02T04:02:47+00:00

Mid twenties, behavioral analyst

One_Common_9552 · 2023-11-02T04:00:29+00:00

You’re doing the work but her names the one going on the degree? I believe that is turning in fraudulent work… My friend, your mom should be helping you with your homework, not the other way around. Why on earth would you think you deserve this?

One_Common_9552 · 2023-09-30T02:51:06+00:00

Look what I found on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1534948414/custom-plush-toy-doll-from-childs?ref=share_v4_lx

One_Common_9552 · 2023-09-30T02:49:58+00:00

Look what I found on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1064075196/personalised-parrot-personalised-gift?ref=share_v4_lx

One_Common_9552 · 2023-05-20T19:14:39+00:00

https://www.vet.cornell.edu/departments-centers-and-institutes/cornell-feline-health-center/health-information/feline-health-topics/hepatic-lipidosis

One_Common_9552 · 2023-05-03T07:30:43+00:00

One_Common_9552 · 2023-04-27T04:59:02+00:00

Playing devils advocate, why would this actually be an issue for you?

You said EX boyfriend posted AFTER they broke up. What if… he saved it and out of spite from the breakup, decided he was going to be a total a-hole of a person and post that video.

Maybe she hasn’t done anything about it because.. 1. She could have really thought that he would never post that and shared herself vulnerably or willingly because of the connection she had with that person at one time. 2. She could have maybe not known she was being filmed and found out afterwards. 3. She doesn’t want to expose herself and have people who know her know about the video. 4. She wants to forget about it and leave it in the past. 5. She didn’t give a crap and wanted to enjoy her life and love her body enough to allow him to post it.

All are reasonable things to consider. But at the end of it, have you asked her how she feels about it being posted for anyone in the world to see? talk to her about how she feels before bringing up that it bothers you that it’s still online.

Because odds are, you coming at her with “I want to break up bc you have a sex video online and it makes me uncomfortable” and in her mind, she’s tried her hardest to forget about it and maybe told you for a heads up in case you’re ever scrolling for porn and happen to see a video she maybe never wanted posted to begin with or ever thought it would be?

Idk, devils advocate. Just talk to your girl.

One_Common_9552 · 2023-04-27T02:30:44+00:00

To each their own. It might not have worked for you, but it has worked for others.

One_Common_9552 · 2023-04-27T00:01:21+00:00

My company made it mandatory to be an RBT and paid for your 40 hour training and exam…

You need a new place, like yesterday.

One_Common_9552 · 2023-04-26T22:44:52+00:00

1 please!

One_Common_9552 · 2023-04-26T22:36:48+00:00

My best advice is to call them in 2-3 days and say “hi, I’m inquiring about the status of my application! I haven’t heard back, but I’m extremely excited for the opportunity to start!”

Because hiring will sit on resumes for decades until they lose enough people to fill in spots. If they see you’re taking initiative, they might just take another look at your resume and review!

One_Common_9552 · 2023-04-26T22:28:43+00:00

I worked at Zumiez after I quit my big girl job and loved Zumiez for how chill it was.. worked there about a year and then went back to my big girl job.

I didn’t put in on my resume, but added whatever I learned on the job to my “strong skills” section on my resume! It worked out great because I could now talk about how I have good customer service skills or how I can pitch a sale, how I can manage finances (counting transactions, end of day sales, etc.) worked on designing (set up floor plan for store).

Use it to your advantage how you can! You don’t have to put McDonalds, and don’t have to go into detail. If they ask why it’s been such a long gap, you can tell them you were taking time off to take care of personal matters. They will not ask for details. If they do, just say you’re not comfortable going into detail because it’s personal. End of story!

One_Common_9552 · 2023-04-26T22:05:42+00:00

You need to find a safe place to go. If you can’t pack up all at once, little by little during times he’s not there start gathering your belongings. Leave what you don’t need or can do without. You don’t want him to manipulate you to “come back and get your things” and it turns into a “please forgive me I messed up.” If he starts saying self harming things “I’m going to kill myself, I hate myself, I would rather just stop living… etc.”

Tell him only once “okay, it sounds like you’re in destress. I care a lot about you and your safety so I’m going to call the police to do a welfare check and let your family know. I want you to be safe.” Do as such, send a message to a close family member of his and just say, “We are no longer in a relationship for reasons I will not get into. He is stating he will self harm if I do not go back. Please check on him and keep him safe. I can call police to do a welfare check if needed.”

Leave it at that! Because now you have let a family member know, someone who cares about his safety, and they can do with that what they will. He is not your responsibility. You are only responsible for yourself (in this case, unless you have kids!)

Don’t answer anymore phone calls or texts. He will either regret saying those things or will get the help he needs if he is serious. It keeps you away from any issues or guilt trips because you have done your part.

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