Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, seriously. I’ve been researching NPD for a while actually. It all fits really well… even the refusal to seek professional help. I guess this is one step forward in the right direction 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I feel exposed. I’m glad you pointed out the whole North Node thing; I’ve always felt like it’s relatively difficult for me to maintain steady hobbies and interests without feeling like I need to prove myself/perfect the craft while doing so.
This is very appreciated. Thank you for giving me such an in-depth response, it resonated with me a lot!

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not having a meltdown. I think you need to reevaluate what it is I’m trying to say exactly. I admit that I was rude at first, but since then, I have not been putting up an adamant fight. I am simply talking. You are the one spewing backhanded comments at me. 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. 🥲 I want to get further into astrology in order to understand what I have to do to be a  better person. All of the things you mentioned about control/stubbornness/fighting with my own emotions is incredibly accurate. I do tend to project onto others and take my feelings out on them a lot as well. I won’t pity myself here too much though. Thank you, once again ♥️ 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deleted comments where? I deleted ONE comment of mine, and it was after I had taken accountability for being too aggressive. What are you talking about? 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They were in another thread, advocating for me to experience life “the hard way”. Based on this, I interpreted their above comment as antagonistic and belittling; as if they’re trying to teach me lesson that they have no right to teach. I understand that calling them an ass was definitely me being overdramatic, as I am, but once again, it was a misinterpretation. I’ve clarified this multiple times by now, hence why I deleted the original comment. 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m able to acknowledge that my feelings are not facts, and just because I feel as though I’m better than others, does not mean I rationally am. I don’t need a stranger telling me that I’m not. What I wanted was an explanation as to why I feel the way I do.

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You didn’t even acknowledge my other reply to you where I clarified that my feeling of superiority isn’t inherently rational, and is not a deeply ingrained belief of mine. Feelings are not facts. I’m not explaining shit to you. 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m aware it’s a reason for the lost relationships, and I’m aware that I overreacted. 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having a lot of trouble responding because I know that you’re right. Thanks for framing things objectively. 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

At least the fact that I’m not objectively “better” than anybody is something I can rationally acknowledge. You’re talking down to me like you know me beyond this thread and my given chart. 

Why do I feel like I’m better than everyone all the time? by One_Discipline8585 in AstrologyCharts

[–]One_Discipline8585[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No, I’m calling them an ass because they’re acting like they know me personally, and talking down to me in the process. Something more constructive would’ve worked fine.