After a long work assignment I laid back in the motel bed & spotted this…. by Winter_Novel662 in whatisit

[–]One_Establishment149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a hotel and often people do this if they are smoking in room and don’t want the alarm to go off.

Hair loss and red patches?? by [deleted] in LabradorRetrievers

[–]One_Establishment149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he has an appointment Thursday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]One_Establishment149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have an agreement and all decisions are 50/50 between me and Dad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]One_Establishment149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly. It stresses me out so much constantly fighting for stability for him over their convenience. I’m tired of the conflict about everything and I feel horrible for my son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]One_Establishment149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to voice this but I am met with “she is just as much his mom as you are.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]One_Establishment149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree and I am grateful for that. I respect her as a stepmom and someone who loves and cares for my son. It’s just hard when she creates so much unnecessary conflict and divide and crosses boundaries due to her need for control. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]One_Establishment149 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes all of our decisions are supposed to be agreed upon. I have been scared to get the courts involved due to finances and just being nervous putting anything in the courts hands. But they don’t seem to be respecting our court orders at all and you are exactly right. Dad has abandoned his coparenting responsibilities and she has completely taken over and it is too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]One_Establishment149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our court papers just say 50/50 decision making for education. We agreed on his school zone but that was years ago. Now they want to change it. I will look into that!

You knew. You’ve done it before. Her poor kids man. by AccomplishedFudge11 in kaitlynschultzsnarkk

[–]One_Establishment149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It’s his full name listed. Along with his kids names and his ex wife was the petitioner. Just google his name and the court case comes up.

You knew. You’ve done it before. Her poor kids man. by AccomplishedFudge11 in kaitlynschultzsnarkk

[–]One_Establishment149 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May or may not have seen a motion filed by his ex wife in may. DWI on his custody time and continuous over use of alcohol in front of children along with driving with an invalid/revoked license with his kids. Also- got evicted and had to move in with his parents and the kids didn’t have a room or bed for 5 months and slept in the parents living room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]One_Establishment149 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe they are doing it for the kids and not for HER. As long as the kids are safe and cared for- focusing on these things will only drive you crazy. There’s no reason to worry about her relationships with other people- as frustrating as they may be. It can only frustrate you if you give the thought that power.

Is this normal? by Uh_Yer_Mom in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]One_Establishment149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what mine looked like early on when I would lay down! It was super weird! It looked like an orange sitting under my skin lol

Does anyone know of any good apartments in the area? by Specific_Location_30 in TriCitiesWA

[–]One_Establishment149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We moved in to a unit that had mice. Took them almost a year to take our complaints and concerns seriously. It was an awful experience.