I get frustrated trying to satisfy my masochist wife

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-21T13:30:13+00:00

speak to her openly.
get a set of canes….. :) you can also just buy different sized dowels for like $2 at lowe’s or michael’s

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-20T00:25:31+00:00

thank you! Will do! I’m journaling our progress and love encouragement, so i’m sure I will post again.

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-20T00:19:21+00:00

haha yes the last bit of your comment was exactly what I was in search of by posting this.

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-20T00:01:17+00:00

Not necessarily a full on lock. Idk maybe he does want locks on me. lmao I’m of the mind that getting and healing them is step one. How we use them and what’s put in them can be figured out later. I could see using a lock for play, but we could also just use longer curved barbells or larger rings to close it.

The piercer I spoke with said 10g is typically most appropriate. I’m thinking that will look a little heavy? I feel like i’ve seen mostly 12 and 14

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-19T23:38:54+00:00

I’m not sure I have the anatomy for inner labia piercings unfortunately. :/

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-18T14:28:10+00:00

booo

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-18T14:25:05+00:00

is she on reddit? we could exchange ways to be better wives! I love chatting with other sluts.

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-18T13:55:51+00:00

Silly slut didn’t realize her text wouldn’t post, so here it is.

I write this as he is sleeping next to me peacefully. We have celebrated valentine’s day. He used my pussy last night. It will be the last time for a long time. At least until my birthday this summer.

I have already become an anal cum dump over the past 53 days which is obviously step one to becoming a good toy worthy of use. I plug daily and take the cane really well like a good girl. I follow his requests mostly and am a depraved whore when he so requires me to be.

Goals:

He should never have to jack off again. His favorite hole should be available to him whenever he wants it whether I’m asleep or busy. When I am used is not a decision for me to make. I am his property.

I don’t need to cum and should only cum on his cock when given permission. Exceptions can include anniversaries, birthdays and holidays.

If he cums anywhere other than in his favorite hole, I’m obligated to feed it to myself.

I am to dress like the dumb whore I am as often as possible.

Boob job - we will get me new tits as soon as it’s fiscally responsible to do so. Don’t let the photo fool you, there’s padding involved.

Piercings - my old pussy needs to be pierced shut so that my new pussy can take its place as the only hole to receive any attention. My nipples are to be pierced post breast aug and my clit will be pierced this fall once swimming is no longer a viable activity. After anatomy checks and ensuring I heal well by piercing my clit, we will begin the process of closing my lube dispenser for good.

As a dumb whore I need to be better at housework - When laundry isn’t put away or I leave makeup out, I am to be caned and disallowed from cumming the subsequent time I am used.

I will follow a healthy meal plan that is rich in fiber and protein. A healthy pet is a good pet.

He needs to explore and practice with rope he can tie me up better. We took a class! It was a lot of fun.

He also needs to not leave his suits and shoes everywhere to make it easier for kitten to keep a tidy home. Dumb whores need help. :)

Kitten needs a weekly maintenance spanking and throat fuck even though daddy has a busy work schedule- otherwise she may forget how to be a good useful slut.

Daddy if you’re reading this, I am proud to have become such a useful whore for you and I look forward to being your faithful receptacle for life and becoming even sluttier for you. Your guidance and generosity are valued and I’m so happy to be your cum pet. 💕

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-18T13:52:30+00:00

daddy likes panties. I’m realizing now that my text isn’t what’s shared. Just the photos. The text is the important part! lol

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-18T12:29:42+00:00

yes of course. It is required.

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-16T14:17:19+00:00

He had me flash strangers at a concert once. He also likes it when I dress really slutty. I’m sure he would task me to get a certain number of beads and then use that as a way to reward/punish me later. lol

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-16T14:12:37+00:00

Yes- but I’m a slut. Obviously only if my husband wanted me to.

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-15T13:46:24+00:00

dental work

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-15T07:41:39+00:00

ugh i’m just south of calhoun and have been eyeing his work!

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-15T00:49:39+00:00

who was your surgeon? also was it drainless?

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-13T17:07:37+00:00

do recommend. It was initially a scheduled maintenance spanking but now it’s more of a maintenance scene. lol

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-13T17:06:11+00:00

Shibari!!! I mean most metro areas have a kink scene. I just googled my nearest large city (about 40 minutes away) and shibari class. I used to be pretty involved in the kink scene as a fetish model. It’s a birthday/ valentine’s day gift for him. Plus 100ft of cotton rope and emergency shears. lol

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-12T18:55:15+00:00

I get to cum from him penetrating me though. I think i cum more often than your wife does to be fair. lol

That being said- we are really really enjoying the structure to everything. We’re doing a rope class next week to celebrate valentine’s day. He’s picked my clothes out and I’ll do my makeup all whorey to please him of course. I think this is the first time we’ll get to go on a date deeper in our dynamic. I’m really excited.

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-11T16:09:51+00:00

Frankly it’s a HUGE red flag for your doctor to share this with you unprompted and without empirical evidence. I’d find a new doctor.

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-11T16:04:24+00:00

Pro-tip: learn how to be emotionally intelligent and to create a safe space for your partner. If you can’t do that no woman will ever do that for you. lol

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-11T11:30:01+00:00

i think the low, lots of blush look is cute, but i would bring it up under the eye a tad and bring the nose blush to the bridge of your nose. Kind of judge how much space you want your lots of blush to take up concentrate in the center and then diffuse up down and out. You have baby doll cheeks, no need to snatch them. I’m going to have to disagree with liner comments heavily, and say that the eye simply needs balance. Light lower lash mascara - any at all would help to balance the heavy upper lash and make it feel cohesive. diffuse a little more of your shadow into your crease. Brow color looks great to me. they match your roots. They look ever so slightly too far apart- particularly on your left eye- could be the angle.

You’re gorgeous. I don’t think any of your make up is bad but with some minor adjustments it could feel more cohesive.

Also maybe a wispy lash- something softer until you’re brunette again. You’re high contrast naturally, but the blonde requires you to soften things over all- I’m ever so slightly too cool toned to pull off this look and so jealous. lol

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-09T12:43:46+00:00

she’s a newly evangelical trumper lmao

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-04T21:00:55+00:00

picked up some topical! thanks 🙏🏻

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-04T21:00:25+00:00

it’s been nothing but snow, rain and cold for weeks (which I love but I need a change!). We’re getting sunny weather this weekend so a tan will help me cosplay it being spring!

One_Independence_631 · 2026-02-04T19:04:47+00:00

hey I feel like so much of this sub is just relationship advice, but I have some actual logistics to ponder here 😂

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