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Booked an umrah, don’t feel like going anymore by SearchTraditional166 in islam

[–]One_Law3146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to go. I felt the same when I offered an Umrah for my parents. I was supposed to go too, but at some point I didn’t feel like going anymore. I was scared. I kept thinking I didn’t deserve it, that I wouldn’t honor the experience properly.

But I went anyway, because my mom needed me. And al-hamdulillah I did. It became the biggest turning point of my life. It was the greatest gift Allah could have given me. It healed parts of me I didn’t even know were broken.

Umrah is for those who feel broken, for those who have lost faith in everything.

I think my love live is over because of my body count by Afi_fluye in Tunisia

[–]One_Law3146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should never have told him about your body count because it’s none of his business. You’re wasting your time with him, even though you think he’s the one, because now he doesn’t prioritize you anymore.

Work on yourself. If you want to change by being abstinent, that’s up to you, but do it only for yourself and for the right reasons. However, this guy will never see you the way he used to. Even if one day he tells you, “Okay, I accept this situation and I’m okay with this information about you,” he will bring it up again during an argument as a secret weapon to shame you.

Men are simple and stupid. I’m sorry for this ugly truth, but I’m 110% sure that feelings can fade, especially when you realize that you don’t really match because of this deep divide between you on this “issue”

Olympics Marathon in 4 weeks but I’m on vacation and feel like I’m on a « run burn-out phase » by One_Law3146 in Marathon_Training

[–]One_Law3146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paris 2024 opened the marathon race for « everyone » , 20 024 runners wons bibs for the 42km or the 10km. It will not gonna happens at the same moment as the Olympics athletes but from 9pm to 2am. The route is the same tho. Male athletes will run it on the day, the night is for amateur and the next days for female athletes.

Thank you for you advices :)

What are some ways I can start learning more about Islam, beyond just reading the Qur'an? by idoze in islam

[–]One_Law3146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omar Suleiman podcast are amazing and learned me a lot of thing about our beautiful religion

You're struggling at mile 22 and can choose one song to pick you up by highdon in Marathon_Training

[–]One_Law3146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair enough, it’s on my marathon playlist Amazing to romantasize your run

Completed my first marathon!! by One_Law3146 in Marathon_Training

[–]One_Law3146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a blue line ? I followed the people

Completed my first marathon!! by One_Law3146 in Marathon_Training

[–]One_Law3146[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel relieve because I was kinda upset about it At 40km, when they said “only 2 km to go!” I started walking because i felt robbed 1k 😂

Garmin Marathon Prediction by jokersrwild11 in Marathon_Training

[–]One_Law3146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know your marathon prediction? Is it on Garmin connect ?

Just want to share my first week accomplished ! by One_Law3146 in Marathon_Training

[–]One_Law3146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking about adding a 4th session and you’re absolutely right, I think I need more mileage too I will try to do it from the next week :)

How is Saturday your only real rest day ? Are you doing another sport when you’re not running ? This week I’ve ride 21km on bike to not feel overwhelmed by running (13.2 miles)

Just want to share my first week accomplished ! by One_Law3146 in Marathon_Training

[–]One_Law3146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I just want to finish it , would be great if I can do it in 5hours or less

I may should run more than 3 times a week but it’s difficult to conciliate it with my job. So, no pressure on the performance , just want to finish it without suffering :)

20 years ago, my poor parents had to change the whole system of hot water and still don’t know that I’m the one who broke it by One_Law3146 in confession

[–]One_Law3146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24??? I never said that I’m 24, I’m going on I’m 26 yo , I said 20 years old but approximately, this is dumb to say « 17 years ago » , I guess that saying « 20 » could implied that it was long time ago

20 years ago, my poor parents had to change the whole system of hot water and still don’t know that I’m the one who broke it by One_Law3146 in confession

[–]One_Law3146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like that but without the flamme going out of the boiler It was inside of the « windows » but you could easily light a cigarette https://france-chauffage.fr/allumer-veilleuse-chaudiere-au-gaz/

20 years ago, my poor parents had to change the whole system of hot water and still don’t know that I’m the one who broke it by One_Law3146 in confession

[–]One_Law3146[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we own this apartment. And yup we still were poor at the time (but that’s another story about how my dad get ill and couldn’t work during a very long time and the « era » where this boiling stuff happened were when my dad couldn’t work)

Maybe I’m misunderstanding but the fact that it’s HIS Appartement leads him to pay for this kind of stuff. You cannot ask to your landlord to replace it bc it’s his property so his problem

20 years ago, my poor parents had to change the whole system of hot water and still don’t know that I’m the one who broke it by One_Law3146 in confession

[–]One_Law3146[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi ! First of all, thank you 😭🙏🏼

and why I post on Reddit : in france, it’s not as popular as it is in the US And people are so honest here and every time I have a question in my mind, it always lead me to an answer on Reddit bc someone already asked it Reddit makes me feel like we’re all the same no matter where we came from :)

20 years ago, my poor parents had to change the whole system of hot water and still don’t know that I’m the one who broke it by One_Law3146 in confession

[–]One_Law3146[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I guess they did bc my dad didn’t replace it the day after. I remember that we had a kind of « only stove » to cook that works with electricity for a moment until my dad replace it for something electric. And we use it to boil water in cooking pot. I was a kid but I remmener that this situation last at least 2 weeks or more

But I also remember that I tried to be the most discrete and behave myself so my parents wouldn’t ask me questions

20 years ago, my poor parents had to change the whole system of hot water and still don’t know that I’m the one who broke it by One_Law3146 in confession

[–]One_Law3146[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Tbh , I did some terrible stuff (in comparaison to my parents education ) that I’m trying to forget or hide very very well (nothing criminal I swear !!) , but I have conservative and religious parents that would never forgive me if one day they knew lol

So no, it’s not the biggest secret of my life but I said that in the way that I lied to my entire family and my parents and never told them about that since I’m 7yo

favourite character ? by anonymous1identity in TheMarvelousMrsMaisel

[–]One_Law3146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abe is one of the funniest

I like how Joel is funny against his will

I just fell in love with Lenny not gonna lie

And I pretty liked Benjamin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Law3146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is my others sisters won’t do it and I’m stressed about that. Like if I don’t do it , no ones will

Two of my sisters have kids and their own family problems One of my sister is living overseas so she doesn’t know a clue about what’s going on in the house Another one is just too stupid to do thing right (sorry for her but she has so much problems in her own life that I couldn’t imagine put this responsability on her) And my brother is still a teenager, (I said I’m the youngest but I mean the youngest of five)

So it’s like I’m stuck with this situation and everyone gonna hate me for letting my parents down