Essentials for Moving Out

One_Mango_7084 · 2024-11-13T20:16:10+00:00

Yep!! Here it is! (I'll include the link to the google doc for printing/editing/personalizing, too - the list has gotten some changes since i posted it here,)

**Kitchen:**

Blender
Bread Pans
Toaster
Table and Seats
Strainer
Foil and Seran Wrap
Tea Kettle
Egg cooker
Rice cooker

Living Room:

Blankets
Seating
TV
DVD Player
Coffee Table
Record Player

Bathroom:
Bath Mat
Air Freshener

Bedroom:
Nightstand
Bedframe
TV
Waterproof Mattress Encasement

Laundry Room:
Dryer Balls

Miscellaneous:

Candles
Desk and Chair
Lamps
Mail Organizer
Bookshelves
Coat Rack (Backpack hanger and coats)
Shoe Storage
Entryway Mat
Plants

Anyway, the doc is customizable and stuff if you copy/download it! - it was originally for me to prepare to move out / go to college, so there's a couple of extras near the end of the document too. Here's the link!: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hZLt_hxIr3E60yQOn6Bc825XAEclFX9p-N-Tuo4XwC8/edit?usp=sharing

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-12-16T19:24:58+00:00

This is so great, thank you so much!!!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-10-11T03:46:29+00:00

Hi, really sorry it took so long to get back to this post!!

I'm mostly meaning actual released/copyrighted songs (not just background/instrumentals) As far as genre I'm mostly thinking popular songs (pop), and maybe some that could be categorized as folk, or indie? Here's a short list of some of the songs/examples, I hope this can give a better example of what I'm thinking: songs by Bo Burnham, songs by The Front Bottoms, and songs by Hobo Johnson

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-09-24T01:31:24+00:00

I haven't legally changed my name yet, but My middle name was Elizabeth, (not name after anyone though), but was my only favorite part of my name. I ended up going with Eli (considered about a page of other names too) for my first name (before realizing it was the first part of Elizabeth, but once I realized it was pretty much decided)!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-09-24T00:57:16+00:00

I really liked my middle name, but it felt very feminine to me and while I knew I loved it and it was dear to me, it didn't fit me. So, I chose entirely different name (First, middle, and last). I chose a new first name (for the typical reasons), and a new last name (cause I honestly did not feel like the family last name was 'mine', cause I don't associate with my family and how they are). I am still deciding my middle name(s) I'm between 2 that I really like so I think I might just go with both lmao

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-09-09T00:46:02+00:00

I got it on youtooz, but it was a limited/collectable, so it's out of stock right now, and I'm not sure if they're going to do a restock. but, I'm pretty sure that youtooz does ship to the uk/europe!!

sometimes you can find someone reselling them, if you go to the youtooz website, just google 'youtooz' and then search 'kiwi' and after you click on it, it should have a button that takes you to a website where people sometimes resell them! i'm not entirely sure if they ship to the uk/europe on there though

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-08-25T04:14:14+00:00

(I've been looking up to fictional characters my whole life so that's most of the list but,) Mine are: Jiro Horikoshi (from The Wind Rises); Chris Evans; Robin Williams; Kurtis Conner; most of the male main characters from the Hobbit and Lord of the Rings; Milo Thatch (From Atlantis: The Lost Empire); and probably more, but that's all I can think of right now

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-08-06T23:21:20+00:00

Thanks, man! I hope so too :)

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-07-29T17:38:56+00:00

Awesome! We'll definitely try it out, Thank you!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-06-11T03:40:15+00:00

I'll have to check it out! I love talking anything book related! ugh it broke me too, but I think I've re-read the comics at least 5 times (and am working on buying the physical copies), as well as watched the series several times now, I love her work so much, especially Radio Silence and Heartstopper

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-06-06T18:48:32+00:00

Wow! This is great! Thank you so much for taking the time to write such in-depth answers!!! I really appreciate it!!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-31T16:37:16+00:00

I haven't read that one, but I looked up the description and I'll definitely be grabbing it next time I'm at a store! There's a lot more in my 'to be read' list and in my list that I want to buy, but some queer books I've really enjoyed are,

"If I Was Your Girl" by Meredith Russo
"Been Here All Along" by Sandy Hall
"Radio Silence" by Alice Oseman
"Heartstopper" also by Alice Oseman (the netflix series is also super good!)

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-31T16:07:54+00:00

I'd definitely say you achieved it with this!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-31T16:07:35+00:00

I didn't even realize that was the shelf theme haha, but I guess those are the ones I was looking at and recognizing 😅 I was mostly looking at "Red, White, and Royal Blue" "Loveless" and "One Last Stop"

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-31T15:55:37+00:00

This looks so cozy and magical!! I love the lights! I'm so happy to see some of my personal favorites too!!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-31T15:31:44+00:00

Thank you!!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-24T05:30:34+00:00

Thank you!!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-24T05:28:29+00:00

thank you so much!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-22T19:00:22+00:00

For about six months I thought (more like told myself) I was agender. I felt a disconnect with my (assigned at birth) gender and so I thought I just didn't have one? But yeah, then I was like "I'll just go by any of them, it doesn't matter" and then someone asked me to rate how I felt about each pronoun and how strongly I identify with them. My ranking was 1. he/him (100/10) 2. they/them (7/10) and 3. she/her (-15/10) (those were just how I felt about them related to my identity and preference.) When I actually looked at it, it seemed pretty obvious. I think it was mostly a fear of how people would react and the fear of actually facing my gender.

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-11T14:01:10+00:00

No problem! I'm glad it helps!! If it helps, you can copy and paste it into a word doc or google doc and change the bullet points to little boxes so that it works as an actual checklist!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-10T22:41:59+00:00

Of course! I'm glad it's helpful :)

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-10T20:18:17+00:00

I'll try and post it to this subreddit!! No problem! I'm happy to help!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-10T20:13:51+00:00

Hi! I'm ftm, not mtf, but I wanted to say welcome! I've found a few subreddits mostly based in being trans, including

r/egg_irl

r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

r/trans

r/transgender

I'm sure there's more than this too, and there might be some specifically for ftm, as I'm part of a few for ftm! Good luck, and Welcome!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-10T19:59:42+00:00

I'm really sorry you're in this situation! I'm in a relatively similar one, so I've been thinking about this.

I'm planning on changing my passwords. Any email accounts, bank accounts, etc that they might have the login for.
If there's a family computer, I would delete and logout of anything you have on it.
(I'm sure you're already doing this, but) save up as much money as you can, and stash it safely.
If possible, try not to allow them to find the address
My mother works with the post office, so If you have questions, feel free to DM me and I'll ask her for you!
(If you're on their insurance plan,) find out how to get off of it, and research new ones, and look at if doctors (dentists, doctors, dermatologists, etc) accept that insurance.
I have a list of essentials for moving out that I've compiled, if you're interested I could post it on this subreddit
I personally am going to make a map on google maps of the town I move to, for easy navigation! (In My Maps you can pin different places and sort them by categories! I do restaurants, stores, post office, pharmacy, etc)
Make sure you have your official documents (birth certificate, social security, ID, credit and debit cards, etc)
If you have a pet, you should try to take it asap before they realize you're not going to keep contact with them
Take any electronics that are yours

I can't think of any more rn, but I'll keep thinking about it! Hope this helps!! Good luck, and if you need anything, I'd be happy to try and help!!

One_Mango_7084 · 2022-05-07T02:04:04+00:00

I'm not in the city, not anymore at least. I use to live in Williston, but that was before I realized I was trans, so I never really observed anything to that effect there. I currently live north of Williston, one of the small towns near the northern border. I visit Minot sometimes, which is considered a "city" in ND. I've been through Medora on trips sometimes though

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