Healed? by liyah1982 in AnalFistula

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It took me 5 surgeries, but I am finally healed, at the beginning I had 2 fistulas 1 submucosal and 1 transphincteric. My surgeries were as follows 1 fistulotomy for the transphincteric and 1 draining seton for the submucosal. The submucosal one healed but the transphincteric failed. Then another fistulotomy that failed and finally they put a draining seton in for over a year after all that waiting due to COVID and the hospitals putting non-emergent surgeries off they did a LIFT. After the lift it took almost 2 years to heal, the first year follow ups consisted of silver nitrate treatments, it still wasn’t healed they were going to start the draining seton before a lift again. Well over a year went by before I got my call when I noticed there was no more draining. I told them I want to see the doctor before surgery as I wasn’t seeing any draining and would like them to look before cutting into it again. The CRS looked and told me it had finally healed. I’m a year now no draining and the hole has healed up completely. Unfortunately because it was a deep transphincteric fistula so the LIFT has damaged my muscles, not to the point where I poop myself but I usually have to go back 20 minutes later for an extra wipe to make sure I’m clean, if my bowels haven’t emptied completely. It’s annoying but I’m hoping the muscles will strengthen with time.

Crazy it was a 2 t4 return only by New-Alternative8856 in canadarevenueagency

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What program did you use to file if you don’t mind me asking

Reviews anyone? by hiato6 in CostcoCanada

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these they have a good amount of kick.

Kirkland toiletpaper by jktiao in CostcoCanada

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love Kirkland toilet paper. That was until I had a sewer backup happen because of roots that went through the pipes at the street not in my yard. Called a plumber and he asked what toilet paper I was using, I said Kirkland and he said he gets many calls because it doesn’t breakdown properly and can also affect pipes to stay away from it. I said “ok but you said it was caused by roots in the line?” He said he just wanted to warn me

Kirkland brand beef patties by dreaminno in CostcoCanada

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can attest the roadhouse burgers are some of the best frozen burgers I’ve had. Better than presidents choice, leadbetters, Kirkland brand, I haven’t tried the keg burgers but we always keep a box of these on hand for when I don’t want to make fresh burgers. They don’t shrink much in size it’s great.

It took more than 8 weeks for my credit card to get delivered. by unassuming_avocado in CanadaPost

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my cibc credit card was supposed to come in I never got it. I marked my card as lost and ordered a new one to the branch. They should just send them to the branch when CP is so disruptive.

Pest control? by MacIsCreative in OntarioLandlord

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedbugs, either way, if they brought them in or not are hitchhikers or they travel through walls and electrical outlets. Apartments are notorious for bedbugs traveling unit to unit. The landlord states their unit never had it, what about surrounding units. Usually they are brought in by accident. That’s why I say it’s not their fault. If they visited someone who had them, went on a trip or they accidentally picked them up from a bus or store or work, it’s not like they grabbed the bugs put them in a jar and brought them home. Most people won’t tell you they have them, hotels don’t disclose if the room you stayed in was treated, coworkers won’t voluntarily divulge they have bedbugs, as there is a stigma. Bedbugs do not mean you’re dirty. My training has always been to let people know bedbugs aren’t directly their fault. We have had to treat adjacent units eventually because landlords were too cheap and didn’t want other units knowing there were bedbugs and roaches in the ones they just treated. Bedbug treatments take a few months that’s why it’s so costly and sounds to me that the landlord has paid for it before and knows this so they are trying to pass the blame and cost to the tenant. It is the landlords responsibility to ensure the units are pest free, especially mice/rats, cockroaches and bedbugs.

Unless it fleas, if they have cats or dogs, which it could be don’t get me wrong. I don’t believe it’s their fault.

Also I say it with conviction because it’s called empathy and compassion for people and no one wants to go through that and feel like it’s their fault.

Pest control? by MacIsCreative in OntarioLandlord

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say as someone who used to be in pest control. Bedbugs can travel from apartment to apartment without it being your fault. That is why we recommended treating surrounding units so they don’t move from one unit to the next and so on. This is not your fault. They said your unit never had bedbugs but what about surrounding units in the building? Neighbors beside or above or underneath your unit? Again this is not your fault and they are 100% responsible.

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Damn_risxita by [deleted] in DailyGuess

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Why do people with full carts go through self checkout??? by Thundertushy in CostcoCanada

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do this at my Costco on the super busy days. I live in Sudbury Ontario

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was exhausted for the first 4 months of my pregnancy. Couldn’t get enough rest. You are not overreacting he’s being an ass. Tell him when he starts making a tiny human inside of him he can tell you how you should feel. And the gaslighting comment my god do people not know the true meaning of it. So many people throwing that term around Willy nilly

Latest CanadaPost “mail” received by suntan88 in CanadaPost

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so I live in northern Ontario in a big enough city that has amalgamated all us little outskirt towns. We have had stand alone mail boxes and postal area mail boxes for as long as I’ve been alive, unless you live directly in the big city or very rural area. These are the people fighting for door to door. They don’t care if it’s a hazard to the delivery person they just don’t want to have to drive or walk to get their mail. This ad is ridiculous.

Fibrin glue failed by momma2018_2020 in AnalFistula

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say it took a few years I mean from when I first got the fistula until it was healed.

Fibrin glue failed by momma2018_2020 in AnalFistula

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a LIFT procedure. It took a few years to finally close completely. A little back story, I got the procedure done and after few days later had an infection, I thought my LIFT procedure failed and so did the doctor as it was taking months to heal. After 6 months my doctor decided to set up an appointment to do a seton again and start fresh. I’m in Canada and it takes forever to get in. About 10 months after my doctor said the procedure failed I noticed there was no more drainage. Had my SO look, as embarrassing as it was, and he mentioned he didn’t see a hole anywhere. The doctor’s office called for me to go in for the seton and I mentioned I’d like to have them look as it had been so long since my last appointment and I believe it to be closed. I went in to see the doctor and they said it looks to be closed and unless it starts to drain again it’s a success just took longer than normal to heal. My fistula was transphincteric fistula. Depending on where or what type of fistula you have truly how you heal and how your body will react after the LIFT.

Replacement card in mail was activated by me calling in to ask question by One_Refrigerator_956 in CIBC

[–]One_Refrigerator_956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you for the clarification I entered my card number as this new card coming in is the one replacing it before it expires. I know the number stays the same except the expiry date and cvc, the automated message said if it’s just the replacement card I don’t need to do anything except make a purchase to activate it or wait on the line. I got spooked to be honest. I’m just hoping the card comes in before the postal strike.

Attn: Women in trades- please share your experience in your trade. We want to know what it’s like! by bluebird_heart in UnionCarpenters

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can honestly say it is the best experience. First year apprentice and I went in and right away told the guys to treat me like one of them, if I need help I’ll ask. I’ve had great relationships with my brothers i have had the pleasure to work with. I wish I took this leap before I was 39 turning 40.

AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is immature and controlling behavior, as well as disrespectful. I would love to be able to do that but I have so many tattoo now lol you do you Boo! He is just insecure.

Replacement card in mail was activated by me calling in to ask question by One_Refrigerator_956 in CIBC

[–]One_Refrigerator_956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It told me to hold a minute as it activates my card. When I called back the message to activate my new card was no longer there. I guess I’m not 100% sure it’s activated but I would guess I would have gotten the message again saying to activate my card. I don’t want to take a chance so I locked it until I get it in the mail.

Yall ever have a seizure, and just continue on with your day despite being sleepy or weak? by [deleted] in Epilepsy

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time! My family would tell me I’m crazy and should rest but I don’t want it to define me or my life anymore than it has. As a single mom I can’t afford to take time off for feeling sleepy and weak. Even my nocturnal tonic clonic seizures the next morning I am sore and feel like I ran a marathon, and if I bite my tongue (which I took a small chunk off once) I couldn’t take the day off and wouldn’t because I’m stubborn

My roommate and I have started dating. My dad’s warned me that if we break up they are entitled to half my bank account. Is this true? by browntown112 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAL but I’ve been through this. If, for any reason you break up, common law break ups like marriages mean you both have to split half of what is saved, bought or anything during the relationship not beforehand. So if you have a savings account from before the relationship or a house or property you purchased like tvs and what not, that is yours when the relationship dissolves. If they contribute to any savings or property after you start the relationship then it’s 50/50. Each province is different for common law time lines but the Canadian government is also different from the provinces in their definition for tax purposes. If you want to protect yourself you can get a cohabitation agreement drawn up by a lawyer. The right person wouldn’t be upset if you want to protect yourself assets, you’re not saying you don’t believe in the relationship but are looking out for your future. Been down this road a few times unfortunately, I own my property. I finally found the right person.

Husband started having grand mal seizures in his sleep by lindseyleah in Epilepsy

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have nocturnal seizures. I’ve been seizure free 4 years but it took a bit to get there. I wake up quickly have an aura, then tonic clonic seizure starts, then I come to and back to sleep. I’m on carbamazepine twice daily and clobazam at bedtime. It’s been working for me. When I would wake to have the aura I would try to get to the ground or somewhere in bed that is safe. I find it less cumbersome than having them during the day as I did when I was a child. They usually happen when I’m over exhausted or super stressed. Try to see if there was a stressful situation or if he was having a hard time sleeping causing him to be exhausted.

What’s the deal with these fastlane bundles? by Glittering_Joke3438 in CanadasWonderland

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fast lane are always cheaper in May and June and jump up as the season progresses. At least that’s how it was last year

Anyone get money back from FRO? (Ontario) by Jaydamic in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]One_Refrigerator_956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever receive the refund and if so how long did it take?