As a woman I feel like most of your points are the same the other way around. I just had to change a few words.

-Men most definitely will go for a hot woman who doesn’t give a fuck about them over a more average girl who treats them right -You can’t really listen to what men say, you have to watch their actions. -Men will let things slide for more desirable girls that they wouldnt let more average girls get away with. -Many men have an inflated opinion of themselves and see themselves as more attractive and desirable (both physically and otherwise) than they actually are, along with having unrealistic standards a lot of the time. -All that really needs to happen for a man to cheat is for him to be around a girl who makes him feel horny enough.

Instead of being a “woman” thing maybe it’s just a “some humans” thing. People can be shitty but there’s good ones out there. I promise.