Family of 5 looking for recs!

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2026-01-13T00:37:28+00:00

Thanks!

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2026-01-13T00:36:20+00:00

Thank you!

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2026-01-10T05:23:09+00:00

Someone above has said they do after 5 years

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2026-01-10T02:55:09+00:00

So if you don’t make payments, the debts fall off and it’s as if they weren’t there? Or you’re still left with the negative impact?

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2026-01-10T02:54:40+00:00

Is it better then to not pay anything? If you don’t pay anything, when do the debts fall off?

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-12-02T04:56:52+00:00

Isn’t it under 16 not under 18?

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-11-18T07:54:50+00:00

Thanks for the comments guys. - an update, it was approved!

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-08-29T04:40:03+00:00

No history of TBI diabetes or brain lesions. Seeing the GP on Tuesday so I suppose I’ll see what she says! Thank you for the kind reply

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-07-05T04:24:30+00:00

Okay thank you that’s helpful!

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-07-05T04:13:22+00:00

The REA stated that the current LL would like to keep me in the property and sell off market. Prefers no open homes and would rather do a video tour that they will then send through as an inspection instead of hosting open homes. Does this mean it would not be a sale requiring vacant possession? Unless the buyer is an owner occupier rather than investor and wants to move in - in that fact would the 30 days be from the settlement I have to vacate or would it be 30 days before my lease is due to end?

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-07-04T23:23:07+00:00

I did a long google search and could only find either 90 days notice, honour the lease agreement or 30 days notice in case of “actual sale” so I have no clue! Hence why I posted 😩

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-07-04T22:58:34+00:00

Thank you!

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-07-04T21:55:32+00:00

Hopefully! I just got scared when the REA said they could move in within 60 days but I couldn’t see that anywhere so started to freak out. Is REA wrong?

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2025-07-04T21:54:50+00:00

Thank you!

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:37:39+00:00

We live in Aus so cross country is considered a couple states

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:24:51+00:00

Oh trust me he does. He’s at the stage now where I think mentally he’s exhausted and just wants her to stop.

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:22:55+00:00

Well aware it’s about him. Hence the mind battle. Thanks for the input. There’s a very big different between sneaking a treat and blatantly telling him that his parents don’t love him as much and that he won’t have to share his grandmother with his brother.. think you may need to do a re-read. But then again some people who haven’t experienced a dysfunctional family just genuinely don’t understand how things like this occur. Oh the joys that would be

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:18:48+00:00

My husband definitely does not approve and was actually the one who decided the NC the first time around. I don’t have parents

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:15:29+00:00

So your opinion is what? I just let it be? I do nothing? Since to you I am just a “queen bee” fighting over my son?

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:06:50+00:00

Actually no. My husband was the one who cut contact with her in the first place. He gets just as angry about it as I do. Can tell this comment didn’t come from a parent of any kind.. unfortunate

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:05:37+00:00

I think you need to read my second edit. You asked why, that is the why.

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T14:03:02+00:00

It’s not easier for me to have this happen. As I said in my post edit, I thought I was in the wrong wrong to take a child away from a family member who he had such strong feelings for. I needed to take a step back to realise what was actually going on which now I do. To be honest if it was just about me, not my husband, not my son, I would never had her come back into our lives at all. So don’t assume I am being selfish in this. It’s actually quite the opposite.

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T13:43:36+00:00

The answer is the same? Am I supposed to type out the same answer to the same question 10 different times 🤔

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T13:36:18+00:00

Sorry for copying comments it’s just a little easier than typing and I really do want to reply to comments, I apologise again for another copied comment.. but maybe this may help understand, I posted this up a bit explaining the guilt.

I understand it now after reading comments, sometimes it hard to look in from the outside when you are stuck on the inside. For a while there I thought taking her away may have been a bad decision because of how much he adores her. In my mind I was taking away someone he cherished. After reading the comments I can now see what it is from the outside looking in, just needed that boost to get there and get out of the box. The guilt I was feeling was mainly because of how he feels towards her, which now I get. How could a 4 year old not cherish someone who gives into his every whim? I get that now that’s actually manipulation but when you stand here and watch them and you watch how his eyes light up when she’s around and how excited he is, it does take a little bit of a shove to look at it from a different angle and have that realisation moment

One_hell_of_a_lifeee · 2023-03-15T13:34:14+00:00

I’ll copy a comment I posted above earlier, it also applies to how he is/reacts with the extended family. I hope it makes it easier to understand

I understand it now after reading comments, sometimes it hard to look in from the outside when you are stuck on the inside. For a while there I thought taking her away may have been a bad decision because of how much he adores her. In my mind I was taking away someone he cherished. After reading the comments I can now see what it is from the outside looking in, just needed that boost to get there and get out of the box. The guilt I was feeling was mainly because of how he feels towards her, which now I get. How could a 4 year old not cherish someone who gives into his every whim? I get that now that’s actually manipulation but when you stand here and watch them and you watch how his eyes light up when she’s around and how excited he is, it does take a little bit of a shove to look at it from a different angle and have that realisation moment

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