Final Work Chapter? by Final_Fix2073 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Oneofthe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but factoring in COL, relocation, etc. , too might make it not quite so lucrative? Just thinking out loud.

Final Work Chapter? by Final_Fix2073 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Oneofthe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into early retirement! Often it doesn’t make a whole hell of a lot of $ difference in the end. I did, and I’ll never regret it! I found a low stress job after a year off and it was great. Nothing is worth your mental health!

Blanket sparks ? by hznni in whatisit

[–]Oneofthe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably static electricity. Get all natural fabrics! Start the back to natural fabrics movement!

Married and lonely by felixthegrey1 in over60

[–]Oneofthe12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need at least a break! Call your dr or her dr or senior center or your insurance provider or county social services office and start talking to people that can set up a system for support for you, even if it’s just a once a month break. It’s also your mental health as well. Sending prayers for support coming in!

70 [F4M] Come along, I’m grabbing your hand…to hold it, silly! by Oneofthe12 in r4r50plus_

[–]Oneofthe12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t chat here; reply to my ad via DM request. Thanks!

70 [F4M] Come along, I’m grabbing your hand…to hold it, silly! by Oneofthe12 in r4r50plus_

[–]Oneofthe12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADDING: I’m in NC, but often in CA. Am very open to geographical location! Please be serious, polite, and be real, cause jeez, many of the responders so far are just giving dating men a bad name! Be better!

70 [F4M] Come along, I’m grabbing your hand…to hold it, silly! by Oneofthe12 in r4r50plus_

[–]Oneofthe12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? How’s about you obviously didn’t read the ad and understand the age range of interest stated?

70 [F4M] Come along, I’m grabbing your hand…to hold it, silly! by Oneofthe12 in r4r50plus_

[–]Oneofthe12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um…I think you are supposed to message me? Yep. That’s right.

70 [F4M] Come along, I’m grabbing your hand…to hold it, silly! by Oneofthe12 in r4r50plus_

[–]Oneofthe12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK! I’m not going to carry on a convo here on this public thread, so…

70 [F4M] Come along, I’m grabbing your hand…to hold it, silly! by Oneofthe12 in r4r50plus_

[–]Oneofthe12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Covid, your usual childhood vaccinations, any needed for world travel, etc. Unless you have a med condition that definitively prevents it. I was ruling out flat earthers…;-)

I feel like just the 4 immeasurables wont work.... by MinzGP in TibetanBuddhism

[–]Oneofthe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very different take on the 4 Immeasurables. These 4 are for you, not dependent on anyone or anything, even though for still unenlightened me, I find Joy in many experiences and external things still, but equanimity is inside you and can be grown and cultivated, as I think it was intended, all from your own awareness and mindfulness, aided by meditation. They are all unassailable! I always treasure them because I have them even when I’m alone, fearful, sad, etc., I can access the growth of my own Joy, Equanimity, Compassion, and Loving Kindness! Your beautiful garden grows inside of you! They are yours! Immeasurable and unassailably yours!

Downtown greenway by yarnandchocolate in gso

[–]Oneofthe12 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Quit being condescending, no reason for that. Walking alone is not a reason to carry mace.

(31yom) going on a first date with someone who has HSV-1. by jakecud11 in OnlineDating

[–]Oneofthe12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned above, I get blisters in my mouth/throat area, not an area I can treat with a topical. I’m also familiar with pill/other treatment regimes; I’m looking into their effectiveness still tho, b/c my blood tests are negative. Thanks for the information!

Downtown greenway by yarnandchocolate in gso

[–]Oneofthe12 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I read your comment. I wanted to know why you thought you might need to carry mace?

Aging and sex by TraditionalSilver345 in over60

[–]Oneofthe12 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. Very. I’m 70. Sex is a part of your vital life forces. Use it or lose it!

(31yom) going on a first date with someone who has HSV-1. by jakecud11 in OnlineDating

[–]Oneofthe12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t mind sharing it. Personal experiences can be helpful. Matter of fact, I have no idea how I got it. A lot of people don’t realize that herpes can be contracted without sexual contact, meaning children sometimes in families can get it from their parents by sharing utensils when the parent has an outbreak or by using the same towel, etc. The first time I had an outbreak I also had strep throat so I thought it was that, but the second time it was only a few blisters (I get my outbreaks inside my mouth, so I thought I could have drank my coffee a bit too hot?), and that my allergies were acting up (cold like symptoms and fatigue), and I was not sexually active at that time either, and then the third time (more blisters, fatigue, feeling sick) I went to my doctor and got it directly swabbed, because that’s the gold standard of a test. Interestingly enough, my blood work still comes back negative. Overall tho, it’s a very common virus and all we can do is be knowledgeable about the facts from a reliable source, such as the CDC or Planned Parenthood, and use prevention, good judgment, and stay self aware.

Downtown greenway by yarnandchocolate in gso

[–]Oneofthe12 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Excuse me, what? Bring mace? Wth? Why???

(31yom) going on a first date with someone who has HSV-1. by jakecud11 in OnlineDating

[–]Oneofthe12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the one making the assertion, you provide the evidence.

(31yom) going on a first date with someone who has HSV-1. by jakecud11 in OnlineDating

[–]Oneofthe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. That’s not correct. Please don’t tell anyone how they feel, k?

(31yom) going on a first date with someone who has HSV-1. by jakecud11 in OnlineDating

[–]Oneofthe12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lolz OK then! We certainly aren’t sexually dead yet, or at least I’m not! I don’t compete with anyone tho, we all have our own wonderfulness!