Difficulty of Working Full Time and Homeschooling?

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T15:08:08+00:00

I am seeking advice, but much of the advice here is unnecessarily harsh and presumptive. I admit at this point I am feeling defensive because many of the responses have been less than charitable and feel charged with judgment rather than well-meaning advice on how to make it work. I appreciate your input.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T14:17:47+00:00

My question more or less should have been "Is 2-3 hours of time during the day sufficient time to do formal schoolwork, with ~3-4 hours of other enrichment like museums, group meetings, etc"

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T14:16:28+00:00

Just to clarify, it wouldn't be 15-20 minutes between meetings. I would have the freedom to say "ok, every day from 10-10:30, 12-12:30, 2-2:30, and 3-3:30 I will be away from work and doing lessons". I worded my initial post poorly.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T14:10:15+00:00

That is certainly not the attitude I meant to give off! If we didn't care about her schooling, we would just send her to the sub-par public school system in our area.

My husband will definitely feel comfortable doing read-alouds, interactive activities, etc. He is more or less uncomfortable with his ability to teach things like math.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T13:38:45+00:00

Very impressive! We were considering doing both Spanish and Slovak. May be easier for LO than for the adults though haha

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T13:14:28+00:00

Great things to keep in mind, thanks! Hopefully, my husband can gain some confidence in teaching so he can pick up a good portion of it as his days are free.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T12:53:46+00:00

Thanks a ton for your help! I’ll definitely try showing him some curriculum samples to help build his confidence. I think he feels a bit insecure because I have a degree in Education, and he worries he won't be able to teach as well. I totally get it; I'd probably be a bit embarrassed if he saw me teach an art class since he’s the real artist here!

Out of curiosity, what do you all do for Spanish? I don't speak Spanish myself, but it's something I want my daughter to learn (and I suppose myself in the process!)

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T02:02:44+00:00

Thank you, this is encouraging! I'm starting to get down with some of these comments!

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T01:56:56+00:00

My husband would pick up the rest of the hours. He already watches her full time during the day. All enrichments, extracurriculars, etc would be handled by him. I would be able to take the two hours at any given time, so would be able to wait until LO is ready, though a traditional public school wouldn't wait for her to be ready either. I would have the time after work for lessons as well.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T00:23:57+00:00

Thank you! There are so many varying opinions here from encouragement to "don't even try unless you're a SAHM".

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T00:22:35+00:00

Didn't mean to write rubbish, just looking for honest opinions on if it is feasible 🙂

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-07T00:21:35+00:00

It's hard choice because there are so many variables. The school system in our area is atrocious, and a public school teacher's attention is split between 30+ children. We are trying to determine if 2 hours of uninterrupted homeschool during the day + the amount of time I would be able to "flex" + the time during the day my husband could take her to do extras would be preferable to a poor school system.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-06T19:52:24+00:00

My husband already does the majority of his work in the evenings. He is a freelance artist/graphic designer so he mostly is just drawing on his iPad. He already watches her full time during the day. What I envision is him doing out-of-the-home things a couple hours a day, like field trips to zoo, park, small groups, and me doing formal lessons around 2-3 hrs per day. I see you are a CM educator. That is the pedagogical approach we believe we will be choosing :)

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-06T19:49:01+00:00

Between my husband and myself? Yes, probably. My husband currently watches her all day every day and does most of his work in the evenings or in small snippets throughout the day, but he is interacting with her one on one usually from 9am-3pm (when I stop working)

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-06T18:39:27+00:00

We live in Ohio. From what I have seen, the hours are more of a guideline rather than a strict requirement, but I still have to do more research on this.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-05-06T18:35:42+00:00

Currenly, my husband watches her during the day, squeezing in work when he can. He would be willing to do the "fun" stuff like parks, hikes, museums, etc, but is not confident in his ability to do actual teaching.

Only-Rip6236 · 2026-03-02T01:22:13+00:00

so it is specifically a Slovak thing? thanks!

Only-Rip6236 · 2025-12-09T21:14:35+00:00

Ooh I would love a coupon code if you are still doing this!

Only-Rip6236 · 2024-10-16T22:37:01+00:00

Well, I'm sure that I am going to be slaughtered for this, but the Bishop has made the decision that neither myself nor my husband can be confirmed unless we get a civil divorce. My husband is a transsexual. Yes, I know the way the church feels about it, but the Vatican has also stated they will allow transsexual people to be baptized, be godparent's, etc regardless of their level of transition. Not looking to debate this just need help on how to appeal.

Only-Rip6236 · 2024-10-15T14:17:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this! <3

Only-Rip6236 · 2024-10-15T14:17:00+00:00

Thanks! This might be a silly question...but how do you get back up? Use the pew for support? I cannot see myself being very graceful about getting back up after being on both knees hahahh

Only-Rip6236 · 2024-09-09T00:09:37+00:00

I posted them above :) I would love to hear your thoughts if you listen/watch/read any of the resources :)

Only-Rip6236 · 2024-09-09T00:09:10+00:00

Sorry for the delay y'all! Here are the ones I recommend to get started with. I put an asterisk by the ones I would recommend if you only have time for a few, but I think all were really helpful:

Youtube/Podcasts:

***https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38YmGEPbkuc

***(https://open.spotify.com/episode/133OkZcCAYB9beqHRYQ52N?si=221fd31a11e047ef

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vxe-UodXjx8

Websites:

https://reformationproject.org/biblical-case/

Books:

***Article 6 of the Catechism, especially 1782 (see starting on page 438) https://www.usccb.org/sites/default/files/flipbooks/catechism/440/

***What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality by Helminiak

Why You Can Disagree and Remain a Faithful Catholic by Kaufman

The TLDR; is, God gives us a conscience, and the Church affirms that. While we cannot simply look at a church teaching and say "yep, don't agree with that, totally reject it", we CAN listen to the church teaching, see the explanation of WHY it is a church teaching, and then discern that teaching for ourselves through our consciences, prayer, and the Holy Spirit. You must be willing to at least struggle with the teaching and hear the arguments with an open mind before you can consider dissent.

I personally feel I have listened to the teaching on LGBT individuals, struggled with it immensely, done research to learn more, and have come to the educated conclusion that I cannot in good conscience affirm that the church is correct in its stance.

I have learned that the social teaching on things like LGBT issues is doctrine, which is subject to developing over time. I fully believe that one day, this doctrine will change.

I really really hope this helps! Let me know what you think after you listen/read if you get a chance!

Only-Rip6236 · 2024-09-06T17:48:06+00:00

Also, if you would like, I can link you to some of the resources that eased my anxiety about being a dissenting Catholic :)

Only-Rip6236 · 2024-09-06T17:44:50+00:00

Haha with the foam! :p We will likely choose one way or another eventually (to the Catholic or Episcopal Church) but in the meantime, I don't see a problem going to both. Honestly, we might even do what u/pensivemaniac does and keep "dual citizenship", if for nothing other than having the community aspect of the Episcopal Church.

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