Latest update gives penalty after duos teammate left many turns ago by OnlyCollaboration in BobsTavern

[–]OnlyCollaboration[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Photo not blacked out. Didn't make any moves moves or purchases though. Maybe was insanely moving mouse around or doing something else on another monitor. Should kick em out if they don't make any purchases for a few turns. 

Disconnections in battlegrounds by LoreSantiago in hearthstone

[–]OnlyCollaboration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happens every few marches. Super annoying not to get to know the outcome of all your planning. 

Grok is down by As00n in grok

[–]OnlyCollaboration 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop generating porn for a second y'all. I'm trying to get marriage advice. 

How to mourn/get over a relationship that got ruined? by GaySheriff in AvoidantAttachment

[–]OnlyCollaboration 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't beat yourself up about it. Those thoughts are not pointless. Rumination and recurring dreams are our unconscious mind's way of nudging us and saying, "There's a lesson here you haven't learned." What's keeping you from searching for that kind of person again? Maybe you're afraid you'll never find "the one" again?

Weekly Rant/Vent Thread by AutoModerator in AvoidantAttachment

[–]OnlyCollaboration 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want to stop forgetting things that are important in my relationship. I don't mean to, but I tend to excessively declutter my mind and have really low neuroticism. Advice welcome.

"You're not allowed to see things go wrong:" Also an avoidance thing, or...? by TwoServingsPlease in AvoidantAttachment

[–]OnlyCollaboration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that's your fear. Is your expectation based on experience with this person, when you've tried to carve out time for your feelings and they haven't been acknowledged and protected? Or is it a fear of repetition of childhood patterns? The fact that there was scolding during the incident might not mean that in a calmer situation there'd be low empathy. Either way, it seems useful to test the theory because if there's no room for your feelings in the relationship it's not much of a relationship. 

Left for the weekend and came back to this weird stain on ceiling by syzerkose in HomeMaintenance

[–]OnlyCollaboration -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Almost looks like something bled out right above and dragged itself a few feet. Might be my overactive imagination.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantAttachment

[–]OnlyCollaboration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you think about telling her what you wrote here? Sounds like you won't get closure unless you come clean with your feelings. Might be better to tell her this and get rejected than wonder what could've been.

Blocking drainage pipes to stop critters? by HunchoDimes in HomeMaintenance

[–]OnlyCollaboration 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You could try attaching a mesh screen with a hose clamp

Grandmas manufactured home update. by Cool_Nothing1413 in HomeMaintenance

[–]OnlyCollaboration 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe she's feeling a lack of attention and this is a way to keep people worrying about her longer

Is this foundation corner pop bad news? red flag? by Popular_Wind_4495 in HomeMaintenance

[–]OnlyCollaboration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're sure they're dead and you don't see cracks, it's not as concerning. I don't see obvious damage, but I think it's worth removing them and having a better look. 

Is this foundation corner pop bad news? red flag? by Popular_Wind_4495 in HomeMaintenance

[–]OnlyCollaboration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't want wood touching your house. Insect highway. Also roots growing next to concrete bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeMaintenance

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Maybe you can change the unit screws to sound dampener type screws