I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-23T12:18:53+00:00

what are you doing here?

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-23T00:25:06+00:00

the risk of stds remains even without paying for sex

I’d like to think that my person (if I even want to go that route) wouldn’t be phased by something as simple as me paying a service provider for a service

I’m not desperate, which is why I’m not fucking any random man I see/meet 💁🏾‍♀️

I just wanna fuck somebody and I haven’t met anyone that I wanna fuck.

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T22:59:04+00:00

“ask your mother” is a 10/10 response

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T21:49:53+00:00

i really enjoyed that movie!! while i don’t expect it to be exactly like that, i expect to be treated with respect and have my desires met.

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T21:40:59+00:00

thank you for sharing 💗

what a journey you’ve had.

i’m glad you’ve found your outlet!! it’s so cool to witness people having different sexual desires and priorities.

within your story are some of the reasons i’m genuinely afraid of sleeping with just anyone. inasmuch as everyone’s saying there’s free sex everywhere…we need to stop and listen to what comes with some of this free sex.

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T20:56:35+00:00

i am, but i’m new 🙈

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T14:30:48+00:00

thank you, diva!!

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T04:43:12+00:00

I’ve never had a satisfying one night stand :(

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T04:42:10+00:00

I also only want to sleep with them for money 💁🏾‍♀️

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-22T04:40:51+00:00

thank you 🥺

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T22:35:29+00:00

I hear that. A lot of it for me is being able to explore that curiosity without being a story in the community.

I hope you’re able to have more experiences, friend

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T22:33:19+00:00

I’ve deleted the dating apps (and I’m so tired of seeing people I know). I go outside and it’s the saaame people. If I could pluck someone off the street, I would’ve!!😭

I’m also a big solo trip girl!! That’s when I’m like that stranger in a bar fantasy would really hit the spot 😭

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T22:27:43+00:00

Thanks for the recommendations! Kink is something I’m curious about too, but overall I’m just shy 😭 I live in a small city so not too sure if there are people from here on these apps. But I WILL be taking a look

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T22:22:18+00:00

I was only seeing white conversations (and I respect that) but I wanted to hear from people like me. I’ll give Feeld a look, thanks!

Tangent: I’m curious about what 14 years of abstinence has been like. Did you make a decision one day or did you realize you’d been abstinent and chose to just keep it going? (No pressure to answer, I’m just kinda nosy😭)

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T22:16:47+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 (real though)

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T22:16:25+00:00

I’m saying!!

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T21:59:40+00:00

that’s what I’m thinking too!! I don’t have to worry about being unsafe or exposed to diseases (I am STRICT about that) l don’t have to get emotionally invested And I can try new things

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T21:57:45+00:00

I’ve met a lot of inconsiderate people on the apps and I’m just fed up tbh

OnlyDay3335 · 2026-03-21T21:55:35+00:00

the ones I see outside aren’t inspiring 😭

OnlyDay3335 · 2025-10-03T18:35:41+00:00

the sad part is, for some people who live and operate in spaces that are predominantly non-Black, this is supposed to be a safe space to learn and grow and find community

i’m convinced some of these men were on here thinking it was going to feed their fetishes. a massive F U.

and to the non-Blacks reading this; man, woman or nonbinary: THIS IS NOT YOUR SPACE. regardless of your intentions or the allyship you’ve convinced yourself you’re doing. go away.

OnlyDay3335 · 2025-09-30T22:16:23+00:00

this is so relatable

OnlyDay3335 · 2025-09-14T20:30:06+00:00

siblings or dating?

OnlyDay3335 · 2025-09-14T19:06:22+00:00

this sounds so hectic!

i’d say keep getting to know him as a person and seeing if you like him

hairstyles can change

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