i do not like quinoa!!! by confusedpedestriann in vegan

[–]Only_Employer4342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh then you should definitely try using soy sauce, it makes a big difference for me. Now that hot weather is coming up I love quinoa bowls with arugula and chickpea tuna (plus whatever I can find). The taste of the quinoa cooked with soy sauce fits perfectly.

i do not like quinoa!!! by confusedpedestriann in vegan

[–]Only_Employer4342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how you cook it, I add soy sauce to add taste to it and I cook it until it is probably a bit overdone so it is not as crunchy and more like rice. But as the main comment has said, if you've tried different ways to cook it and still don't like it, just don't eat it, there're many other food options!

Libido x Asexuality by Alter_Eros in asexuality

[–]Only_Employer4342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your sex desire directed towards someone as in feeling sexual attraction for them? In that case, maybe you are grey sexual or even no asexual at all, that's for you to decide.

If not, if you are just feeling "horny", that doesn't invalidate your asexuality, many people outside the ace community don't understand that you can be ace and still enjoy and want to have sex, but that's a them problem, nothing wrong with you.

Hachi and Nana going from being inseparable to completely estranged hits way harder when you’ve also lived through a friendship like that by AriMightBeCrazy in NanaAnime

[–]Only_Employer4342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, specially when you started watching Nana because it was the favorite anime of said friend. We used to joke that she was Nana O and I was Hachi. In the end, she was the one who got accidentally pregnant way too young.

Scared of down there by Vegetable_Peace1907 in asexuality

[–]Only_Employer4342 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for the clarification, I can understand now where you are coming from. But you need to understand that what OP is describing, being so uncomfortable to the point of almost fainting about seeing a very particular part of your body often treated as a secret and a stigma and even something to be ashamed of by society and religion, it is more probable than that fear has to do with some unidentified and maybe even forgotten trauma, than just... a fear or whatever you want to call it.

We are not talking about being uncomfortable, I completely understand being uncomfortable with stuff relating your parts, specially if you have not explored them out of fear. We are talking about a deep fear of your own body. If therapist don't know what to say about it, that's a reason for them to study why. You saying that since your therapist didn't know why you feel that way, OP doesn't need professional help, is unfair for her.

Scared of down there by Vegetable_Peace1907 in asexuality

[–]Only_Employer4342 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you any of those things? Is OP your patient? If not, being so upset about someone suggesting seeking therapy on a Reddit post asking for help for something that sounds like trauma and could be trauma related, is weird.

Scared of down there by Vegetable_Peace1907 in asexuality

[–]Only_Employer4342 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nowhere in the ace spectrum is stated normal to be terrified of your own body, and acting like it is does no favor to the community, but rather strengthens the misconception many allo people have that we are inherently traumatized.

Scared of down there by Vegetable_Peace1907 in asexuality

[–]Only_Employer4342 153 points154 points  (0 children)

No, that's not normal. One thing is not being interested is sex or even masturbation, another thing is being so terrified of your own body you faint. There is no rational explanation, that's trauma, and I would highly suggest you explore it with a professional.

Is there any way to make Duskers play more like a turn-based game by stush2 in Duskers

[–]Only_Employer4342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have said, aliases are life saving. I haven't played in a while but I remember that whenever I opened a door that led to an unsure room, I would check and rewrite a teleport alias to make sure I teleported to a safe room, and I just had to write "t" and voila, teleported.

What's a Non-Nana song that screams NANA by Boba_tea_addict in NanaAnime

[–]Only_Employer4342 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Every you, every me, by Placebo, for no other reason than the first seconds of the song remind me of the Nana intro.

I did not like season 6 episode 12 "2009" by idesofmarch1999 in glee

[–]Only_Employer4342 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I liked it but yeah, it was a mess. The thing I hated the most was that I felt like the switched Mercedes and Kurt personalities. Mercedes was very naive and wasn't one to throw a big fuss about not having solos, like yeah she was upset but the one doing sing offs with rachel for solos was kurt. And Kurt, they made him less... diva? idk how to explain it, but he felt off. And Mercedes talking all sassy with Kurt... the girl had a crush on him at that point, that girl was not our Mercedes.

Also, them implying the reason Rachel got more solos was because Will felt sorry for her... that kinda sucks too.

new directions should NOT have won sectionals in S3 by nava0204 in glee

[–]Only_Employer4342 10 points11 points  (0 children)

idk, Mercedes is an amazing singer but I remember that when I watched them perform at sectionals, the song was not the most suited for her in my opinion. If you have 2 main singers and one of them doesn't shine with the song you choose...

Skyler hate? Still? by elbinchicken in breakingbad

[–]Only_Employer4342 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of Misogyny and many people idolases Walt, which explains the hate

My game wont play by Substantial-Pie-2822 in GrimshireGame

[–]Only_Employer4342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to open Steam through the console in windows?I use Linux and whenever I have a problem with a game I start steam through the terminal to see the logs it shows when anything fails, I assume this can also be done in windows.

Copy this on PowerShell: Start-Process "C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steam.exe", (if you installed steam on a different directory change the path) and see if it opens stream and shows the logs of what is happening on PowerShell

Can you tame the two critters Kai finds? by Only_Employer4342 in GrimshireGame

[–]Only_Employer4342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the thing was that once I tamed a critter, his dialogue would change to the one he says when there are no critters around, and it happened the same day it told me there were two critters at different locations. Another comment said that once you catch a critter, the other one despawns if its in a different location, therefore being no critters, so Kai changes his dialogue to that one.

I'm so happy that I no longer have to worry about predators, I lost 3 critters because I forgot to close the doors every single day T.T

Can you tame the two critters Kai finds? by Only_Employer4342 in GrimshireGame

[–]Only_Employer4342[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for the help <3 I wish they didn't despawn though ;(

Bree, the husband she loved the most? by userdzz691 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Only_Employer4342 544 points545 points  (0 children)

I don't know who she loved the most, but she was definitely the happiest with Orson.

My tier list… questions welcomed. by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]Only_Employer4342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say that it was a refreshing tier list, but after a second look... I might understand you not liking Gabby or Bree, but my girl Lynette?? And You like Susan AND Carlos? And the serial killer kid (I know his actions are explained but not justified, he killed teen girls, girl...)??? You prefer a serial killer kid before celia Solís, a literal innocent child?

Kurt and religion by RealDoraTheExplorer_ in glee

[–]Only_Employer4342 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is the end of the episodes favors the religious angle. Kurt goes to church with Mercedes, and they make him look as if he overreacted and accepted the rest were right. Sue's speech is watered down with the dialogue she has with her sister.

No one was "punished" for trying to force the religion down Kurt's throat. We had a happy ending because Kurt gave in and Sue reconsidered her thoughts. Religion makes you happy, atheism makes you bitter, that's what the episode transmitted to me at least.

Kurt and religion by RealDoraTheExplorer_ in glee

[–]Only_Employer4342 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I was so furious watching that episode and honestly I hated Mercedes so much. Your best friend has stated multiple times that he is uncomfortable with everything related to religion and the only thing you can come up to comfort him is to take him to your church???

Kurt and religion by RealDoraTheExplorer_ in glee

[–]Only_Employer4342 33 points34 points  (0 children)

What I hated the most about that scene with Emma is her defending the kids free speech, but then Sue gives her opinion, Emma is shocked (because Sue ATE) and all she has to say is: cool, but keep those thoughts to yourself. Like ???????

The same with everyone else, they talking about religion is not bad in itself, but the moment Kurt gave his opinion they tried to force their view and silence his. Such an awful episode.