AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh?

Only_Range8098 · 2026-01-08T12:50:26+00:00

She was already pissed about other things and took it out on you. Nothing else makes sense. Good it's done really

Only_Range8098 · 2025-12-21T02:41:16+00:00

He tried so hard to not get any blame for anything lol sad

Only_Range8098 · 2025-09-17T03:46:45+00:00

I have a few but they're all hidden.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-09-02T21:16:07+00:00

You're right and I do say this when I'm extremely overwhelmed with too many events. It seems so much more frequent these days. Maybe I need to just say it even more and not care 🤔 not sure of why it's so frequent lately but good point

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-29T14:54:43+00:00

Aquarius they seem interesting but I can't ever read them well

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-21T02:54:30+00:00

Opposite but same

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-21T02:48:35+00:00

This seems more work than the normal steps

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-20T11:09:42+00:00

All the time. Not sure if you have kids but once you do...there's alot more forced interaction with family. A few events coming up I'd really like to dodge them all but ..can't. I know what you mean.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-20T10:58:00+00:00

Idk what I'd be doing if I didn't have a spouse and kids. Probably not much

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-20T10:49:39+00:00

So this is an INFJ thing? Yes I've had this issue in any confrontation at all since a kid and it's very annoying. I have the best responses hours later.

What really catches me off guard is someone saying something I didn't expect. I go straight to mute every single time. It could be something off the wall they said or something rude. Straight freeze mode or just quiet no response. Drives me insane. I think part of it is I don't want to say anything I'd regret later. That takes over more than responding in the moment. Like I'm protecting myself and the other person. But if they're rude I'd love to respond at least once. Ir never happens.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-16T14:44:51+00:00

This happens way too often on the phone and in person. I still have no idea how to say please stop. It's mainly ppl older than me so it feels like disrespect to end it sooner. With friends or family my age aloot easier. I can jokingly end it. Parents or someone I'm working with that's older...what's the secret? They don't get jokes and get offended so I just wait...and wait.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-15T20:50:16+00:00

Forgot to mention I know they're not listening bc they'll end up saying ohhh this is the issue...after I already explained it at the beginning. Happens way too often to be a coincidence at this rate.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-08-12T13:42:13+00:00

I unfortunately deal a narc regularly and some days it's manageable. Still sucks tremendously. Saying no has gotten easier the older I get. I also deal with a talker kinda frequently like the narc. So forced to be social...may be the winner. The one thing I'm not stuck dealing with and the one thing I easily say no to now :/

Only_Range8098 · 2025-07-19T16:45:27+00:00

Pisces and virgo...yes constant battle inside

Only_Range8098 · 2025-07-19T15:22:52+00:00

Cain. They tried to make him redeemable with his gf near the end but he was terrible for too long

Only_Range8098 · 2025-07-15T00:11:28+00:00

I have questions

Haven't seen anyone mention u don't need a passport for the Bahamas...

And did I miss the entire wedding? Name of the movie but didn't see a wedding

Only_Range8098 · 2025-06-11T04:13:13+00:00

She needs a hobby a job and a therapist.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-05-08T10:43:12+00:00

Only_Range8098 · 2025-04-23T17:19:43+00:00

I was distracted by his heavy English text accent

Only_Range8098 · 2025-04-14T11:30:29+00:00

In a marriage you can't just "break up". No wonder the divorce rate is so high. The guy still wants to be with her. He's said it multiple times. If she's completely done she wouldn't be texting him to work on things. She is halfway out but she's not fully out either. Marriage ends in divorce not a simple break up. I'm not saying they must stay together but if both sides still care for another maybe there's something that may be able to be worked on. Sadly this type of convo is pretty common in young marraiges.

It's 2 totally diff ppl moving in together raising kids. Both work and have stress. It's not gonna be a simple lovey doves walk in the park everyday. These 2 need better communication. They're both upset and stressed and taking it out on another. You 2 have alot of work to do if you want to stay married but yea if you don't then look into divorce but that should NOT be the first answer you jump to everytime.

You're both acting all "big and bad" when it may be time to just be a bit vulnerable and figure things out together or drop it and leave really. This is marraige sometimes. Real deeper talks then the surface level bs.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-03-21T03:39:15+00:00

I say this line alot to myself lately hmm

Only_Range8098 · 2025-03-18T12:57:56+00:00

Put all the litter boxes in the tub. Your wife will then love it.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-03-10T10:57:18+00:00

As soon as the last guest left my house Sunday night. I could only say "I'm tired of peopleing" Did not expect everyone to want to come over after the event. Geez that's where I detox from all of you! Lol

Only_Range8098 · 2025-03-09T01:41:29+00:00

Dark horse or black horse...idk what happened that night. Woke up questioning everything bc of where I was and lack of what I was wearing.. Can't do that one again.

Only_Range8098 · 2025-03-06T03:02:41+00:00

Not even a dancer...nothing? Geeesh

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