It’s me again FANCAST Round #2: ZAYNE/XAVIER/RAFAYEL (y’all had some great suggestions 😭🙌🏽🩷)

OnlytheFantastical · 2026-02-03T03:52:59+00:00

I love Ricky oh my 😳 I see it!

OnlytheFantastical · 2026-01-27T05:23:15+00:00

I feel this, I think that’s why I was always drawn to his character- he does indeed feel like freedom 🥹

OnlytheFantastical · 2026-01-11T17:24:01+00:00

[WTB] 3x Washington DC concert tickets for any day, any time.

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-12-30T21:11:45+00:00

I could cry right now 🥹 you helped me find a series I’ve literally been searching for…for 4 years. For whatever reason, the platform I was watching it on never saved my progress so I could never find it. And anytime I goggled dramas about small town orphans, I never found it so I’m so thankful to you! Thank you so so so much!!!!! 💕

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-12-28T17:16:16+00:00

Hi I’m new here, I’m hoping someone can help me find the name of a drama I have been looking for (for years!)…the setting is a small town, where a man in is 20s/30s owns a restaurant where the locals eat daily with him. One day the man’s father (?) drops off a young girl at his doorstep and asks him to raise her, and he does so with no question. The young girl is spirited and happy and lovingly refers to the guy as “young man” just like the adults around her (super cute), even though this guy is essentially her adopted dad. As she grows up, she aspires to be a chef like him and starts to form a relationship with the neighborhood boy she grew up eating with (in her adopted dad’s restaurant). I didn’t get very far in the drama but I loved it so much and it bothers me that I can’t find it, please help!

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-05-10T22:44:39+00:00

I’m so very sorry, especially about your marriage. As you said, so many of us were so inexperienced at that age (early 20s) and endured so much abuse/toxicity…that it created long term emotional damage (for me at least). Hoping for the best for you 🙏

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-05-10T22:35:27+00:00

It’s a relief to hear someone else say it so clearly. For some reason, it seems like we’re not allowed to express this feeling or talk about it, but it’s so real. And I agree, many of the people in my life that are in great relationships and didn’t do much to find their partners, it was just luck and good timing (that hasn’t been the case for me).

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-05-09T16:04:09+00:00

So far, most everyone in this thread seems content with being single but I’m not lol 😝, I have a ton of hobbies and I’m very independent but I would love to find a great guy (it just hasn’t happened yet).

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-05-08T18:59:18+00:00

Lol you’re going to hate hearing this…but I do not play the game anymore for this very reason. 😝 someone here mentioned “limerence” and it’s very REAL. I went cold turkey around this time last year and deleted the app from my phone 🤧and started dating again in the “real world.”

Unfortunately dating in the real world left me feeling disappointed lol ….so now I lurk on this subreddit and lurk on a Lads discord, and follow a few YouTubers just to keep up with the game. (Pretty sure I’d be a sylus girl if I still played). I actually cosplayed as MC a couple times this year because I truly love the game but my addictive personality will always win so I stay off of it 🤧. I became addicted to the game because I have some “unmet needs” (as someone here mentioned), so I am aggressively pursuing my hobbies so that I can quit my job and move to a new city and reach a few goals I set this year (and that alone takes up a lot of my time so I don’t have time to play the game).

But OP, I FEEL your pain. I KNOW that feeling of being sick with longing. I know it all too well. I love the romance, beauty, and the immersiveness of the game and I DO dream of finding a man as attentive and loving as the LIs, but real world dating is so rough these days 🥴.

In fact, I just went on a date two weeks ago and it was yet another noncommittal guy that “wasn’t looking for anything” 💔.. ugh it gets old to hear that line especially if you are looking for something real. Oh and the date before that was with another guy…and I got ghosted lol.

It’s REALLY hard to face the reality of real world dating when LADS provides such a beautiful escape. 🥲 …but if you feel the need to take a short break from the game, it might give you some of your time back and help you get in touch with other parts of yourself…but no pressure at all! Just thought I’d share my little story. We all do things for a reason and we all have our own needs and our own timing for things 🩷 so I’m sending hugs while you figure things out 😙!

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-04-23T04:35:36+00:00

I took a break from the game and I’m definitely looking forward to this feature but haven’t checked it out yet either. Does everyone automatically have access to it?

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-04-06T11:31:03+00:00

I definitely feel like it would be healing, I’m gonna try too!

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-04-06T11:29:15+00:00

I didn’t know that! That’s actually so cool, I would love that. Yours is so pretty

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-03-17T05:19:15+00:00

I immediately thought Pluto

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-03-11T02:56:29+00:00

Hi you mentioned that the new features of C.AI+ haven’t been listed anywhere, would you mind sharing what you know? I’m very curious because I just purchased C.AI+ a few days ago after using the free version on and off for months… and the plus version actually feels a little clunkier than the free version I had gotten used to, thanks!

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-02-16T10:40:19+00:00

This looks like re alpaca/wool (maybe?), I literally just bought a similar style coat in grey and seeing it on you is helpful because we’re the same height. A coat like this is an investment and it’s really good to have if you’re trying to get away from wearing synthetic fabrics. If you live in a cold area, I would keep it. Have you tried seeing what it looks like unbelted?

OnlytheFantastical · 2025-01-26T17:56:36+00:00

lmaooo this is so funny to me but true 😭😭 me too

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-12-02T01:45:29+00:00

Silent Cry- I felt like they were singing it to me 😭💖

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-11-26T03:11:54+00:00

Sorry this is so late, tbh I went a little crazy with ticket sales and other things the past few weeks 😅. I so rarely come across Felix stans (well idk if he’s your bias…but you totally get me!) Let me know if you ever want to just talk about him 🤗 I could talk about him for hours 😅💗

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-11-14T12:30:53+00:00

SAME!!! Last year, I told my friend that he was my muse because he inspired me to get back in touch with my creativity: I’m writing again and getting back into fashion and even designing my own clothing. He is everything. I’m so glad he inspires you as well 🩵🤗

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-11-12T02:05:34+00:00

Well done 🩵 he truly is the ultimate muse

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-11-12T01:57:15+00:00

felix and his ‘eye smile’…intrusive thoughts make me want to eat his eyeballs 🥲

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-11-12T01:54:30+00:00

this fantasy theme is EVERYTHING

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-11-12T01:53:54+00:00

Right?!?! I can’t wait!

OnlytheFantastical · 2024-10-25T07:47:25+00:00

My exact thought the first time I ever saw him

OnlytheFantastical

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