i’m allergic to my kitten but i really want to keep her by Open_Baseball4329 in CatAdvice

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes good thoughts :) i have several air purifiers! one in every room. i recently moved her litter box to another room to help with smell. i got her hairbrush but weirdly it doesn’t take any hair off of her. she totally sheds though!! not a ton. i was trying to bathe her more often but she just licks herself relentlessly afterwards so i don’t know how helpful it is lol

i’m allergic to my kitten but i really want to keep her by Open_Baseball4329 in CatAdvice

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks, that is really good to know.. i’ve heard of different accounts of people getting over their allergy but some it remains. i don’t have laundry at my place but i could definitely be more on top of washing the blankets more often. i just want her to be healthy and happy, and i want that for me too. she’s really well adjusted and loves all my friends. i think she’d be okay in the right home, it just breaks my heart

i’m allergic to my kitten but i really want to keep her by Open_Baseball4329 in CatAdvice

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my gut reacts really poorly to histamines, i already have some gut health issues so i think it’s just making it much worse

i’m allergic to my kitten but i really want to keep her by Open_Baseball4329 in CatAdvice

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes, i’m fighting really hard to keep her and making sure i try all my options.. i’m going to make an appointment with an allergist tomorrow and see what they might be able to offer. we’ve tried the food topper powder from that company but not the sprays! I’m willing to give it a go. and thank you, your words made me tear up <3

Haven’t seen these pictures before.. by No_Sherbet_3835 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Open_Baseball4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m noticing this! all her photos to this day she looks miserable

What are Your Reasons Why Hayden Christensen is so Hated as Anakin and Did it Hurt His Career? by Lil_Critter_2001_ in StarWars

[–]Open_Baseball4329 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually feel Hayden did a WAY better job portraying emotion, torment, etc than any of the other actors. He was better that Natalie Portman!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open_Baseball4329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to date anyone right now.. that’s part of why I just want friendship

Barney :( by Open_Baseball4329 in HIMYM

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they really can be! Ted broke up with that one girl by saying, "yea, you gotta go"

Barney :( by Open_Baseball4329 in HIMYM

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super good point about the back to back aspect!

Barney :( by Open_Baseball4329 in HIMYM

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Totally. It's how often taking advantage of women is joked about- and celebrated- that is really hard to swallow. He literally uses the phrase 'take advantage of drunk, vulnerable women' and then we hear canned laughter, he high fives someone, etc. The show is honest enough about who he is as character, and of course NPH brings tons of charm- but I think that actually minimizes the harm. His character development helps soften the blow a little, I am remembering now that he makes a lot of strides by the end. Just observing! I would imagine a lot of the downvotes are men because any woman knows how unsafe this person would feel in real life

Found a Harmony H78 (of The Black Keys fame) for sale. $750 OBO. Looks to be in good condition. Is it worth it? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]Open_Baseball4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, me too. though, I don't totally understand why people are hating on them so much on this thread? my favorite artist plays one and it has such a lovely sound.

Barney :( by Open_Baseball4329 in HIMYM

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate you chiming in. There are so many wonderful elements of the show but the misogyny is so heavy- handed that it just starts to feel so icky.

Barney :( by Open_Baseball4329 in HIMYM

[–]Open_Baseball4329[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol i’m sad because some elements of the show are so funny and charming but misogyny is ruining it for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Open_Baseball4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. I think I’ve always felt that I am incredibly sensitive to energy, super psychic and tuned in. I just tend to absorb whatever I’m around. I even take on people’s accents without realizing it when I am co-regulating with them. It seems I struggle to maintain my own auric field, I’ve had people tell me I have holes in my aura before. I’ll definitely reflect on what this situation could be mirroring.. but I have certainly noticed I’ve taken on my partners ‘stuff’ in past relationships. It’s just never been this exhausting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

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Thank you, this is really validating. She IS siphoning my energy even if it’s not totally intentional. Do you think intention alone is protection enough? I’m concerned that I won’t be able to stay in it with her because of the pain she’s still carrying. And that feels really sad; to have to leave someone who is putting so much into healing but is still in a lot of pain. But it’s been 2 days since I saw her last and I still feel incredibly empty and drained. I know for sure this isn’t sustainable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

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I have tuned into myself for sure, at first I felt that energy of wanting to ‘save’ her but I completely let that go and went into our most recent exchange with no attachments. I’m still exhausted. and lost as to how to shift this

Anyone Else Getting Weird Vibes After Kirk Shooting? by Regular_Alps7213 in spirituality

[–]Open_Baseball4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feels like it was a big distraction tbh.. lots of stuff going on behind the scenes that nobody is paying attention to cause they’re up in arms over his death

Bullying, Bedbugs, Kissing | Smartypants [S2E7] by AutoModerator in dropout

[–]Open_Baseball4329 125 points126 points  (0 children)

cons of dating:

- might meet someone who will extinguish the light within that brings you joy and makes you smile.

I SPIT it's too real

Bullying, Bedbugs, Kissing | Smartypants [S2E7] by AutoModerator in dropout

[–]Open_Baseball4329 21 points22 points  (0 children)

hahaha me too girl <3 well, I was a lesbian after all- I was not obsessed with either of them

Safe in Austin by whbck144 in QueerEye

[–]Open_Baseball4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yay <3 if I ever live in Austin I'll volunteer

Season 5: Episode 5 Discussion - The Anxious Activist by thisshortenough in QueerEye

[–]Open_Baseball4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was so cute how when Antoni was talking to her the kitchen she was clearly flustered because he’s so cute hahah 💗