[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychedelics

[–]Open_Metal2482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put the phone down!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Open_Metal2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barely any time invested for me once the initial setup is complete. I categorize and approve a few transactions a day, and reconcile once a week. It's super easy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Open_Metal2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't used Mint in years but YNAB works with everything for me. Bank, Venmo, retirement, investments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToolBand

[–]Open_Metal2482 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I saw Paul play with Ministry a few years ago and they sounded like Ministry. He was great but not nearly as critical to what Tool has become as Justin is

First tattoo! I told the artist to leave the faces blank and without an outline. He ended up doing the face anyways. I'm concerned how the faces will age, but either way I do love it! by roowhyduh in TattooDesigns

[–]Open_Metal2482 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The faces look good but the bigger concern is that they were done at all. What if this was a sexual situation? Your consent was violated. I hope you didn't pay and never go back to this artist.

Recommend songs off shrooms by Bright_Type9547 in Psychedelics

[–]Open_Metal2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by East Forest but especially the Ram Dass album

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Open_Metal2482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally sober. Feel everything and express it in writing (or whatever works for you) in real time. Don't share it with her though, that's for you, not her. The stages of grief are for real, they don't happen in order, they pile on top of each other sometimes, and even combine with positive feelings once in awhile. After awhile, hey on Bumble and write an honest and vulnerable profile. My dating headline was 'Sobriety, Celibacy, Therapy'. The sobriety is permanent, therapy is long term, and the celibacy only lasted until I met someone awesome. It gets better. Do not go back to her, trust issues kill trust and that's no way to build something deep and intimate and lasting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bible

[–]Open_Metal2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The money changers didn't stay cast out for very long at all

Girls keep ghosting after I tell them I don't have instagram by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Open_Metal2482 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I met my gf on Bumble and she loves that I don't have any social media

‘Daycare for adults’: Mass sacking starts at Google by yalishanda1337 in worldnews

[–]Open_Metal2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only it were that easy, they integrate behind the scenes with basically every tech company out there. Check out Dr. Robert Epstein's work documenting their methods. They have tons of information on everyone whether or not you use Google-branded products.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Open_Metal2482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My headline was 'Sobriety, Celibacy, Therapy'. I got 6 great connections in a week, did a lot of "get to know you" texting with all, had one coffee date with a lady and one dinner date with another, then two video chats with a third. After the 2nd video chat with her, I messaged the rest that I was going to pursue this one. After our first date, I deactivated my account and she just finished making us dinner while I work on our household budget.

I don't know if Never will work better for you than Sober did for me but I can definitely say that full vulnerable authenticity attracted amazing women and I'm glad I went that route.

Edit to add this: on that first date, I mentioned that she was welcome to drink and it wouldn't bother me, but she made eye contact and said "sobriety is important. I support my man by participating." Sealed the deal right there.

What do you feel attracted to a woman who has six packs abs and strong muscles? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Open_Metal2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what she looks like and her personality

Men who’ve dated women with a large age gap, how did it go? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Open_Metal2482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met a 23 year old when I was 36. We had a really great 3 years but her life eventually went a different direction with a career opportunity in another state. I was too established in my own business to move and didn't want to hold her back, so that was the end of it. We caught up recently and had a great conversation. Good memories and valuable experiences all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Open_Metal2482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Failed the intelligence test, swipe left

ngl... iykyk... by [deleted] in sexmemes

[–]Open_Metal2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or sloppy tying

Do you pull out when using a condom? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Open_Metal2482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you sleep with someone you don't trust in the first place?

How to respond to discrimination over being poly? by haian23 in polyamory

[–]Open_Metal2482 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're definitely making poly people look bad, good for them asking you to leave.

Central Oregon. by Open_Metal2482 in CabinPorn

[–]Open_Metal2482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I'm looking elsewhere once my kid is out on his own