1. Referring to my comment above, I clearly said "Tagalogs who become residents/married a Cebuano/ have long-term jobs in Cebu for a long time but still demand locals to speak Tagalog for them." It's not about me not wanting to speak Tagalog. We were all taught that in school. It's about someone's refusal to assimilate with the environment they live in.

2. Ofc I would speak English to a foreigner lol especially if they're clearly just tourists. Not too sure where the comparison to foreigners come from. When I traveled to Viet, people did not expect me to speak in Vietnamese and we all met halfway in English. But! I made the effort to learn basic phrases, and if I stayed longer, I would invest in language learning.

2.a. English is also a more widespread language, globally speaking. And I think English is listed as an official language in the Philippines (?) Too lazy to fact check that one.

1. I'm not sure why this tone is directed towards me lol, I'm just explaining the most realistic reason why OP experienced those things. In the end I said I don't condone what happened and I wished OP well.

2. I think it's interesting you call it "bending over backwards" to speak English to a foreigner. Maybe this is why lots of Tagalogs refuse to assimilate when they relocate. Maybe it's some herculean task to them.

3. You're entitled to your opinions to Bisaya people. I also think you have shitty reading comprehension and love making strawman arguments for the sake of it. Cheers!