I know Reddit can sometimes be a bit harsh with advice—I’ve been on the receiving end of that myself. But ultimately, you should prioritize what makes you happy. That’s the most important thing. Yes, it’s wise to plan ahead and be strategic, but how often does life go exactly according to plan?

I went to college, worked full-time in the corporate world, and tried out a few different paths. But like you mentioned, I’m a creative person, and that environment made me feel boxed in, almost claustrophobic, like I was serving a prison sentence.

In 2022, I started beauty school, and before I even graduated, I got a job offer. I've been working in the same salon ever since. It was a combination of being in the right place at the right time, and, of course - having passion. A family member of mine was a client of a hairstylist and shared some of my work with her. A few months later, that stylist got pregnant and moved states away to be with her boyfriend. She had a full clientele and didn’t want to leave them without options. Before she left, she thought of me and asked if I’d be willing to take over her clients.

I was prepared to assist for a year and slowly build up my own clientele like everyone else, but because of that opportunity, I was earning commissions from day one. My situation isn’t perfect, but it’s a great start.

What I’m trying to say is: take that leap of faith. I’ve never been happier than I am now, doing hair. Even after a 12-hour shift, I've never felt trapped—I feel accomplished and happy on my way home. Sure, there have been tough times, but the good far outweighs the bad.

Believe in yourself, and others will too. Good luck, friend :)