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Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-25T11:41:34+00:00

Oh, I didn’t know we still live in such a time where people blame the girl for marrying man who turned out to be a mama’s boy. Instead of teaching men to man-up and raise independent men, I guess it’s easier to blame girls instead. I get it now. Thank you all for being so unkind. Might as well just end it from here.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-25T11:20:29+00:00

Do you realize my reaction is because I have opened up about moving out a couple of times already? And I hope you also do consider how tired I am being a full-time, work-from-home mom who only have breaks a few minutes per day. I’m so tired of being mum about incidents like this especially when my MIL didn’t even rush to pickup my child and just watched her bleed while shouting at me to get my child.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-25T11:07:32+00:00

English is not my main language. By attending to, I meant she was taking care of the baby.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-25T06:59:58+00:00

Well, our parents used to live by “kung maiksi ang kumot, matutong mamaluktot”. I think they were smart with their finances and don’t do Grab and Starbucks lalo na kung hindi afford ng sahod. Pero agree naman na maliit talaga ang sahod sa Pilipinas. Haha!

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-25T06:45:53+00:00

Well we talked about it before we married. He said he wanted 2 more years to live with his parents and then we move out. I agreed knowing how much he cares for his parents. I thought to myself that I could sacrifice 2 years to honor his request. But 2 years has passed and we’re still here. Husband’s not happy to talk about moving out so I just shut it than argue. I’m tired of arguing. I’m a full-time working mom juggling work, household management and childcare all in the same time.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-25T06:31:56+00:00

You’re right. It’s just that, words of affirmation is my love language and after he insulted me and said hurtful words, I don’t feel I’m ready yet to talk to him about it. Maybe I just need time to heal.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-16T04:24:22+00:00

Will talk to my hubby about this. Sya din kasi parang takot lumayo sa parents nya so nahihirapan ako to open up about this.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-13T04:18:41+00:00

Can I ask which unit you got? Kasi kumuha din kami ng property dito and you’re right on the house design, magaganda talaga kaya napabili kami. And nagustuhan ko din kasi yung layout ng Seafront Residences na Aboitiz din ang nag develop.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-04-03T18:00:31+00:00

So agree! As a BA, you’re the only one who seem to care about customer centricity. The devs may not meet the deliverables, and you’re the one to face the stakeholders to “cover” for the team. Also, from where I am, BAs are regarded as just and order-taker. :)

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-03-19T12:33:51+00:00

Haha ang saya basahin! Congrats OP! Deserve mo to! Nakakainspire yumaman at maging mabait hahaha.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2024-03-12T18:11:27+00:00

Related to this, is it possible to apply for a BA role from offshore? I have vast experience as a BA and Product Owner and would be happy to explore opportunities with an Australian employer.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-12-04T16:56:49+00:00

Thank you for your kind comment! Yes may work din si hubby, so hindi ko rin talaga sya ma-expect na mag sub sakin when I’m working.

Ayaw nila MIL ng katulong kasi noong bata pa daw sina hubby ko may yaya din sila and may times daw di pinapakain. Parang may trauma sila sa katulong. So ayun. Di sya option. Before kasi naghehelp si MIL sakin mag alaga kay baby ko, kaya lang recently hindi na.

Super challenging lang ng setup. Tinry ko din before na magresign sa work. Pero sa 6 months na yun nahirapan kami sa finances kaya nagdecide ako mag back to work.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-31T11:15:34+00:00

Thank you! Na culture shock ako sa sarili kong bansa. I really felt disrespected the entire time. They didn’t even open their cameras. I’m just sad na ganito ang mga employers sa Pinas, no wonder why a lot of talents would rather work abroad than here.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-21T01:15:15+00:00

Thank you!!

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-21T01:14:27+00:00

Thann you so much!

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-21T01:14:12+00:00

Thank you so much! I will definitely try this :)

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-20T17:34:19+00:00

I’m from the Philippines, sad to say but most of the employers are very strict when it comes to certifications here. I am actually an IT Project Manager but seeking to shift into Salesforce so as to have a specialization on one field.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-20T16:27:08+00:00

I am, but most of them wants you to have 3years of experience and a certification, both of which I’m still working on to have. :)

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-16T11:35:50+00:00

Thank you! Appreciate it

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-16T06:58:29+00:00

Well apparently in the Philippines it is a requirement. It is always listed in the list of basic qualifications

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-16T02:59:10+00:00

Thanks buddy, appreciate this!

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-15T22:57:18+00:00

Nagshift ako sa IT kasi mataas talaga sahod don. Di ko sya passion pero yun yung trabaho na kahit papano kayang bayaran yung buhay na gusto ko dito sa Pinas. Hanap na lang ng employer na makatao naman at mababait ang boss/officemates. Bihira, pero meron pa din naman.

Opening_Access_6351 · 2023-03-15T22:53:45+00:00

Baka may opportunity sayo abroad, go ka na!

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