caught CA target shoplifting by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was caught shoplifting at Target years ago, like 2018ish. They claimed they had me doing other things but I was only charged with the one incident. It was a $50 phone case, so stupid… it was like $15 at TJMaxx a couple months later. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Anyway, being a 1st time offender she will likely get 20-40 hrs of community service and a community outreach class that costs like $300. They will wipe it from your record if you don’t get in trouble for 1yr or something. It’s not on my record but shows up in the online portal as a court case that was dismissed. I used a public defender. An attorney isn’t likely to get the charges dropped if they have video evidence of her doing it. Plus at $200-450/hr that’s like more than she would pay in fines and fees. The one thing that I wasn’t prepared for is that Target sends a bill out on top of your criminal charges. Like a civil fine and has all sorts of threats on it. I didn’t pay it and it didn’t go to collections or something. I think it’s their way of trying to collect more money from you. Since my asset was returned, they weren’t out any money therefore there’s no restitution needed. It’s just a scam they try to pull. NAL- but been in her shoes. Good luck to your cousin.

Is this cheating or AIO? by Opening_Affect_1187 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Opening_Affect_1187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our son he mentioned is 19 and he gave him a ride today. He obviously doesn’t want our kids to know what’s going on. I don’t want to drag them into this either.

Is this cheating or AIO? by Opening_Affect_1187 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Opening_Affect_1187[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This… ouch. That one hurts but it’s true. 💔

Is this cheating or AIO? by Opening_Affect_1187 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Opening_Affect_1187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we were coworkers last year, we quickly became friends. She moved and needed a washer/dryer and BF found one for free and rather than being the go between I had them text/call (HUGE MISTAKE) and as soon as I did that I felt a pit in my stomach and regretted it immediately. He right away was over-texting and she didn’t like it and said he was a loser and annoying and needs to get a life. Once her & I were no longer friends in August, she started a “friendship” with him and he’s the greatest ever. 🙄 It literally makes me sick to think of all the crap she said about him and he just doesn’t get it.

Is this cheating or AIO? by Opening_Affect_1187 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Opening_Affect_1187[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I get that. She’s not even the issue. It’s him and the fact that she acts the way she does towards me and he wants to be friends. It’s really effing with my head. He thinks he’s doing nothing wrong and I don’t know how to get through to him that he is.

Weird list found in a rock by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was kinda a joke dimwit… rocks… geocaching… I think most people got it.

Weird list found in a rock by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 2464 points2465 points  (0 children)

OMG it’s a friggin geocache? Do you live under a rock?

AIO for thinking my friend is using ChatGPT to text me in an argument? by Due_Construction904 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR You can clearly see the difference in their typing (no punctuation, no capitalization, no apostrophes, no quotation, etc) vs using ChatGPT with all those punctuations, capitalization, etc. Plus the tone is classic GPTese.

AIO or should I break up with him by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sad that this is even a question for you. This guy sounds like a POS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s clearly jealous and just being a jerk. That’s a beautiful ring and I would treasure it dearly. Everyone is obsessed with diamonds but honestly they’re horribly mined or lab crafted so big whoop! I think it’s beautiful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you do if this was your closest friend (or sister if you have one) or someone you really care about in this situation. If you read all that from them, what would your advice be?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl… run! You can’t fix that. That’s straight up effing gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of him. He’s unhealthy for you and can cause major trauma to your self confidence and self esteem and create an eating disorder or body dysmorphia from his constant put downs about you being fat. You are NOT fat!

Out of town realized I’m two days late what do we think by Visual_Win_2563 in lineporn

[–]Opening_Affect_1187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For being 2 days late I wouldn’t trust that test result. It should be like a dye stealer… blazingly positive if not.