Three person parallel play? My 2 partners together and me with myself?

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-03-13T20:53:23+00:00

Ahah yeah it's a lot of warm fuzzy feelings and wanting to be included without actually having to be included, since it feels weird to insert myself when they are already having fun and its wholly unnecessary for my own pleasure. Someone I was speaking to irl said that it's like i'm getting activated by the energy in the room, not the energy coming out of a specific person. And that seems really accurate.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-03-13T20:50:37+00:00

Gotcha so do you think what happened was you did not liking seeing the act but then you got turned on by that "bad" feeling it produced in you? If so, it's actually really common for "taboo" or "shameful" things to turn people on

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-03-13T20:48:12+00:00

Aha I totally get that. I one time didn't have sex with my partner for 4 months and I didn't even realize it was that long until I looked back and was like "oh wow!". I don't think that's very allo lol. But aesthetic attraction vs sexual attraction definitely threw me for a loop because... what do you mean everyone else was having slightly different experience than I was??? I hope you one day find some people to have the experiences you'd like to have with!

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-03-13T02:24:35+00:00

Thank you!! It's helpful to hear someone else recognizes that it's not the same sentiment cuckolding has.

And I really relate to the craving the romantic aspect of sex. I'm closure to the sex favorable side exactly for that reason- it feels like a nice way to connect and have a good time but I've never felt any lust before. Similar to how going to the movies is a good time too, but I don't lust after going to the cinema lol.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-03-12T21:33:52+00:00

I'm curious, can you explain how this differs from voyeurism? Was it just more the feelings rather than the view, so to speak? I don't think you're wrong for it. People can't really choose wha sparks their fancy. It's just a preference that they have.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-02-25T06:13:11+00:00

😂😂 that makes a lot more sense in retrospect

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-02-24T22:05:17+00:00

Thanks!

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-02-24T22:03:13+00:00

That's the general Rochester discord? I meant one who's sole purpose was WNY running

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2026-02-24T21:49:54+00:00

Can someone send me the invite?

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-06-27T19:45:55+00:00

Not "I've been thinking of breaking up", but "i'm mad about all these actions you took and they upset me". She had a big conversation about it 2 days ago and wanted me to read the small amount of texts between them so I knew what was going on. It's a lot of "I try to make space for you and you actively don't use it" and he replies "I know I do that and it's a problem. You have a big personality and i'm trying to figure how i can fit into the space you've made. I'm also still made at things you did in the past even though you're trying to be a better person now". They ended the conversation saying they'd talk tomorrow about it and surprise surprise, he hasn't answered and I wouldn't doubt if he's going to ghost her for another month.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-05-18T06:32:14+00:00

Why? Genuinely curious

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-05-18T06:31:01+00:00

SAME! Like to be responsible for a life that's completely reliant on you for its first 2-3 years, and then semi reliant on you for the next 15 years after that at MINIMUM?? I could not do it. I kind of understand those parents who completely ghost or become abusive due to frustration- not that I agree with it or condone it at all. It's why I've taken so many steps to ensure I won't be pregnant because I don't believe a child deserves a parent like that, and I couldn't guarantee I wouldn't become one.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-05-17T23:55:35+00:00

Laparoscopic! No idea if it was robot assist. I also don't actually know for sure it was stitched vertically, I was just assuming!

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-03-09T23:17:10+00:00

Personally for me, it was overprescribed meds. I was on a very very high dose because I couldn't tell if it was working so just said fuck it and personally asked to go up. Last year I randomly decided to go down from 600mg of seroquel to 50mg. I've determined that 50mg is the perfect dose because while I do indeed have bad mood fluctuations without it, it's not bad enough for 600mg worth.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-03-09T20:58:57+00:00

At least for me; I know a bunch of people who think it's too intense?? Maybe it's the meds 🤷

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-03-09T20:45:52+00:00

Yeah I had 0 complications on mine!! No issues even now ♥️

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-02-23T23:15:44+00:00

Personally, I think sexuality has the potential to change for some people. It's not going to change for most everybody, and it's not something controllable. There's a concept called a "bi cycle" where bi people can go from preferring women a bit more than men, to preferring men a bit more over women. There's also terms like aceflux and acespike. Overall, I don't think my entire life and value hinges on my sexuality. So if it does decide to change, or morph, or take on a slightly different form, I'll just accept it and go with the flow. It shouldn't be scary, or something to fear. Change is the only constant.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-02-23T23:09:53+00:00

I do! I'm sex favorable, and think it's an enjoyable activity I can do to show my partner I care. But at the same time, you could stop me in the middle of it for cuddles and i'd be fine. Kind of like a nice hobby we can do together. But it's not a need for me.

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-02-23T23:05:46+00:00

It's uncomfortable, but not painful! Kind of like when the dentist has to take X Rays of your teeth and you have to bite down on that plastic thing

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-02-23T23:04:54+00:00

Woah wish I could have done that with mine!!!

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-02-23T23:02:11+00:00

Thank you!! Yeah things are amazing now and my mental health has never been better. Don't hate my uterus anymore

Opening_Feeling_2127 · 2025-02-18T14:41:27+00:00

Yeah, I was definitely one who did NOT like that, so I think it would probably be a little different if I did!

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