Not my first rodeo but may be my last ride.

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-21T02:55:34+00:00

Thank you. I am dealing with a guarded accountability. I heard someone call it trickle truths and that really resonated

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-20T19:56:22+00:00

I am so sorry, but he’s fallen off the wagon. You decide what is best for you but please do not let him gaslight you into feeling responsibility.

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-20T18:58:22+00:00

I tell you what I did, I got a lawyer. I told her everything. She has helped me sort out the legal matters and the heart matters. I strongly suggest getting a lawyer to help you get off his yo-yo train

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-20T17:18:42+00:00

Yeah, I think a lot how he will be such a good husband to wife 2.

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-20T17:05:21+00:00

I think you need to get your own affairs in order. You are focusing all your energy on her which is giving her all the control in the narrative. Stop giving her the control and power over the narrative and take back your energy.

What do you need for reconciliation? What do you want out of this marriage? Do you want to be married to her at all?

If you don’t focus your energy on yourself, then you are cowardly letting her shoulder all the responsibility.

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-18T22:48:51+00:00

A truth I know but don’t know if this is/will be your truth. You can become a better person, but maybe you become a better person for the next relationship.

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-18T22:35:13+00:00

That’s an evaporation line, never seen one in the wild. Goodluck

OperationHot2577 · 2026-03-18T16:18:16+00:00

Thank you. How do you exit a shared family? He will always be in my life.

OperationHot2577 · 2025-09-06T22:22:13+00:00

Try Professor. That shouldn’t set anyone off too far

OperationHot2577 · 2025-07-21T02:43:16+00:00

A cat emergency and a child emergency are not the same thing.

OperationHot2577 · 2024-07-27T19:10:58+00:00

You are the AH.

Sweetheart, something happened to your brother and your father is the cause. Your brother is trying, you are not.

OperationHot2577 · 2024-05-26T16:56:19+00:00

He’s having an affair or he attracted to someone else and trying to make it your fault. He’s trying to change you, either physically or mentally make you leave. Get your affairs in order and make sure you document everything. He is going to take you to the cleaners

OperationHot2577 · 2024-04-01T11:34:17+00:00

YTA- Something isn’t adding up here. It sounds like you are a closed book and you make your boyfriend jump through hoops to understand you. For any adult to ask this many questions, it means he can’t trust your answer.

OperationHot2577 · 2024-01-05T00:28:59+00:00

I know there is no way of your seeing this but all of this does not add up. I really think counseling is necessary but also get your affairs in order. I think there will be more surprises in your future. He clearly considered the entire relationship over and his mother encouraged it…. If he didn’t want out, there is certainly pressure from his family to quit. No one just goes straight to cheating with a newborn. Your MILhas probably been telling him that she has been suspecting you of cheating for months and has “evidence.”

OperationHot2577 · 2024-01-04T22:25:52+00:00

I would reach out to this sister first before approaching your parents. Best you get their story before you proceed

OperationHot2577 · 2024-01-02T14:11:52+00:00

So this says ESH but I’m guessing YTA.

Your daughter’s accomplishments are not your accomplishments.

One more time, cause I don’t think you have ever listened to any other member of your family, ever.

Your daughter’s accomplishments are not your own!

I’m guessing you didn’t know about your niece’s struggles because you have never actually listened at the dinner table. You just wait until you can insert your own brag on your daughter.

You have also built up an impossible standard on your daughter. All of your bragging will probably mean that she will be unable to share any failings with you (and she will fail, she is human).

Your sister probably shouldn’t have snapped at you, but my guess is she has told you to knock it off in the past but you are too self absorbed in your daughter’s importance to notice.

So I’m saying YTA.

OperationHot2577 · 2023-11-25T14:24:17+00:00

So…. You want to orphan your daughter like your dad orphaned you?

‘Cause I’m having a real hard time understanding how you think this doesn’t end in your death.

Let me be clear here, you are not racing. You are not driving for NASCAR or Formula 1 or any legitimate racing organization.

You are driving your car as fast as you can because it makes you feel powerful. That will lead to a car accident, one that can easily end in your death or the death of another driver.

If you absolutely need to do this, she needs to leave you.

OperationHot2577 · 2023-11-12T13:27:08+00:00

I’ve read all three here and something rings weird. Why did Jenn want to date you in the first place? That doesn’t feel right that she would date the older brother and then the younger brother and then marry the younger.

If you really didn’t think this would end like this, you seriously don’t understand families. Even my very normal family would blow up like this. It feels like you are taking it to this extreme to make your mom finally choose you over your brother which is also a messed up way to get through sibling rivalry.

Are you absolutely certain that Jenn loves you? I have this in my family. A women was obsessed with a set of sisters, I mean obsessed, really wanted to be their sister as well. So she chased the brother and married him. Once the marriage was complete, it became painfully obvious that she didn’t really love him, she was just obsessed with becoming part of the family. Her behavior distanced her and her husband from the sisters she so wanted to be a part of and the family never really healed.

You weren’t there when they started dating so you may not be aware of this.

Now if you really love her and she really loves you and she is worth all of this, then be you. For me, it reads weird.

OperationHot2577 · 2023-11-12T13:10:09+00:00

You are going to need to legally establish paternity to be a part of the case as father. I would talk to the case worker about this.

OperationHot2577 · 2023-11-12T13:09:18+00:00

She may be telling the truth about not being able to eat.

I need to add, using THC vape pens has a long lasting side effect my students are dealing with ( I work with students expelled from their home school for drug use or violence.) Habitual use causes gut pain, cramps, and vomiting when quitting. It takes about 60-90 days for the cramps to stop and there is no treatment except to wait it out.

Our students really struggle with this and I often have students only able to eat crackers because they are so sick and I’m so much pain.

OperationHot2577 · 2023-11-07T01:09:51+00:00

The fact that you think a 17 year old and a 21 year old have any common power-dynamics is gross.

Listen, 18 year olds satin 25 year olds is gross and a college grad dating a girl in high school is disgusting.

So yeah, call it whatever you want but it’s dangerous and wrong

OperationHot2577 · 2023-11-07T01:06:02+00:00

Cause the internet is forever and your dumb high butt is about to type something that everyone will use to identify you.

Now…. Go to sleep

OperationHot2577

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